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My name is Cami! I am a 15 year old campus cutie! I've been giving advice for years and I just know how love works. I've been through relationships from great ones to hellishness ones and I just know how to deal with situations in a mature way. If there's anything I can do to help just ask and I'll try my best to give you the best advice I come up with!! Love You All!!
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13 almost 14f

wow i have too many guys on my mind!! i still like my 2nd most recent ex, im in love with another ex, i REALLY REALLY like my boyfriend, and i have feelings for this other dude at my school!!! ughh i just don't know what i can do to get them off my mind. it seems like more guys just keep getting added to my confusion... any ideas??

thanks,

utterly confused chick

You need to get over it. I'm not trying to hurt your feelings or anything, but i don't think you know what love is. You can't be in love with more than one guy. That's just not how love works. You can love alot of guys, but you can only be in love with one. You gotta choose which one is the one you are IN LOVE with. Only you can decide that. Nobody on this website or anywhere can tell you what to do. Because its obvious that you already know that you need to choose one. You can still be friends with em all, but there's gotta be one that stands out more than the others.

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Hey! 14/f

Well, ok i was dating this older guy ( Jimmy)well he's a freshmen and im a 8th grader so its not that bad, but well i thought we were in a good relation ship he treated me pretty good, well until he unexpectedly broke up with me because he THOUGHT i was cheating on him which i don't know where the hell he got that from! I was ONLY dating him, i fell hard for this guy when we first met and i thought we were meant 4 each other. Apparently not. :/ Soo i want to know H.O.W do i stop thinking about him? Just last night i started crying on the phone with my best friend because she played jimmy and i's song (well use to be song.. hanging by a moment by life house :/) She said i cant help being sad over it he broke up with me without an explanation, but i feel bad for crying and missing him because i have a bf (Joey♥) He was the one who helped me stop crying.( he called JUST at the right time, when me and jimmy broke up. ) He was really caring and helped me, that day he called to ask me out,(you see i waited on him to ask me out,it took him 5 months to do it so i said yes♥) It's almost been a week sense we started dating and its going pretty good, but i ALWAYS start thinking about Jimmy again, even though its for about 5 minutes a couple times a day i still want to figure out how to stop. Sorry its so long haha help?

Thanks for reading! I appreciate it♥

Look you can't be in a relationship until you have yourself situated. You need to realize that Jimmy wasn't meant for you and now that you are with Joey its clear that you want him more than Jimmy. Get over it. Take a few moments get a picture of Jimmy curse it and burn it. Then you should feel better. If you don't then maybe you should look at all of the flaws Jimmy had. Every guy has flaws so don't say he's perfect. Maybe he was a sloppy kisser or too touchy. Just pick anything and ramble about it until you get it through your head that you deserve better.

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Im 11 female n theres this boy i like n he likes me too but he dated this girl n i got reli pissed cas i felt we were in a realationship, n since he dated this girl i strated crying n it felt like he reli broke my heart... but i still love him!! my older sis said he's dumb but i said w.e.. he said hes reli sry n he loves me now should i say yes or not? thanks for listening........

Say "NO!!" because if he can do this once then he can do it again. You may think he's an amazing guy now, but honey there are plenty of other guys who are sure to treat you better. You are just going to have to move on because it clear that this guy doesn't love you. He can say it all he wants, but it doesn't mean he actually means it. You have to listen to your heart and tell yourself you can do better. I'm sure he's not the only guy you admire. You should just keep your options open. Don't say yes. Girl that's just not smart at all. I hope I have helped in some way!!
♥Cami♥

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i mean she tells me she loves me all the time and all but when we got together we always spent time together and all but now we dont we used to talk on the phone for hours but now we might talk on the phone 5 mins and she says she will call me back in a min but she never does and she basically lives with me shes never stayed away from home but she stayed wit me for 2 months now and she say she misses her family but ive told her to go stay at home and she stays anyway but she makes excuses to get a way from me and when i call her phone she tells me her phone bill is real high bu tshe talks to other dudes for along time and she goes to another room to talk to them she wont talk to them in front of me what should i do

Confront her about it. Tell her that you are tired of her hiding things from you. If she misses her family tell her to get out or stop complaining about it. If she decides to get on the phone with other guys, wait until she gets off the phone and then get on the phone with another girl. Tell her you're too busy to talk to her right now because you're on the phone. Just give her a taste of her own medicine. And when you think she's had enough ask her how it feels to be neglected by someone you love. Then she'll see where you are coming from and most likely stop acting like an inconsiderate bitch. Hope I've been some kind of help!!
♥Cami♥

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My husband and I have been together for four years. I was afraid at first and I just did not know what to do with my self. My self confidence is not so good and I was always making him feel as if he was not important in my life just because of the way I felt. I really love him and I want to truely spend the rest of my life with him except he is in Puerto Rico and I am in New York. YEs, I left again. Now he wants nothing to do with me. We have two wonderful little girls together and he has two older daughters that adore me. He is 6 years older and I thought that he was the problem, but my insecurity was. What can I do? I want to be with him and he says that he does not want to be with me.

The best thing to do is to have a calm and quiet talk with him about how you've been feeling over the years. Get him to go out to dinner or something with you. Remind him why he fell for you in the first place. Take a moment to spend some quality time with him. Tell him the truth. Don't hold back. Try not to cry because the one thing men hate is crying women. So be calm and just call him and tell him you want to get together just to talk. It has nothing to do with the kids. Its just an old fashioned date. Keep it simple. If he takes you back be sure to do the right thing and stick it out. When hard times come you're gonna need each other. This is just another mountain God is waiting for you both to climb together!! In success!! I hope I've been helpful!!! Good Luck!!

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