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Question Posted Wednesday June 23 2004, 10:54 pm

well after seeing my ex yesterday.....today when we were talking he keeps on talkin about other girls and everything and that they are cutter and prettier than me and it really hurts....he keeps on telling me how all the other girls are all over me and it really hurts b/c before i went to see him yesterday, he thought i waz da finnest gurl and sweetest and everything and now everything itz so weird...im so sad...wut do ya think????? am i not good enough for him :(?? he is not that fine but he is okay....

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Additional info, added Wednesday June 23 2004, 10:57 pm:
he said how this gurl waz touching him today and everything and he be like damn she is cutter than u and everything...and how he is gonna holla at all of them tomorrow and everything and before he waz so sweet to me and never told all this stuff... wuts going on??????? it really hurts:(.

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CrzyLilBrittBritt answered Sunday June 27 2004, 7:14 pm:
Girl you are way too good for him!U need a man that respects you!Good luck babe

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CaNdYQT101 answered Saturday June 26 2004, 7:31 pm:
that guy is a JERK! i think hes just trying to make u jealous though... but thats weird hoiw he wood tell u that ure thebest nd then compare u to other gurls... i woukdnt b so sad and depressed over him i think i woukd try and move on becuase hes just going to mess with yur emoations and i would hate that!! so if i was u i would just not get to close to him!

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numba1balla answered Friday June 25 2004, 10:07 pm:
dont worry about it most of it probably isnt true hes just tryin to seem like hes over you even though he probably isnt and thats why hes doing it and if it is true hes probably only tellin you to make you jealous so next time you talk to him just tell him how you feel and ask him not to talk about that

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HollyAnn2282 answered Thursday June 24 2004, 5:01 pm:
Sweetie forget about him! Guys can be such dick faces! Seriously I bet no girls want him and none of them think he is cute! Guys are like that... they try and make it look like Oh i'm all big and bad! So just ignore it! and if he keeps doing it talk to him about it and tell him it bothers you! Good luck
-Holly-
Hope I helped

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queenbianca2004 answered Thursday June 24 2004, 3:14 pm:
brake up w/ him ..... you don`t need a guy like that

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LiL_TeEnA_Ox answered Thursday June 24 2004, 1:27 pm:
gurrl, its not that ur not good enought furr him.. its that hes not good enough for u. leave him now and have a happy life. when his will always hav problems if he keeps talkin about girls with his gurrlfriend.

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jbdreamer answered Thursday June 24 2004, 10:36 am:
Why do you even spend time with this jerk? He is just saying all these things to make you feel bad and to show you that he has moved on. You should do the same thing, move on! Stop wasting your time with a guy that puts you down to make himself feel better. He is not worthy of your friendship.

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KiSsEs answered Thursday June 24 2004, 5:19 am:
Gurlie u deserve sooo much better than him. he is insecure and he wants to make u jealous so that later on ull want to get back with him, he misses u. Don't be sad u cant llet him put u down like that. good luck

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orphans answered Thursday June 24 2004, 3:24 am:
ah hell no. its vice versa. u TOO good for him. ppl lyk that come n go. one minute their the nicest person in the world.......next their talkin behind ur bak. hes jus sayin that stuff to make u feel bad. n its workin. u cant let him do that 2 u.ppl r gonna try to manipulate u into doin stuff ur whole life.....u jus gotta realize wen its happenin.its not ur fault, u learnin jus lyk every1 else in da world.if u no u look good than thats all that fuckin mattas. if he dont c that than he must need glass.lol u no wut im sayin. 4get that asshole. by the way my friend went through the same thing n i kinda helped her through it. if u want i can give u her sn n she can give u advice on how to deal wit stuff.

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Siren_Cytherea answered Thursday June 24 2004, 1:36 am:
Honey,
one thing you gotta learn - a lot of guys are sheer assholes. You can't do anything about it. It's not that you're not good enough for him. It sounds to me like he's trying to make you jealous. Don't let him get to you. Either that or he just found a new girl he likes, and doesn't realize that he's hurting you by complimenting her so much.
Remember - "love" is blinding. She might not really be cuter than you. He might just think she is 'cause he's infatuated. Don't let it get to you.
He might be treating you like one of his buddies now that you're not dating anymore, and telling you about this new girl he met. This guy I liked used to do that to me, and it hurt so much. I didn't even think to tell him that it was bothering me.
Just ask him not to talk to you about the new girls he meets because it bothers you. If he's halfway decent, he'll comply.
Hope I helped!
-Siren =)

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xXBrunetteBabiiXx answered Thursday June 24 2004, 12:37 am:
ok tell this guy to go to hell cuz no one deserves that....hes not good enough hes just stupid, forget him and move on

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xoxjessicaxo answered Wednesday June 23 2004, 11:44 pm:
well, this seems to b the answer. him telling you all that stuff, is just him trying to make you jealous. just know that ur the best he can get, just keep thinking that, and when he says other girls are prettier than u, it shouldnt effect u any. or just tell him how that makes u feel:)

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Short_N_Punky answered Wednesday June 23 2004, 11:36 pm:
He might be saying this because he might think you had a bunch of guys after him. And he still likes you but this is his way of telling you. I do it sometimes tell my guys that iv had bunch of guys after him and we did hole bunch of stuff just to get them jealous. He might be doing the same to you. Dont feel bad if he isnt trying to get you jealous then he really is a total jerk. But dont get mad gurl hes doing it because he probably see's it iratates you. Dont be afraid to write bk hope iv helped.
Signed
Short N Punky

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cutelilbabers answered Wednesday June 23 2004, 11:03 pm:
babe u deserve sooo much better than him. he is obviously thinks hes a player and can get away with it, but really hes just insecure and he wants to make u jealous so that later on ull want to get back with him and hell think hes the king of the world. dont play his mind games, talk bout other guys when u talk to him. i know if u still have major feelings itll be hard but u cant llet him put u down like that. good luck
kristi

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