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Okay basically:
I'm gay. I'm into this guy who is "confused". He has a girlfreind, but has liked a guy before. He always acts like he's flirting with me, and it confuses me so much. His girlfreind knows all about it, we talked it over, and she told me to talk to him about his feelings. I already tried talking to him about it, but I didn't get a straight (or gay, hee hee) answer out of him. I want to get this answer out of him, but I don't know how. I don't really want to flat out ask him, but that would be the best way because I'd get the result I want, but awkwardness after that. AND I have no clue how I'm going to get over this guy. I have so much hope about going out with him, but deep down I want to keep myself grounded... but many people say we'd do good together and that he's actually interested in me. I have no clue what I'm going to do. Oh, and he knows I'm gay and that I like him...
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One thing is for certain. You don't want a confused guy. You want one who is certain. If not you are looking at being hurt in the future.
What I would suggest is waiting. I know it is hard to do, but better he be certain before you jump into a relationship.
If he knows you are interested, (and be sure he does know you are), he knows you are gay, he will approach you if and when he makes up his mind.
I know that you know, some people are just curious,
others are scared. Give him time. You don't want
to start something only to have him change his mind later. :)
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Dude, I've been though like the exact same thing, it hurts i know. except im the guy in your story..lol. But what i've learned think about it is it going to be what you pictured. I mean what if you date him, then later he likes some girl, wheres that leave you. I've kinda been though it. so ya i know how it is. But im just going to tell you to follow what your heart tells you. Tell him you like him tell him all your feelings you have. if you like someone alot, don't let it go, you'll regret it forever, if you like him you have to let him know how you feel and you need to know what he feels and talk it out. it kinda worked out for me. but i don't know.
I hope i helped.. Let me know how things go.
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Wow, its kind of bizarre that his girlfriend told you to talk toy him about your feelings for him
FOr now, i think you should just be friends, he is dating after all. when he and his girlfriend break up.
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Try that.
You can just give him a note/text/im or whatever to save some awkwardness in person. hope i helped. if you need anything else let me know
xxtiffany
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