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ive been feeling so sad lately. im crying all the time. i feel ugly and like nobody wants me or loves me. i dont want to feel like this anymore. i want it all to stop. i want to give therapy a go but i dont know how to explain to mom i think i am. i looked up the symptoms of teenage depression and it's like it's describing me. it's scary. i just want to stop feeling like this. i just want to be happy. im 14/f if that helps at all (link)
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depression is considered an illness. your mother will hopefully believe you and with that send you to a therapist. if the one she sends you to doesnt feel right try other ones until you feel comfortable. if it helps ive been there, still am there actually, but it takes one step at a time. it is scary but doing something extreme is definetly not the answer.trust me youll get throught this..good luck- nattyg
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I have been dating my boyfriend for about 11 months now and I am so in love with him. We are very serious and I see an amazing future with him - but theres just one problem.
I's not that big of a deal but he has a little bit of a wandering eye. While I know he would never cheat on me, he constantly tells me which girls he thinks are "total babes" and which celebrities he would love to get with. I know this is normal, but it makes me uncomfortable and insecure. When we go to the beach, he stares at other women. Just the other day he took one of my lingerie catalogs and was drooling over the girls while I was sitting right next to him. When I get mad or upset about it he just laughs or blows me off.
And it's started to make me feel like I'm not enough, and that's why he looks elsewhere. I used to be very confident and outgoing but now I feel like if I were just skinnier or had bigger breasts that maybe I could keep his attention. Now I feel uncomfortable having him see me naked and he complains all the time. He gets frustrated because I won't stay naked after sex or strip for him.
I tried explaining to him why I've gotten so insecure and how him gawking at other girls bothers me but he laughed it off or changed the subject. It's embarassing, I don't know how else to go about it.
I realize he is portrayed in a negative light in this question but he really is amazingly sweet, caring, funny and and all-around great boyfriend. I know he's in love with me and I want to be with him but hate feeling this way. How can I solve this issue?
Thanks for all who reply.
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you should talk to him and tell him that what he does makes you feel insecure and hurt. let him know that he makes you question your relationship. if he really loves you and cares about your feelings he will either change the way he acts or wont. just be sure that you yourselve cannot change him. people dont change for others they can only change for themselves and if he cares about you and doesnt want himselve to be alone then he could possible change his way. hope that helps- ng
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Im 16 and my boyfriend and i have been dating for a few months now. We talk about having sex and decided not to have sex until im ready so for now we're just getting into foreplay. About a week ago i gave him a handjob and his sperm landed on my stomach and hand, all of our clothes were on. After it got on my hands we wipped it off and we went to wash our hands with soap and water. Im expecting my period and its a few days (2-3) delayed...should i be worried? (link)
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hun you are fine. belive me you cant get preganet by giving a hand job or a bj just sayin
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