ok well, me (a guy, 16) and one of my best friends (a girl, 16)have been friends for over 10 years, since elementary school. Recently we have gotten really close and we really like eachother. we talk all night on the phone and we fall asleep on the phone together and we talk like half the day everday. today at 7 she left to california from florida and she'll be there for a week or so. we really care about eachother but i dont know how to proceed with the relationship. we both know just about everything you can imagine about eachother and we talk about anything that comes to mind. we havent gotten a change to see eachother since the 12th and ill probaly see her the day after she gets back from cali. we havent kissed or anything yet. im not sure how to proceed with the relationship becuase i dont want to mess up our relationship and friendship. she means the world to me and thats the last thing i would want to happen. If you could help me out id greatly appreciate it.
Additional info, added Saturday July 3 2004, 5:51 pm: She feels the same way about me (again, we talk about everything). We are now REALLY close and we both want thing to proceed between us but im scared that something will happen where our relationship and friendship gets fucked up. Also, she recently broke up with her boyfriend of almost 2 years, when she really started to feel for me and she started to find out how i felt. I just want to know what can i do to push things along without rushing anything and how not to be nervous about all this?. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xxhotsexycutiexx answered Monday July 5 2004, 3:59 am: hi,awww i think u 2 have something really special..well listen take ur chances...tell her how u feel ask her to be yr gurl...trust me ITS BETTER TO REGREAT SOMETHING U DO THEN SOMETHING U DONT DO!!!! good luck xoxo effy [ xxhotsexycutiexx's advice column | Ask xxhotsexycutiexx A Question ]
xoxjessicaxo answered Saturday July 3 2004, 7:10 pm: you know what they say! friends make good lovers:) maybe, if you get together, ya will find out that you were meant to be with each other. she might b the one for you:) just give it a go, and if it dont work out that good then call it quits and still be friends:) [ xoxjessicaxo's advice column | Ask xoxjessicaxo A Question ]
cowsoink answered Saturday July 3 2004, 6:35 pm: Wow, ummm.... i think you should make a pact to stay friends even if you break up cause you to might just be perfect for each other, which it does sound like.Thanx, bye!~Chelsea~ [ cowsoink's advice column | Ask cowsoink A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Saturday July 3 2004, 4:18 pm: Hiding your emotions sucks, doesn't it? If you really want this to move in a forward direction, you should tell her how you feel about her, but let her know that you don't want to jeapordize the friendship. TELL her that she means the world to you. She'll probably think it's all sweet and romantic. Some of the best relationships come from a pair of close friends. Give it a shot. What do you have to lose? You're already friends, and from the sound of it, I doubt she'd get all panicky and stay away from you if you told her you liked her. In all honesty, she might actually suspect it. Guys generally have trouble hiding their feelings. Either that, or girls are just really perceptive. So go for it, Romeo! Good luck!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
CrzyLilBrittBritt answered Saturday July 3 2004, 4:13 pm: You should ask her how she feels about u.Then u will kno rather to proceed or not.If she likes u better as a good friend than u should keep it like that.Hope that helps=)
*BrittBritt
x0x__Jennifer_x0x answered Saturday July 3 2004, 4:00 pm: aw that sounds like a fairytale love haha! Okay well if she means the world to you tell her how u feel and that you wanna be mroe then friends, but if that doesnt work out the friendship will still be there if its a TRUE friendship, and it sounds like it is! So no worries follow your heart and go get her! Good luck! Tell me how it goes:)
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