Member Since: September 22, 2009
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Last Update: September 23, 2009
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Hey! 14/f
Well, ok i was dating this older guy ( Jimmy)well he's a freshmen and im a 8th grader so its not that bad, but well i thought we were in a good relation ship he treated me pretty good, well until he unexpectedly broke up with me because he THOUGHT i was cheating on him which i don't know where the hell he got that from! I was ONLY dating him, i fell hard for this guy when we first met and i thought we were meant 4 each other. Apparently not. :/ Soo i want to know H.O.W do i stop thinking about him? Just last night i started crying on the phone with my best friend because she played jimmy and i's song (well use to be song.. hanging by a moment by life house :/) She said i cant help being sad over it he broke up with me without an explanation, but i feel bad for crying and missing him because i have a bf (Joey♥) He was the one who helped me stop crying.( he called JUST at the right time, when me and jimmy broke up. ) He was really caring and helped me, that day he called to ask me out,(you see i waited on him to ask me out,it took him 5 months to do it so i said yes♥) It's almost been a week sense we started dating and its going pretty good, but i ALWAYS start thinking about Jimmy again, even though its for about 5 minutes a couple times a day i still want to figure out how to stop. Sorry its so long haha help?
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Jimmy is obviously a jerkk.. If he thinks you were cheating, but you wern't then he obviously was too insecure in himself. If you still can't get over him after thinking about how he really is a jerk. Then talk to him. ASk him what went wrong. Now about Joey, if you still like Jimmy then don't string Joey along. It sounds like he's a good guy, but if you're still always thinking about Jimmy then Joey is just going to end up hurt in the end. Tell Joey that although he's a great guy, it's just not the right time for you guys because you still kinda like Jimmy. Tell him you want to be friends ( iknow cheesy) but actually mean it and try to develop the relationship with him that he wants. And you're still super young! IN about 5 years you'll probably forget the people you see everyday, so just have fun in high svhool and junior high! good luck :D
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Ok, I'm 17, and there's this girl in one of my classes, and I think I like her, I mean, I think about her a lot, and I'm always in a better mood after I see her, she seems to brighten up my day, and I had a dream that we worked together and then we kissed... I'm not sure that if likes me or not, but should I tell her that I may have some feelings for her..? (link)
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Go for it! Tell her you like her! If she doesnt like you then you're 17, you're still young and there's plenty of other people out there! I hope the outcome is right for you! Tell me how it goess.
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I havent been texting or hanging out with the guy i like as much as i used to n the past few days hes been flirting n hangin out with me in gym. Today he asked me if i wanted to go out with him at first he meant it but when i said yes he paused n then said he was kidding. I dont know wether to call him a jerk n loose him or go along with it as a joke? : ( (link)
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He's a jerk.. I bet there's someone a hundred times better and sweeter out there for you. So, he's a jerk but if you can't get over it then tell him the truth about how you feel. Don't keep it inside because it will just get worse. If he's a jerk about it then drop him for someone sweet because chances are that guy is just around the cornor.
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