SRH2323 informing you that I listened to your advice.
Question Posted Wednesday June 8 2011, 1:36 pm
Well, he is on his way out. yesterday we got in an argument over money....my bank is neg 116, and i had 100 on me that i wanted to put in my bank.....he said that makes me so dumb bc we need to pay our phone bill, i said wed be fine til friday, he kept turning up his music when I tried to talk, I told him, do it one more time and I am shutting the damn thing off....he did it, i shut it off. He threw a frisbee golf disc very hard and it just missed me, I ran to grab my daughter and leave....infront of my daughter he threw me into the stairs bruising my neck, scraping my arm and spraining my pinky. it is purple and hard to move but it isnt broken. He kept trying to talk about it yesterday I kept telling him to get the fuck out im over it. I let him sleep downstairs last night but sent him a detailed message today letting him know he has to leave today or I have no choice but to involve police & family. I told him that i will have full custody until my daughter is no longer scared of him and I can trust that he will take good care of her. Until then, I want child support and he can have supervised visitation.
Do yourself a favour - tell your family right away. Don't wait for him to respond or behave even worse. Make sure your immediate family knows what is going on so he can't get to them and twist the facts or beg for sympathy. Even if you only tell them "He has crossed the line and physically assualted me and I have asked him to leave. Please support my decision and respect this choice." it will help them know how to respond to him if he does or says stupid things to them. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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