Hey! Im Jessica! I am 17 years old, and i love helping people out, my friends say i am good at giving advice b/c i am a good listener.. If i can help anyone let me know. Just ask and i guarantee i will give u an honest answer, b/c that is what u r looking for:)
Gender: Female
Location: Tennessee
Age: 17
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Member Since: June 23, 2004
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I need help on kissing. When i kiss a girl, im always worried about hittin her teeth with mine, and i was wonderin how to avoid that. (link)
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to be honest, i worried about the same thing!! trust me, when u start kissing, it wont happen.. but to avoid it, dont like press ur mouth so hard against her, focus on the lips and the tounge.. but im tellin u, it wont happen.. it just dont work that way
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i need a new bra..where would you suggest i get one? what kidn should i get? (link)
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walmart, target, kmart, but give the curve-ation ones.. b/c they work really good..
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i have this boyfriend. but hes black. i really really like him and we`ve been on and off for like a while now im just afraid my family wont approve..they arent racist they jus dont exactly approve of this kind of thing maybe because the only black man brought into out family happened to be involved with drugs and violence pleasee help me i dont want to listen to my family bcause i care for him so much isnt that what counts? (link)
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hey, i have had this same problem. talk to your parents bout this situation and try to convince them that he is a good guy and he isnt like that one who was brought into ya family. If they dont approve ask ya self if ya family is worth giving up and not havin them approve of what u do. and if they approve go for it, but think long and hard if they dont.. just go with what ya heart tells u to do. hope i helped
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I have a friend who I like very much, but who has a habbit of asking me to call her because she's feeling low at really incovenient times. I want to be there for her, but it becomes problematic when I feel I can't fairly say no when she asks me to call for a few minutes because she's feeling low, even it's like 1am. If it really was a few minutes, it would be fine, but once she has me on the phone she's impossible to let go, because every time I talk about having to be up in the morning she talks about how people always seem to let her down when she needs them. I do want to be there for her, but I do need to sleep too, and I simply can't survive on talking till 2am or later every night to get up at 7am. How can I be firm about needing to get off the phone without offending her? (link)
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just tell her, u have a long day tomorrow, and that u have to go get some sleep and u dont wanna let her go but u have to and tell her that u really do care about her adn ur not tryin to offend her by getting off the phone, and tell her u will talk to her about this tomorrow or another day and try to make it earlier.. or if she wants u to call her tell her u bout to leave and ull call her when u get in. maybe she will understand, or at least i hope so.
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I got caught having sex with my girlfriend, and now her parents are making us break up. They wont allow her to see me or talk to me anymore. the only reason why i had sex with her is because i feel that she is going to be the one i spend the rest of my life with. it would be ironic that the first time i have sex i get caught, please help (link)
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first of all how old r u? and if ur sure like 100% sure that u r gonna b with her the rest of ur life, dont listen to ya parents.. i mean like if ur like under 16, then listen to em.. other than that, do what ur heart tells u to do, and b with her no matter what.. what do her parents say about this? or do they know? i need more info about u and how both sides feel..
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My wife got mad at me, and she started yellin and throwin stuff around my trailor, so i shit in a bucket and stuck it on her head. Was the right thing to do? (link)
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umm no!! dont u think that was a little childish of you.. come on shitting in a bucket and stickin it on someones is just immature.. althought she was actin immature too. just b/c she was throwin stuff and at around ya place, dont mean its ur place to do somethin back. next time she does that, go to ya room and close the door and wait til her hissy fit is done, and try to talk to her about it
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hey its tj again obviously im not your favorite person rite now but what do i do if i just flipped out on my g/f for somethin that she said she didnt write and i didnt believe her till now and now shes all pissed and tellin me to talk to my ex n shit cuz i really dont wanna lose her shes the coolest girl ive ever met i love her so much words cant explain please help me
thanx love ya tj
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u should just tell her how u feel seriously, just set her down and let her know,even if its going to hurt her. she has to know and u cant hold back feelings forever. and if u want to go back with ya ex tell her b/c u dont wanna make her look like a fool.. b stra8 up
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ok.. ive been going out with this gurl for quite awhile and i dumped her and now im going out with someone else.. but just the other day i heard my exs song.. and all my feeling are back for her. i want to tell my gf but i just cant. WHAT should I do!? (link)
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i mean if u still like her give her another change and tell that other girl how u feel
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hey jessica its your man tj and i need to know what do i do if my girlfriend thinks im gonna cheat on her i mean i know i wont i love her and i never wanna do that to her but shes worried because ive done it before what do u think i should do to get her to trust me? thanx love ya (link)
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well i think u should tell her straight up, look, i love u too much to cheat on u and stuff like that, be faithful to her, talk to her and see her as much as possible, just let her know how it is.. and girls r always goin to b worried, if u tell them u cheated on a past gf..so just tell her
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I have this friend that cuts her self all the time her momn dad split up on her 13th birthday and they been seprated for like 6 months now and she cuts her self and she thinks shes ugly and she thinks she never gets boyfriends but she gets her boyfriends....and she thinks no one loves her n no one cares about her n she will not stop cutitn her self....she dont really cut her rist that much just like once a month but she cuts her legs n arms alot n she has 47 scars all over her arms n legs n every one really dont like her....what should i do?...she said if she gets a b.f that loves her she will stop but i cant find a boyfriend near here taht will love her...so help me n tell me what i should do plzz!! (link)
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i had a friend one time who actually cute herself and no one got her the help she needed and it got outta hand and she ended up killin herself..so u need to tell the parent that she lives with, and get her help from a doctor. if u dont want to see ya friend die.. get her help AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. dont tell her ur gonna get her help b/c she might not want it, and if u just do it, then it will all b for the good! so get her help and tell the parent she lives with that she is cutting herself and stuff!! if u need any further info let me know. i hope i helped
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I dont know you, but i can see you can help people. i am 18 and i have more hair on my chest then my father. Its not a good thing, the last 4 g/f's i have had dumped me because of it. i tried shaving, but it hurts REALLY BAD, and tried waxing it (dont even wanna know how girls do it) but NeWays, and because of that i have not had luck with girls, there is this girl i like and she "says" she feels the same, but i dont know how it will go, she doesn't know about it, and i wanna tell her, but scared she will run off!! CAN YOU HELP !!! (link)
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well, waxing does hurt, and shaving is gives irritation!! so use nair, nair is hair removal, its just u put it on the spots, leave it there for i think 10-15 minutes, and then u take a warm cloth and wipe the lotion off, and its gone, its not irritating, and it w*ont cause rash. Or get the =nair for sensitive skin, and there is one called sally hansen that is a hair removal, jus put it on a lil place where it isnt noticable, try it, and make sure it dont mess up ya skin b4 u use it all over!! HOPE I HELPED.
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my friend who i started kinda workin for( i work for him but he works for his boss) and it dont pay much and i am 16 with no work exp, and i got only 125$ and i need 400 for my car insureance but not only am i worried about not payin the bill, but my friend is supposed to hook me up with this chick nikki, i really like her but she wants to get to know me and i wanta get to know her too but the guy i work for is having troblwe gettign her # cause of money problems as well, what should i do about alll of my problems??? (link)
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if shes all in it for Money dont go for it.. i mean she is just going to use you for money..and nothing else.. just see whats poppin with her:) and if she isnt a bitch who is just gonna use you go for it..
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I have a question that i hope someone can help me with. Is it right to change for a guy? I use to have this one boyfriend that was a punk and I was jusst a normal 13 year old girl. all of his friends were punks to and at that time I was overwhieght and diddn't care about what I looked. Well then all of a sudden my boyfriend just dummped me w/no explanation. And a little while later I started getting into the punk music and cloths and i lost 20 pounds. Now I'm obsessed w/punk music and cloths but i don't know if it's b/c i want him to see what he missed out on or if it's really what i want. About 6 months have passed since my break up w/him. Since our breakup was just b4 the summer no body not even my friends have seen me, so I can't wait till school starts so i can see everyone's reaction esspecially his. But do n-e-of you think this is righ? Pleae someone help me.
Always
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no u dont change for anyone but yourself! and if a guy dont like u for who u r, and wants u to change, he isnt worth your time.. and if u go back to school and that guy wants u back, dont go for it b/c hes just usin u for looks!!
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I never told anyone this but I've been bulimic for 2 years. I know you may say that I should top but I can't. It's so hard, and I don't know what to do and I do not want to see a doctor. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!
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the only thing u can do is go see a doctor unless u wanna die.. thats ur only 2 choices.. bulimia can make u die.. just eat until ur full.. its nothin worth dyin for.. just talk to ya parents
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Hi I am a 26 yearold lady and my husband has been beating me eversince we got married he even beats are adopded child and she is only 2 I am always trying to keep me and Shauna (my daughter) away from the house when people call for me he says im not there and hangs up and then throws the phone at me this may sound wierd about me asking a 15 year old for advice but any advice will help thank you (link)
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leave!! run to the cops!!! u dont have to press charges... but they can take u somewhere and hide you out, or u can go to a church and they will hide you out. your the adult u need to protect the child, and get it out of the abusive home b4 it gets too out of hand!! but just if ur scared to leave him, dont be!! b/c u need to get help!! anything else i can do let me know
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Okay so Im 15 and everytime I go to the beach in my BIKNI I lay down and try to get a tan, but I dont feel right around the other gurls , they gather and sit and talk about me, but althe other guys are trying to ask me outeven 2 years loder than I am.... LOL PLZ HELP ME Thanks Jenipher (link)
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well those girls must be jealous, bc the guys dont talk bout them and ask them out, u should stand up to the girls.. or just dont let what they say bother u..
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ok well, me (a guy, 16) and one of my best friends (a girl, 16)have been friends for over 10 years, since elementary school. Recently we have gotten really close and we really like eachother. we talk all night on the phone and we fall asleep on the phone together and we talk like half the day everday. today at 7 she left to california from florida and she'll be there for a week or so. we really care about eachother but i dont know how to proceed with the relationship. we both know just about everything you can imagine about eachother and we talk about anything that comes to mind. we havent gotten a change to see eachother since the 12th and ill probaly see her the day after she gets back from cali. we havent kissed or anything yet. im not sure how to proceed with the relationship becuase i dont want to mess up our relationship and friendship. she means the world to me and thats the last thing i would want to happen. If you could help me out id greatly appreciate it.
thanks for any help, brandon
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you know what they say! friends make good lovers:) maybe, if you get together, ya will find out that you were meant to be with each other. she might b the one for you:) just give it a go, and if it dont work out that good then call it quits and still be friends:)
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Hey..I got a long story, but I'ma try to make it short! Me and my ex were going out for 6 months...I fell in love with him, and he meant the world to me! But I had a little secret..& I felt guilty and thought maybe the best thing to do was be honest with him, and tell him the truth. It took me awhile, but I finally gained enough courage to tell him. At first he was kind of okay with it..since I told him nothing is ever gonna happen like that again, and blah blah..and he was str8 cuz i was honest w/ him. WELL a few days later he starts freakin out! like crazy..he was like "ive been thinkin and i jus cant be with a girl who cheated on me..yadda yadda" i was speechless. I know I made a mistake..a big one. Because I honestly think this guy was the perfect one:( But doesnt everyone make mistakes? YES..but is everyone honest and truthful anout their mistakes? not exactly..but i was..and what did i get out of it? nothing. i lost the one guy i ever gave my heart to. what should i do? (link)
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maybe you should tell him how u really feel about him, and tell him that at least u were honest, and didnt keep it from him:) if he liked u as much as he ever said he did, he should forgive you. honesty is the key, and girl u have it! so just b like hey, i like u alot im sorry.. and it wont happen again.and if he dont like you bein honest, then dont waste ya time, he isnt the perfect one, there is someone out there better if he dont wanna associate with u.
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ok me and this guy just met this year and were already best buddies!!hes really nice when no one else is around but when hes with his "cReW" he changes his attitude and everything.i like him and i kinda think he likes me too but he wont say anything but then sumtimes when were on the fone together(which makes me soo happy!) he kinda drops little hints but then goes back to these two girls he thinks he might like but then he says he'll probly never get with any of em..and one time he asked me right before we hung up on the fone if there was anything we wanted to clear up..so how can i get him to tell me how he feels about me truly??? (link)
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be brave!! ask him if he likes you, or get ya friend to do it! seriously, if he drops hints, that usually means hes interested, and just dont know how u feel. so either just ask him or be like i like u, do you like me. and if he says no, just look at it like this, u r still his friend:)
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i am gay and i think my mum knows, what do i do? (link)
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first of all, if your gay, you shouldnt hide it, unless u have a really good reason to. just tell her and dont be scared, she wouldnt be dissapointed b/c ur her son, and she wont disown u
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