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How can a plain, kinda ugly girl (3-4 out of 10) look a bit better?


Question Posted Wednesday January 12 2011, 11:39 am

So, I would honestly rate myself maybe a 3 or 4. That's what my (thankfully very honest) guy friends have said as well. Now before you get on to them, I am best friends with these guys and I begged them for honesty, so it's not like they randomly said, "Damn, you're ugly." ya know?

Anyways, I know at that rating it's impossible to be "pretty" on the outside, but I was just wondering, what are some things to look more presentable, closer to the "5" average?

Weight loss? Something different with my hair? I've been told there's really not much I can do and it's a matter of my face just "doesn't work." I have heard that I have a cute smile and pretty eyes though, so I figure maybe there's hope?

Any advice would be appreciated. Comments from trolls will simply be laughed at. :)


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JennaL333 answered Wednesday January 12 2011, 3:56 pm:
I think the best way to be beautiful is to get some self confidence. Smile, hold your head up high, and feel good, and you'll already be up to a 7, if you must rate yourself. Every girl is beautiful on the inside, and if you remember that and let your inner beauty shine through, you'll be beautiful on the outside too :)

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thelaura answered Wednesday January 12 2011, 3:42 pm:
This is why you should never ask people to rate you! Some guys might think you're incredibly attractive, whereas others won't - that's life - not everyone likes the same things. Everyone is different in their own, individual way - you should be happy everyone's not clones :)

Anyway! Weight loss? Well, do you need to lose weight? If so, definitely. May I also suggest, tone up for summer. Working out makes you glow and look radiant, as well as look better and get fit.

Something different with your hair? Yes! Go for it. A lot of the time, girls feel boring and "ugly" if they've looked the same for a while. Changing yourself up boosts your confidence. Hair dye, cut, can't go wrong. :)

I'd really love to see a picture of you to help with the make up side of things, but you didn't add one. There's endless possibilities with make up. It's all about finding what works for YOU, which shades look good with your skin/hair, etc, so experiment. Good eyebrows also help structure the face, so if they're in need of a pluck, or perhaps you overplucked and are in need of an eyebrow pencil, groom away.

How about your clothes? Are you in need of a change/new style? Clothes help boost everyones confidence!

If you need any help, with anything in particular, feel free to inbox away!

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