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How can you get a guy to like you?
Ok I was just wondering how do you get a guy to notice and look at you like when you pass them in the hallway? like to make them notice you and wanna talk. Cuz there is there are some really cute guys at my school but I only see them in the hallway so yeah! please help!!(: Thanks!!
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Be cool, calm and collected. Haha! Dont try too hard, it'll make you look desperate, then guys will just use you then dump you. Trust me on this, I have an older brother and I see him do it all the time.
~Gracie~
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This is tough because adolescence is a festival of mutual insecurity. So even if you bump into someone in the hall he may not get the message you like him in a boyfriend/girlfriend kind of way.
The other thing, though, is that you don't really know these guys at all, but are merely reacting to their looks and then projecting some kind of image on to them. This can be a setup for disappointment (the guy night turn out to be a total pig). So just relax and let things develop organically without forcing the issue. If it is meant to be it is meant to be and if it isn't it isn't.
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Its always the hardest thing when you like someone... but you have no idea who they are and you have no connection with them.
Im a guy, and its been hard to get girls who i didnt know. Its easier to attract your crush when you know them a little bit, (friend-of-a-friend), you work with them, you sit next to them in class, church group, etc. But when you have absolutely no connection with them.. its hard.
I had a girlfriend, but we broke up last week, she dumped me over the phone. Anywyas, i didnt know her at all. I only saw her in the library every day at breaktime. What i did was that i literally stared at her all the time, smied at her whenever she looked, walked past her to make myself noticeable. Thats what you have to do, make yourself noticed.
Then what i did was that i asked my friends if they knew her, and i said "wow, she is so hot...."
I kept doing that. Added her on Facebook outta nowhere, asked for her number outta nowhere, and then bam, we started a relationship.
It all depeneds on the guy:) it should be kinda clear if he is not interested.
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"accidentally" bump into him and look at him, smile, then say "oops i'm sorry!" touch his arm if you want ;)
or you can pretend to drop something like a pencil and see if he makes a move to pick it up.
Or pretend you need to ask him something important like what the homework was or if he knows your friend. Use an excuse to talk to him :)
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