ok so theres this guy lets call him jacob (not his real name) i really like him ...... for 3 years now i have been trying to pluck up the courage to ask him out but are always scared that he will say no i need advice on how to approach it suttly now just say it but do it in a sneaky way! kinda i guess...... im desprate please please please help me!!!
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Willyouregret answered Thursday February 3 2011, 8:24 pm: Okay so I've been there done that! I've liked guys for a long period of time and I've realized if they don't make the frost move then I just have to do it myself and once you do it you'll feel so releaved! Like I just recently asked this guy to a dance and I was so nervous because I in my mind was forcing me and you'll get that feeling of backing out but you just go to go for it and say it. But one thing you can't be afraid of the guy saying no I know that's everyones biggest fear but you'll learn to move on. Like I asked he said no I was upset but I was so happy that I did it and got it over with. Before you ask make sure you talk to him a lot give him obvious hints and do it whenever during the day and usually I would do it Friday it's the best day because over the weekend if he says yes you could spend time if not then just try to get over him( I know it'll be hard) just stay positive and do it good luck:) let me know what happen inbox for more questions.! [ Willyouregret's advice column | Ask Willyouregret A Question ]
tay030693 answered Thursday February 3 2011, 3:05 pm: well do you talk to him alot? if not then start talking to him! be yourself. thats the only way he will start to feel something. dont let your nerves get you down. i usually do stuff off of impulse. so when im nervous i just do it because i know im going to feel relieved when its all done. and if you do want to ask him do it! and if he doesnt like you i know it will be a bad feeling but just remember he wasnt good enough for you then and he wasnt the one and there arealways going to be cute guys out there. why do you wanna be sneaky? does he know you like him? if he does then just talk to him and if he doesnt then no need to be sneaky. plus guys like it if you are upfront. recently this guy told me to stop beating around the bush. so just be yourself. hoped this helped [ tay030693's advice column | Ask tay030693 A Question ]
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