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Location: Arizona
Age: 13
Member Since: June 23, 2004
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hi im a 12 year old girl and i was wondering when is a good time and age to get my 1st bra
also if u wear 1 does it help u get a bf or to get guys to stair more (link)
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well u should have one when ur 12 so i suggest u get one, no guys probably wont stare more but it looks better
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ok wuts up with all these prank questions?They are getting annoying!I think whoever is askin them should be banned. (link)
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yeah ur right...just ppl trying to get attention...
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I cant decide between staying in dance (which ive been in for 11 years) ONLY, or doing sports. If I do sports I'd be doing water polo, swimming, track, and maybe the dance team at my school. I know thatd be fun too and I think thatd probly make me more popular too!!?? But also I love to dance. Im confused (link)
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well if u truly love dancing that you should stay in it! but if u want to try out new things then u could do that too, just do whatever you feel like doing...(p.s. i am a dancer also) but popularity isnt everything either...just follow ur dreams!
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I always wanna hang out with people. But when we come over to my house I dont know what to do. Do you have any suggestions for ideas of stuff to do. We always end up really bored!! I have cable but thats not a very fun thing to do when you have ppl over. any ideas would help!!! thnx (link)
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well u guys can play on the computer, do crafts, if you have a pool go swimming! go to a nearby park, if theres a beach by you hang out there! theres lots to do once u put ur mind to it
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coke or pepsi? (link)
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pepsi!! i think coke is nasty
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Where would i go swimming?? I dont live in apartments and I dont have a pool (link)
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go to a public pool or if one of your friends has a pool, maybe you can ask to go over there and swim!
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my two friends, "ally" and "laurie" are in a fight. i am REALLY good friends with both, and so i get together with each and equal amount. the only problem is that whenever i'm doing something with ally, she disses laurie, and whenever i'm doing something with laurie she disses ally. i obviously don't talk about either of them behind there backs, but i don't know what to do to get them to stop. plz help. (link)
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well tell both of ur friends that they are both of ur friends and you dont appreciate it when they talk about each other
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I NEED HELP! SEE I LOVE MY BROTHER BUT HE KEEPS COMING IN MY ROOM WITHOUT PERMITION AND I NED MY OWN LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!I NEED ADVISE!!!
-bubba78
P.S. I'm a girl so all I need is help and help and help and HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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well tell ur brother that u love him but u need ur privacy, if he dosent leave u alone, tell ur parents and maybe they can do something about it, ur bro should understand :)
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I have a bunch of friends who miraculously happen to be boys. Seriously, a lot. None of them consider me their girlfriend, and I don't consider any of them my boyfriends. We're all just plain old friends.
I also have a lot of girls who are my just plain old friends. They are consistantly telling me that one of them HAS to be my boyfriend, and that it's just not right to have a bunch of guys for friends at the late age of 14 (sarcasim). I mean, sure I love them all like friends, but I don't consider any of them my boyfriends. Is this wrong??? (link)
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no not at all! ur friends are probably just jealous that you have a lot of guy friends, having guy friends is a great thing and u should be greatful for that! u will meet the rite guy so dont listen to ur friends!
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ok well my friend called my one of my guy friends and told him all this stuff that was not true so now he is going to think of me differently. Wat should i do?!? thanx 4 all the help!! (link)
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just tell him that that stuff wasnt true, tell him that you would never lie to him and u truly love him as a friend! he will understand!
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I am really worried about my friend. she has been so depressed lately, but she won't tell me what's wrong! How should I deal with this? (link)
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tell ur friend that u care alot about her and u hate to see her like this! tell her that u want to know whats buggin her and ull try to help in any way you can...if she cant tell you then tell her to tell someone because if somethings bugging her someone should know! hope i helped
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This girl from church told me that she was in love, yes, in love with one of her female teachers. This girl is fourteen years old. I just need some advice on what I should say to her if I get to speack with her again. (link)
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well if this gurl is gay u cant really do anything about it...u just gotta respect her and dont say anything mean to her or tell her u think its weird! remember, u cant judge a book by its cover...i kno thats an old saying but it is true!
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Hi. I'm a very shy person who just can't seem to overcome that and approach people when making new friends. It's very difficult for me to make new friends because my shyness gets in the way of everything, and I HATE that! I want to become more friendly and out-going so that it will be easy to be making new friends instead of a struggle. If you have any suggestions about how I can be more friendly and out-going then answer this question please, or give me any resources on how to overcome my shyness when making friends-anythings fine with me. I really need your help on this, so please take the time out and answer this question. THANX!!! (link)
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well u just gotta go up to ppl and say hi! start conversations! dont be nervous to talk to people, i bet a lot of people would want to meet ya and all u gotta do is just be friendly!! i hope u make a lotta new friends!
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How modestly do you think people should dress? How do you determine what is modest or not? (link)
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well the way you dress is pretty much ur personality! so however u feel and how your personality is basically wut u dress like! everyone has a different sense of style!
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ok... i have a guy friend & i think bout him 24/7
we have known eachother for bout 1 month but didnt start to talk till 2 weeks ago..so i let him hit it the next day after we 1st talked. ( i know i shouldnt of but i wanted some) & since then we have been pretty close.n-e-way for some reason i say i dont like him & when we kiss i dont see fireworks or nothin. i dont think i like him, but if i didnt then why i spend all day thinkin bout him.he had 2 different situations goin on his gurl & then me. so i told him i didnt want to be on the side. so when i decided not to talk to him i got off the phone for the last time & i started cryin. i guess im havin mixed emotions or somethin. but some1 plz tell me how u think i feel bout this guy................p.s im 16...~1~
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ok well...sounds to me like ur in love and u just dont realize it...sometimes u love people and u just dont realize it and ive been in that position before...if bein around him makes u feel good, and he makes u happy then yes ur in love with him...good luck!
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well, there is this guy im crazy about and he "says" he doesnt like me, but its obviouse he does!!!and its driving me insane!!like now everytime i think about him i wanna throw up!idk y?well HELP ME!!!plzzz (link)
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ok well if ur pretty sure that he likes u, he probably does, guys act really weird and act like they dont like u cuz theyre just shy and dont want you to know...well why do u wanna throw up when u like him? just flirt with him and see wut he does
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i used to be the first to fall asleep ( normally at other peoples houses during sleepovers) but lately i'm always the last person to fall asleep, like just last nite or this mornin, i didn't fall asleep until like 2am, and i "went to bed at like 11:30" idk if it's my matress or if i have insomnia, can u develop insomnia, or are people just born with it?
but i just cant get to sleep, i've tried warm milk, counting sheep, and wut used to always work, puttin on the tv, but i just can fall asleep, it's just like im to exhausted to sleep, is there sumthin wrong wit me (i've had tha matress for about 3 years... is that it?) but i also dont think it's the matress, because whenever people visit they sleep in my bed, and they think it's super comfortable, i just wanna kno wuts wrong, should i see a doctor???
or is it normal for a 14 year old to sleep like this
usually i also wake up n e where between 8-10am (link)
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ok well i suggest that you see a doctor cuz this isnt good if u arent getting enough sleep...a teen should get at least 8 hours of sleep a night...well if youve already tried everything, then u need to see a doctor! i hope that everything gets better for u
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I talked to my x today...its only been a week since we broke up. He said "sometimes I have the urge to call you and tell you I want you back, but I don't"...it hurts. I miss him so much, and I can't get my mind off of him. I know we're not meant to be together b/c we are two totally different people and want 2 different things...but I really love him, and I want to stay friends it just hurts so much when I talk to him...what do i do? (link)
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well u should tell him how u feel, and tell him how much it hurts u, he should understand, i kno this hurts a lot but u need to tell him how u feel, communication is the key to solving problems
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well after seeing my ex yesterday.....today when we were talking he keeps on talkin about other girls and everything and that they are cutter and prettier than me and it really hurts....he keeps on telling me how all the other girls are all over me and it really hurts b/c before i went to see him yesterday, he thought i waz da finnest gurl and sweetest and everything and now everything itz so weird...im so sad...wut do ya think????? am i not good enough for him :(?? he is not that fine but he is okay.... (link)
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ok tell this guy to go to hell cuz no one deserves that....hes not good enough hes just stupid, forget him and move on
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We live in a duplex for 2 years now, are landlord is a good friend of ours. Recently he let his daughter move who is 20 years old. Her boyfriend lives there too. Everyday there is someone new moving in there with them. It has turned into a flop house. Up all night banging on the walls, loud music, up all night. Doing drugs on the porch and in the driveway. We told the landlord about this, and he is in denile. He told us if we didn't like the situation, we gotta do what's best, why should we move, I like it here, any suggestions help. Too much riff raff. Can the police do anything? Or is it a lost cause. (link)
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well u gotta tell the police defintley and tell them whats going on, and if that dosent work, i suggest you move
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