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First Kiss
So, I'm not talking about my first kiss-I've been kissed before, although not much. And I don't know if my boyfriend has been kissed before-but I'm guessing he has. I'm talking about OUR first kiss. We haven't been together very long (btw, we're both 16) but we haven't yet kissed. And I'm wondering, should I leave that up to him? He's shy (we both are to some degree), but he is the guy, and he's not THAT shy. Or should I take matters into my own hands (he's quite the gentleman, maybe he's wondering what I'm ok with, and besides, I tend to be more agressive). Or should I try to talk about it? So-wait for him to make a move, just go ahead and kiss him, or what? How would I go about the correct option?
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A kiss isnt something to fret over hun. Dont sweat it, if you wanna kiss him then do it. Theres no special secret to it. Your never going to be in a happy relationship if your so nervous you cant do something you wanna do. So go for it and good luck:)
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Hey,
Should you leave it up to him? Thats all up to you. It sounds as if he would be comfortable enough to kiss you. As you said, he may just be unsure about how you feel at the moment. If you would like him to kiss you, give him hints. Look up and lean into him if you feel like you are having a connection at the moment; don't forget to smile :) If you feel you have waited long enough and would really like to have a kiss with him, then just go for it. I am sure he will be pleasantly surprised. If you wouldn't feel comfortable just going for it, then talk to him about it. Say, I really want to kiss you right now. Even though it may sound awkward at the moment, if he is a gentleman as you say, he should be all up for it and most likely will kiss you ;) Plus, then he will know how you truely feel about him.
Only you know what the right way of going about this. Whatever you feel is right in the moment, will be right. Trust the moment; believe me.. he will love it no matter what <3
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You should stop over thinking and just kiss him.
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