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What are the chances of a condom breaking, or failing? (link)
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ive heard pretty close to 99 pecent soyou shouldnt have to worry
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I'm sorry, I've posted my love life questions over and over again but I don't know what to do. I just need help.
My boyfriend used to be so sweet to me. He used to shower me with compliments and make me feel so happy and so loved. He is the first guy that I've felt strongly for in a long time. We get along so great but lately our relationship has been on a rough track. He ignored me all day Thursday and I got very worried. Long story short he was out drinking and got mad at me when I was only concerned. So today I really was depressed. He ignored my call when we were supposed to make plans to see each other today. He's changed so much since when we first started dating. He's very short and blunt with me and he doesn't compliment me or reassure my doubtful feelings. All he says is, "we're fine" or "sorry". We talked about it and he said I am getting too clingy and he doesn't like that I got upset when he didn't talk to me on Thursday. I told him I'm sorry and I just am naturally a very loving person that cares too much. (My therapist told me since I was abandoned as a child I always get attached easily and care too much and I need to stop doing so..) I told him we'd work on it and that's that, but I would like if he puts some effort in making me feel appreciated too.
I'm probably going to see him later tonight but I need to grow out of my clingy tendency. Please help... (link)
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well tobe honesy growing out of abandonment issues is a real bitch (excuse my language) but it is, and im not speaking from a therapist standpoint. I am actually a victim of it and i tend to feel like other people aren't clingy enough for me , so maybe u need to find someone clingy like you or just dont tell your boyfriends about the way you feel and try to not act concerned and maybe just tell a friend you can trust and stuff like that .. i hoped i helped
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Hi. My husband and I had a baby in 1998. She died at five days old and never made it home from the hospital (long story). We had another pregnancy in 2004, but he died at 5 months gestation. We aren't able to try again. The hospital took photos of our daughter after she died as a keepsake. They were very caring. We sent a photo later to my parents and in-laws and have one framed at home. My mother displays Katie's photo very prominently, and for some reason this doesn't feel right, especially after so many years. Katie's face is greyblue and it reminds me of her last day and our pain, and I just can't look at it. I keep my copy where I can look if I have the urge, but I just couldn't keep it out where I'd see it all the time. I think Mom has hers out as a tribute, but it feels like time to put it away and replace it with a photo of another, living grandchild. Should I ask her to remove it or do you think this is still appropriate in her home? Thanks! (link)
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id let them keep it ...you can never pay too much respect to the dead anyway
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Okay, I have bowl problems and I'm constipated a lot. I usually take extra fiber to help me but lately I haven't had the money to buy any. I've tried eating high fiber foods but it doesn't help all that much. But that's not my question is: lately ill have the feeling come that I need to poop but when I go try all that come out is this thick white sticky substance. What is this and what can I do to stop it. (link)
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are you on diet pills cuz if you are they may cause you to poop out or excrete white thick gunk that is helping you to lose wait but im not sure
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i'm 18 and still a virgin. i'm definetly not ashamed of it, actually i'm kinda proud. its not like i'm ugly, actually alot of people are surprised or don't believe me that i'm still a virgin i just refuse to give my virginity to someone who doesn't deserve it and i haven't met anyone worth giving it to yet (i know i'm old fashioned but whatever). i've had a few boyfriends and definetly many opportunities but i just didn't want to. but i feel like everyone my age and even a little younger has had sex. when i hang out with certain friends thats all they talk about. i mean somethings i can contribute because i've done everything else except actual intercourse. but i just feel like i'm alone. is there anyone out there my age virgins? (link)
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tons of ppl are that are your age and its perfectly fine ...you lose it when your good and ready not when some guy wants you to.and maybe its just the certain friends your hanging out with have had it but i bet atleast one is lying and your not alone trust me
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Is Harry Potter for real?
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no hes an actor
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for the halloween series where it goes halloween halloween I, II III, 4, 5, curse of myers, h20 and resurection.. are the new halloween I and II supposed to be the remake of the original I II III 4 and 5? or are they different?
what would make the complete set in order to buy it?
the new I and II resuraction and h20? (link)
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they are pretty much remakes of the first two and to have a complete set i guess you just need all the movies but thats just a guess
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Have you had sex yet im just wondering because im a 14 year old girl and i dont know if its too early or not and ur young too so have you or would you at this age? (link)
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i havent had sex yet....but then again im the creepy goth kid who scares people but some kids my age and like a year younger have had sex and in my opinion its too early but thats only because your not really developed as well as you will be and all that but morally ..yeah its okay so if i were you i would go ahead and do it if thats what you wanted to know
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Iv been talking to my bf online for the last few months and hes great.I had him on facebook for a while befor I moved here and it just so hapens that hes 2 hours from where I am now.The problem is we havnt met yet.And I feel so stupid because it seems like I just keep geting me hopes up that we will and it never happens.I love him I really do,but it hurts not to be able to see him.I hae been faithfull threw this which is so weird because im a nympho and I hate not being able to let out all the sexuall frustration I have.My point is should I give up and move on or should I just let my heart break even more. (link)
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ok its gonna be hard but either u could ask him how serious all this is and if u could ever meet him and see how that goes or you could break it off and get on with your life and have a little heartbreak instead of alot later on ....good luck
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Is 8years too long to wait for marriage (link)
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ok yes but then again why get married ..its only gonna change the legal stuff and cuase trouble down the road anyway...just live together and share money and everything else married people do and dont complicate it if things go bad with having to have a divorced filed and all that trouble so i would just keep it how it is but thats just me.
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Lately I have begun to lose faith in my religion and it's starting to bother me because I feel less protected, less comfortable. Kind of alone? What do you do when you lose faith in your religion? Any tips?
(I won't say my religion because I don't particularly think it matters... I'm sure a lot of people from a lot of different religions lose faith after a bit, but come back to it.) (link)
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well ur not gonna like my answer but when i lost faith i converted and i never went back.im undecided right now and im actually ok with it.how are you supposed to know wat the real truth is anyway ...just if you start to lose faith your not gonna be able to change wat happens to you so you should accept it as soon as possible
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I am a female senior in highschool and I currently like a guy who is a freshman. He's three years younger than me. Is that wrong? What should I do? I'm afraid to tell anybody because I think I'll get teased, but on the other hand I really like the guy and hes way mature for his age :) Help! Im so confused. (link)
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dont worry about bein teased they wont keep it up forever trust me.go ahead and ask him out if hes available and chances are he will say yes
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Okay i am a female of 17 years. for about a year now i have trouble sleeping, either i cant get to sleep or i wake up 2-3 times a night. The only time I sleep throught the night is when my boyfriend stays with me, but i wake up early. Its not very often that he does. Do i have insomnia or could this be something else (link)
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well if it is isnsominia something could be bothering your subconscience or whatever that word is...but you could just consume too mech sugar or caffiene so watch what you eat or drink and try and eat a bowl of cereal before you go to bed
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me and my boyfriend had sex and now he is all wierd around me like at my house we always have to make out and we have sex alot and even at school he makes out with me im not saying its a bad thing i just dont like it at school what should i do (link)
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just tell him your uncomfortable doing that at school and he just might be a sex addict but im not really..i dont know..sure i guess.im 13 dont take everything i say to your grave ok.
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My first boyfriend ever dumped me a while ago and im still hungup on him.He wants to be friends and stuff so ofcourse I don't want to deny friendship.He was sick for a week and i didn't see him and i didnt forget about him but i definatly made more progress without seeing him and talking to him. (except one of the days he was gone,he had Imed me on the computer).But today,after 7 days he returned to school and I had to see him and all my feelings came back.I can't avoid seeing him entirely because I have a class with him and he sits right in front of me and talks to me all period.Then after class,walks me to my locker then walks me to my next class.And says hi to me at lunch.I don't want to be mean and ignore him because im still crazy for him and he's still friendly and nice to me and we get a long so good.But ofcourse since he was my boyfriend,i still like him and he obviously doesnt feel the same way about me anymore.He told me when he broke up with me that i was the first girl he's ever liked and im the most amazing girl ever...So since that..i still have hope even though it probably won't happen anymore.When we are all in a group together,i try not to talk to him but just him being there in my presence on a daily basis in class is enough for me to like him! i just want to get over him! (link)
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ok hers what you do you just tell him you need time to get over him and arent mad at him or anything and he should understand
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Fourteen years ago, I was baptized Catholic. I attended a Catholic school from kindergarten to second grade. Aside from that I never went regularly to church, still don't. In the beginning of third grade I moved and attended public school. However, about a year ago I started doubting my religion. I did my share of research and found it that ,maybe, Catholicism wasn't the religion for me. So I declared myself agnostic, I still do. I still am very unsure of what to believe. Anyways, when I tried to 'clue' it to my mom she exploded and TOLD me I was Catholic and that God WAS real. Pretty much forcing this upon me. I believe that religion is a personal thing and that a person should not force it onto you (like baptism). I respect my mother and the Catholic church and their beliefs. I just so happen not to believe the same as them. So what I wanted advice on is my mother. Should I just not even try to get her to understand me? We usually get along fine, it's just the topic of religion that we have our different views on.
I would appreciate it if your respected my views as I do yours, so please don't bash me. (link)
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ok.i have the same problem that im agnostic.only im deep in the south with a bunch of rednecks who dont have respect for others belief and force theirs on you.and being young i had problems with people telling me to go to church or question my religion.but they werent mean or nothing just ignorant.so dont bother with your mom just like i dont and dont bring it up and you two will be just fine
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19/f.
I'm still a virgin but I'm planning to have sex soon. The thing is i've been on birth control probably for 2yrs now for my period and other things. I'm afraid that the guy will be like "ohhh we don't need a condom your on birth control!" but I definitely want to be as safe as I can and use both. I know the guy shouldn't care if I asked him, but I'm a bit worried. What if we're in the moment and I'm like wait do you have a condom? And he's like no, we don't need one. I'd feel like a total idiot but I'm not doing it without one!! I know guys hate wearing them but better then getting pregnant right? :)
So basically, how can I convince him (if he doesn't want to, i'm not sure yet..) to wear a condom even though I'm still on birth control?
thanks!!:) (link)
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simple...dont tell him your on birth control
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I have a best friend that also got invited to a Halloween party I'm going to be attending and we thought it would be really cool to dress alike. Like twins or something...someone that goes together. We are both girls and we want something fun that everyone will like. We already decided we don't want to do the angel/devil thing so please don't suggest that one. What are some really cool ideas? (link)
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YOU could go as prisoners and be shackled together
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22/F
Over the last few years, I've been in a huge battle with depression. I failed out of university, lost contact with my family, and almost lost my boyfriend. Things were awful.
It's only been a year and a half since I was hospitalized, but since then I've been healing at an incredible rate. I'm finally happy again; I'm in school, talking to friends and family again, and enjoying life. I've beat the beast, and I want to commemorate all that I've done somehow.
I feel like I've been through so much, and it just doesn't show on the outside. I want something, even if I'm the only one who knows what it means, that externalizes the strength I feel and the pain I've gone through to get to where I am.
I think a great way to do this would be to get a tattoo. Now, I'm not an ink and piercings kind of gal. I wouldn't get a tattoo unless I was 100% sure that it was important to me. You are marring your body permanently, after all.
I'm thinking small. The main idea I have is to have "Veni, Vidi, Vici" (I came, I saw, I conquered) done in a nice script, somewhere hidden.
Now for my questions:
1) My boyfriend HATES the idea. He understands why I want to do it, but he just hates tattoos. He's even told me that he's okay with scarring (which I am far too squeamish for), but not tattooing. I don't want to put that on hold because of an aesthetic preference.
2) Any suggestions for design or placement? I don't want anything big or colourful. I want to keep it invisible, so no shoulderblades, ankles, wrists or tramp stamp areas.
3) If I don't get tattooed, does anyone have any other suggestions? I really want to do something for myself. Something permanent; not like a new outfit or a spa day. (link)
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well you actually can get rid of the tattoo when you get but keep in mind it hurts like bee stings.
I would get it on the arm so you could see it and i would do fancy/smokey look to the words and if your lookin for somthing permanent id go with the only other alternative i kno but dont recommend is well a brand but they hurt like hell so your call when i said your arm i meant under your sleeve so you could see it only when you want and when your old you probably wouldnt wear no sleeves
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This question is mainly for the guys:
I'm female/16 and I really like this guy. He's from Egypt, but he's lived in the states now for over 5 years. He's 18, and we both go to the same school. I can tell he's starting to like me as more than a friend, but there's a problem. He has a girlfriend in Egypt that he got when he went back last summer to visit family.
Would it be completely ridiculous to believe he'd dump her if he started liking me, or knew I liked him? I mean, I know she's of his culture and he must like her, but now he's countries away, and he's not moving back to Egypt. Ever. He just visits. I'm here. And I don't want to give up on him because we're so great together. I know he likes me...
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its not ridiculous because if u dont see someone but every year or so than it might not be enough so it could end and if you know he likes you than "ask him out" unless your shy then get a not so close friend and get them to say "do you like so and so" but if hes says yes say ok or whatever but if he says no then get them to say just wondering
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