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I'm think I'm ugly because my face is VERY long.
I think I'm ugly. I have a good body (as people tell me), I'm skinny, so that's in my favor. I don't have bad acne like a lot if my friends (no offense to them) but mine us very mild to none. I have freckles but they are fading and I've started accepting them. My nose is weird but I get it from my parents. I'm not real worried about my nose I learned to live with that too. But my face is so long!!!!! It's terrrible!!!!!! It's makes me want to cry hysterically when I see pictures of me! When I look in the mirror it looks round but it's not in pictures or real life. And because of my face I will never be that hot girl (not that I really care) just my face shape is soooooo long!!!
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You did not give your age but I'm going to guess you are in your early to mid teens. If I am correct then my immediate advice is not to be so hard on yourself as your body is still changing and filling out. While the over all shape of your face may not change all that much the features of your face can change to balance your looks some. Also the way you wear your hair can help your over all facial look. Frankly this is all irrelevant as you get older looks get less important.
Right now everyone is caught up with their looks. Guys are looking to go out with the hottest looking girls and girls want to go out with all the Jocks; that is high school. As you get older and look to settle down and start a life with someone you start to look past these things. Guys are not looking for the proverbial dumb blond; they want a women who will support their career, raise their children and make a home for him and their family. Girls are looking for men that will be good providers, husbands and fathers. That means that as you grow older the class nerd or bookworm becomes more attractive than the jock or dumb blond. Yes it is understood that the women may want a career of her own, still the basic tenets of family values exist and that is what is looked for.
This has not changed since just about time began. Your mom went through this as did your dad. My wife and I went through this and we are probably old enough to be your grandparents.
From your description of yourself you sound to me as if you are a pretty young lady. Experiment with hair styles if you want to soften your features. Try some make up if you want, but just a little. Don't hide those pretty freckles. I use to love dating girls with freckles. I would play connect the dots with them.
My advice: Relax and do not obsess over the way you look. You are young and still maturing and your body is still changing. Talk with your mother about hair styles and make up or see a professional hair stylist for advice. But most of all, relax and enjoy being you and being a teenager.
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Hey. Don't worry. Everybody has things that they don't like about themselves. Nobody's perfect. That's life.If you think your face is too long you could maybe try bangs that could help. My face is kinda long too I guess and I HATE my nose and I have small lips and a small chest and butt and I'm tall and really skinny so I know how you feel. There are some days when I look in the mirror and I hate the way I look. There's soo many things I wish I could change but I just remind myself that everyone has flaws and everybody feels that way sometimes. Just focus on what you like about yourself. You sound like a pretty girl to me. What you see as ugly may be beautiful to somebody else. Good Luck and I hope I helped! ~Gracie~
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