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am i in love or what
ok... i have a guy friend & i think bout him 24/7
we have known eachother for bout 1 month but didnt start to talk till 2 weeks ago..so i let him hit it the next day after we 1st talked. ( i know i shouldnt of but i wanted some) & since then we have been pretty close.n-e-way for some reason i say i dont like him & when we kiss i dont see fireworks or nothin. i dont think i like him, but if i didnt then why i spend all day thinkin bout him.he had 2 different situations goin on his gurl & then me. so i told him i didnt want to be on the side. so when i decided not to talk to him i got off the phone for the last time & i started cryin. i guess im havin mixed emotions or somethin. but some1 plz tell me how u think i feel bout this guy................p.s im 16...~1~
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I think u probably should have given it more time then what you did maybe start your friendship over again from scratch and work from there-trix
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1)nice move genius
2)1 month but only 2 weeks ago?????? and you think you love him? sorry, hon, "love at first sight" doesn't work out very often. wait a while before you decide--just because he's "dreamy" doesnt mean he's Mr Perfect. Wait and see if the feeling fades--if it does before 6 months, you probably don't want to worry about the "intimate relationship" which you have apparently already entered. Try just talking to him. If you cant get him to listen to your voice and carry on a decent, intelligent conversation, you're screwed on any real relationship with him--especially if he's not looking at your face or away from you entirely (if in certain cultures where looking at another's face is badbad).
PS: 16???????????? c'mon, where is your common sense?? hell, I have no common sense by most standards (mine is mostly just rules of algebra as opposed to "rules of life") and I think that's pretty dumb, getting that worked up. Yes, I have a boyfreind, yes we love each other very much, but we haven't done anything at all except sit together, hold hands, kiss. that's it. nothing beyond that. THough he does make excuses to look at my shirts. something about the baby snow leopard staring at him... but we do carry on conversations. And it's looking up.
I may be younger than you, but anyone under 25 should know not to do that so soon.
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THe REAL advice:
the whole "thinking about him 247" and "I dont think I like him but I think about him all the time" things...thats just plain instinct. that's your natural instinct to procreate. with that, you can think anyone is the "most perfect guy in the world". But if you ignore it till you really know someone, you'll be happy with that person even when the feeling fades.
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ok well...sounds to me like ur in love and u just dont realize it...sometimes u love people and u just dont realize it and ive been in that position before...if bein around him makes u feel good, and he makes u happy then yes ur in love with him...good luck!
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well u shulda talked to him or got to no him more b4 u did that wit him........ aslo if he has a gf thats cheatin and cheatins not kewl..... well u probably like him but that feelin probably isnt at a point that u like NEED HIM..lol.. if u get to no him more ull probably see fireworks..lol if u want more help u can IM me hope i helped
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ur developin feelings for him n ur sad cuz u cant have him. its lyk wen u no u cant have sumthin thats wen u want it the most.lol i think u no wut im sayin. every1 goes through. if u cant wait till he deals wit his problems then go lookin for ur own guy that actually does give u fireworks. keep workin on it ull find the rite 1. hope i helped n dont be sad.
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I think you moved to fast and didn't get to know him first. Try to still be friends, if that's possible. But next time remember that It's always good to wait.
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