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I NEED us to work out... i need him :(
Here's the story. I'm fourteen (girl) and my boyfriend is sixteen. We've been dating for seven months. We started off so perfect. It wasn't until he got really sick that things started to change, about two months ago. He started being moody and cranky all the time, even after he healed. I felt like he didn't like me like he used to. We fought all the time and it was horrible, I annoyed him and he just pissed me off. We almost broke up one time but he said he would try again. He did. Things got so much better. But this morning (after he had had a horrible night) we got in a little stupid fight and i said something that my friend had told me to say a long time ago. I said something like "if you don't change im gonna break up with you" i defintiely didn't mean it, and i shouldnt have said it, and he said "then were done". He broke up with me thru text... I was SOO mad. He then tries to say that he will do it in person but i didn't want to give him that satisfaction, I was so angry. So I said some horrible things. I said "f*ck you" and that i hated him. I was just so astonished that he actually did it! I saw him once at school today and I almost started crying. It was horrible. I've been crying all day now and weve been talking about on the phone. His reasons didn't make sense and the explanations didn't match up. One second he'd say something like "I never started trying" and the next he would say "I was trying but I got tired of working too hard" and the next he would say "Its not that I couldnt try, I didn't want to" nothing was making sense and I couldnt go five minutes without crying. I know I made myself into a fool. I said I know we should break up, but that I don't want to. I dont want to break up. We realized something though. We don't just wanna throw seven months away on a dumb ten minute arguement where we both said things we never meant to say... he said he isn't sure though, that he wants to think about it. But we continued then to talk like we normally do. I don't know what to do now... We aren't together... but we arent broken up really... I don't know what I can do to make this work. I want it to work so bad. I feel like I need hiim. I think about not texting him tomorrow night, not hanging out with him later this week and I almost can't bear it. I need this to work out. What can I say? What can I do??
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i think you should just stay single. it's fun when you're flirting, but things change later on. you will start arguing and you'll get tired of each other. and you're still very young. you should experience a lot more before settling for one guy for the rest of your life. but if you really want it to work out, then apologize for saying those horrible things. be the person you were when you started dating. it's hard, but it takes two to make a relationship work. if either of you are having doubts, then it's not going to work. hope this helps.
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