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absolutely shattered.
im 18/f hes 19/m
im absolutely gutted right now. recently, up until this morning, ive had the most amazing, wonderful and deep conversations with the guy i like. I opened myself up to him more then anyone before. He told me secrets that not even his best friend knows. We have so much in common that we were actually genuinely stunned to even find someone with so many similarities. He would keep telling me how he cant believe we have so much in common, he even said that it was getting to a point it was scaring him, yet he says its the most amazing thing ever. We would send each other cute messages, and made plans to go out on this saturday night, provided that the area wasn't flooded (due to living in Queensland, Australia where there is serious flooding at the moment). Anyway last night he told me to text him again tomorrow.
So i did as he requested, and texted him, being all cute again like the night before. Only for him to be responding to me all weirdly...he didn't even reply to the last text i sent him. he told me he was super bored and dying from trying to think of a new band name. But still just because he's trying to think of a band name shouldn't mean he's not able to talk to me. So anyway, feeling a bit rejected i hopped onto my face book. I was really upset because i really really fell for him and he was just acting so strange to me... so i was updating my status with lyrics and whatnot, whilst texting my best friend telling her how i think i ruined it with him, even though i have no idea what i've done. Next minute i get 3 notifications, all from him. two of them were liking my status (one about me wanting to put glow in the dark stars on my roof, from the previous night before, and one status i only just updated with the lyrics 'don't waste your time on me your already the voice inside my head, blink 182 sesh in my room <3) Then he commented on that status with the lyrics from that song, saying "dump weed will be the next song you play.... it better be! >:( " I hadn't listened to this song before so i put it on, i was even more confused that he put an angry face at the end of it since last night i was getting love hearts from him.
I looked up the meaning of the song to find out that its about a guy who falls into a relationship only to realise that he's gone in too deep and wants to get out...so this made me even more upset. I just don't understand i did...or what happened to make him go from being so cute with me, and flirty with me, to completely weird towards me. I really don't know what to do...
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I think what you should do is ask him what you did
wrong you deserve a explaination to why he acted the way he did him not letting you know and leaving you to guess for yourself is wrong he owes you a explaination at least that much maybe it seemed like he lost interest in you because he was frustrated because he couldn't think of a name for his band he could of reacted that way because of the lyrics you posted which started out don't waste your time on me he could of taken what was said seriously there could of been other reasons but those are some suggestions your best option is ask him why he did what he did and try to resolve the situation you have a right to know why he acted like he was avoiding you so you don't continue to guess and end up not knowing the truth you can't make something work that isn't meant to be everything happens for a reason just because this didn't work out the way you would of liked doesn't mean that the next boy you meet will be the same their all different anything can happen & anything is possible :)
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Just ask him about it. Ask him why he is acting that way. Maybe he is afraid of getting into relationship and getting up hurt or ruining the friendship. Boys act weird to hide their emotions. Just ask him.
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