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how too stop thinking about my ex when i have a bf?
Hey! 14/f
Well, ok i was dating this older guy ( Jimmy)well he's a freshmen and im a 8th grader so its not that bad, but well i thought we were in a good relation ship he treated me pretty good, well until he unexpectedly broke up with me because he THOUGHT i was cheating on him which i don't know where the hell he got that from! I was ONLY dating him, i fell hard for this guy when we first met and i thought we were meant 4 each other. Apparently not. :/ Soo i want to know H.O.W do i stop thinking about him? Just last night i started crying on the phone with my best friend because she played jimmy and i's song (well use to be song.. hanging by a moment by life house :/) She said i cant help being sad over it he broke up with me without an explanation, but i feel bad for crying and missing him because i have a bf (Joey♥) He was the one who helped me stop crying.( he called JUST at the right time, when me and jimmy broke up. ) He was really caring and helped me, that day he called to ask me out,(you see i waited on him to ask me out,it took him 5 months to do it so i said yes♥) It's almost been a week sense we started dating and its going pretty good, but i ALWAYS start thinking about Jimmy again, even though its for about 5 minutes a couple times a day i still want to figure out how to stop. Sorry its so long haha help?
Thanks for reading! I appreciate it♥
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If you still have tears about it, cry, get it all out and while your dong that talk to yourself. Not like in a crazy way haha just say to youself: What made him more special than the boy I'm going out with now? And think about him until you get annoyed and say my new bf is way better. And if that don't work whenever you think about him think about your new boyfriend.
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Look you can't be in a relationship until you have yourself situated. You need to realize that Jimmy wasn't meant for you and now that you are with Joey its clear that you want him more than Jimmy. Get over it. Take a few moments get a picture of Jimmy curse it and burn it. Then you should feel better. If you don't then maybe you should look at all of the flaws Jimmy had. Every guy has flaws so don't say he's perfect. Maybe he was a sloppy kisser or too touchy. Just pick anything and ramble about it until you get it through your head that you deserve better.
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Jimmy is obviously a jerkk.. If he thinks you were cheating, but you wern't then he obviously was too insecure in himself. If you still can't get over him after thinking about how he really is a jerk. Then talk to him. ASk him what went wrong. Now about Joey, if you still like Jimmy then don't string Joey along. It sounds like he's a good guy, but if you're still always thinking about Jimmy then Joey is just going to end up hurt in the end. Tell Joey that although he's a great guy, it's just not the right time for you guys because you still kinda like Jimmy. Tell him you want to be friends ( iknow cheesy) but actually mean it and try to develop the relationship with him that he wants. And you're still super young! IN about 5 years you'll probably forget the people you see everyday, so just have fun in high svhool and junior high! good luck :D
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