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Am I losing my BEST FRIEND?
My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks and I LOVE doing EVERYTHING with him! We got dancing, to the movies and parties but my best friend wants to do things with me too... I just dont want to do those things with her because I have Jay! I also don't want to lose my best friend because shes GREAT to talk to! What do I do?! Thanks!!
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Hey i think that u should spend time with ur best friends cuz boys come and go but friends stay with u forever ...cuz if u dont do stuff with her and ur bf dumps u then who are u gunna go to to talk to and make u feel better ur best friend can go with u to partys , movies and dancing , ur friend prolly feels neglected i knoe i did and do when my best friend got her bf and me and her arent as close as before and i dont think that u want that to happen but she is prolly feeling neglected maybe just bring her to the party so shell feel like shes with u and doing sumthing with u it never hurts to have groupe dates ! but all im saying is make time for friends cuz theyll be there always boys come and go !
good luck and let her knoe u still consider her ur best friend XoKateXo
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You should make time for her.She is your best friend after all.Friends come first:)
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you need to have some nights out with your girls 2 u cant just be with your bf everynight thats unhealthy u are gonna get sick of each other and your gonna lose all your other friends
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Well first off, it's great that you're enjoying spending a lot of time with your b/f and everything. You should try to balance out your time with him and the rest of your friends. You really don't want to lose a good friend. He should understand if you want some time to be with your friends and he can go do the same. Go have a girls night out or sumthn, a few days without you b/f wouldn't hurt. Good luck with everything!
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Well, it's kind of hurtful to ignore your best friend for your boyfriend. Talk to your friend on the phone a lot. Hook your best friend up with someone. That way, you and your boyfriend can go on double dates with your friend and her boyfriend.
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That sounds like a problem! Maybe you and your best friend should sit down and talk and you should tell her that you still want to be best friends even if you do more with Jay. Maybe once in a while you and your friend should spend the night and stay up late talking. Dont lose your best friend to a boy, who wont ALWAYS be there like your friend! Good luck!
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hook her up with a cute, nice guy and ask them to double date. that way, your with him without a tag along but your friend comes, and she gets a new boyfriend. good luck, best wishes, melissa
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