I am a female senior in highschool and I currently like a guy who is a freshman. He's three years younger than me. Is that wrong? What should I do? I'm afraid to tell anybody because I think I'll get teased, but on the other hand I really like the guy and hes way mature for his age :) Help! Im so confused.
jujubeann answered Tuesday November 9 2010, 4:12 pm: I think that since your a senior you should just stay good friends with this freshman because next year you will be going to college and there will be SOOOO many more guys out there. [ jujubeann's advice column | Ask jujubeann A Question ]
xxemilyfeil answered Saturday November 6 2010, 1:38 pm: If you really like him, it shouldn't matter what your friends and his friends think. The age difference isn't weird. I've seen it a lot in my school, and its not a very rare situation. If you like him a lot, don't worry about what other people think. :)
Answers answered Saturday November 6 2010, 3:44 am: If you think this is the right guy, don't worry about getting teased. You might end up getting married and having children and those rude kids who tease you won't matter anymore.
If they tease you, it is cause they are jealous. As soon as they see you happy together, they will realise how wrong they are to tease you. If they continue doing it, they are not worth worrying about.
thelost answered Friday November 5 2010, 5:30 pm: dont worry about bein teased they wont keep it up forever trust me.go ahead and ask him out if hes available and chances are he will say yes [ thelost's advice column | Ask thelost A Question ]
iwantthetruth answered Tuesday November 2 2010, 11:39 pm: Hello!
I can definitely relate to this and don't find it "wrong" at all! (I'm biased) We can't control what age people are, when they were born, etc. If he's so amazing then you should definitely go for it. Imagine if you were a freshman and a senior liked you. I know a couple that lasted years after high school and they were the same ages as you and this boy. They went to prom together and everything, very cute indeed. I think it would be very flattering to be liked by someone older, so if anything, this boy should feel honored :). I don't think that you'll be teased. Just tell your closest friends about it, and maybe...tell him as well. I don't know how close you two are, but it would be good to ask him to hang out sometime or just to try to be closer to him first. Go for it! YAY!
tay030693 answered Tuesday November 2 2010, 6:58 pm: If you like him go for it. I liked a sophomore and im a senior. It wasnt the best results but i dont really have any shame. I thought the same thing i didnt want to get teased or anything but my friends thought that it was cute. If you feel like he is mature enough then go head. Its not wrong as long as you realize that they arent fully mature as senior can be. Since you said he is mature than i think its fine. You cant help your feelings so go for it [ tay030693's advice column | Ask tay030693 A Question ]
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