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Hey, my names Sarah and im 14 years old. I am the lead singer of the band Morning Suicide...but all of that shit is soo fucked up right now...I go to Mountain Pointe High School in Phoenix, AZ. Music is a major part of my life...I just love it...and...yeah...check out my livejournal!

Stick Boy is my fuck buddy...i love him.

advice

In the 3rd grade i used to always hand out wit this boy and i liked him to death. he liked me 2 this might sound childish but plz listen, he moved nad i did see him again until a few weeks ago.And i walked past him and he said hi gloria (my mom) and to me he said..."uhhhhhhh what is ur name"!! I was sooooooo mad! what the heck is goin in?

if you see him again, talk to him. refresh his memory. basically, just talk to him. im sure hell listen.

hope this helps!
-Sarah-

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hey sara!! i have a question.. here i go. now i dont think im that ugly i think im like okay .. and im fun to be around i always like to laugh ( that gave it away) lol but i dont no.. cause the last boyfriend i had was last year and he was my first boyfriend.. like is there something wrong with me ? or am i picky? or do i like the wrong guys?

Well, if you think you are ugly or dont feel good about yourself, that would mean you have low self esteem, and i would definately hope you dont have low self esteem. i think i know who you are and if you are, then i know for a FACT that you LOVE to laugh and you are a great person to hang out with. i know the last boyfriend you had and he wasnt really the greatest. whatever happened to that 'summer fling' of yours? he seemed like a nice guy. well, i think you just havent found the right guy for you to go out with.

oh, are you goin to the movies on friday?

hope this helps!
-Sarah-

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well im 13 and i weigh between 110-115 and my legs are big and its all fat and my family said i have a beautiful figure and i like it and all but it to much fat for me i used to wear ones and now i wear 7 and i wanna try trimspa but im not sure if i should are not i need help and i tried exersize and it doesnt work!! help me plz
o yeah and i have had ppl tell me i wasnt skinny but i like my curves i just dont like being so big

you arent big! 110-115 is skinny! im sure if you work out, though, your legs will become more toned. oh, and you could also eat more healthy if you eat junk food. but for your weight, i wouldnt go on a diet like trim spa...you may end up losing more weight than you wish...

hope this helps!
-Sarah-

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If you stop eating will the size of ur boobs and ur butt go down and im just asking???>????

boobs: no
butt: depends

hope this helps!
-Sarah-

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Well the thing is I wanna fuck my gf but im not sure if i should mention it cuz I'm not sure what her reaction will be like. Or do you think maybe I should just go for it and not talk about it with her first?

i think that its good that you asked for a girls opinion on this. if i were her, id want you to talk about it first. if its her first time, she might not be ready. im sure if you talk to her first, the more likely you are to get some.

hope this helps!
-Sarah-

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Okay, i have question. How can you get people to write questions to you specifically.. like to your inbox. Because i have only gotten one person who wrote to me specifically. do you guys have any ideas?

ok, if you have aim, put a link to your advice column in your profile or away messages. if you have a website, put the link somewhere on there. or tell your friends about it and ask them to put it on their profiles or websites.

hope this helps!
-Sarah-

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I'm retarded....I tend to do really stupid things all the time..I can't really stop myself either i just kinda do what ever the hell i feel like doing..People call me a loser.. and so i jus try to explain to them im just retarded but.. now i've given up and i am a loser/retard.. can u help me regain my coolness since u r soooo cool and all??

haha, dude kelsi, you are NOT retarded! i tend to do stupid things a lot too! haha! im the SAME way! hey, me and lauren and mquaid are all losers too...and his cousin remy! REMINGTON! haha! ok, kelsi, to regain your 'coolness' to be cool like me, you need to be...coooooool....hehe! haha! lol, o, and you can borrow my globes for warped tour...you better get them before i leave for minnesota!!!

haha, buh bye sherbert!
-PottHead-

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im a guy and im in love...what should i do???
15/ca

umm...ask them out...if they are taken, then be friends with them. someday they will be free and you can ask them out! uhh...based on the info you gave me, thats all i can say.

hope this helps!
-Sarah-

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um...well im 5'7" and i weigh 140 at most.am i over wieght?

no you are not. i have a friend who weighs 130 and is like 5'3" and she is skinny (sorry to that person if she feels embarassed, im not sayin who you are) and she thinks she is fat.

hope this helps!
-Sarah-

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this may seem shallow but, why are all the young teenagers(generally below 15) OBSESSED with the fag rock bands, like GC, and simple plan, and that crap?

im under 15 and i dont listen to those bands. i listen to:
hellogoodbye, further seems forever, brand new, sum 41, coheed and cambria, muse, chronic future, jenoah, socratic, adelphi, homegrown, lit, midtown, blink 182, the format, reubens accomplice, new found glory, taking back sunday, the used, and much MUCH more.
basically, not all teenagers under 15 listen to shitty ass music.

-Sarah-

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hey im a 16 male from cali and i really like this girl. she likes me too and shes 16 as well and i want to ask her out but im not positive if i should because she just got out of a relationship. so im wondering what i should say to her. i dont want to make her ex mad cause hes cool and hes still obsessed with her. i really want to give this a shot with her i just dont know what to say to her any ideas?

ask her out. if her ex gets mad, explain to him that it over between them two and that he needs to move on. if he is still pissed at him, then you need to help him find someone new. good luck!

hope this helps!
-Sarah-

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does anyone know anything i can do?..14/m!AAHHHHH i'm going crazy

skate! haha! if you cant, then i think you should go hang out with your friends and push them into walls...thats fun for all the ages!!! haha! ok, seriously, if you are bored you can talk to me on aim: Blink Format TBS

-Sarah-

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i just got a pet..its a goldfish..what should i name him?

Winston Hamilton Washington the fifth

-Sarah-

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well everyday or so i go to my bestfriends house an theres always her guy neighbors over therre an there is this one that i really like! his name is jay an hes just a year older than me an he is always grabbin on my ass an saying funny stuff to me... like to day he wuz like "miss do u know were anyone can gimmi a lap dance?? do u by any chance?" i think he was kidding but like ive only known him for like a month or so an i REALLY REALLY like him an all my other friends ask like "do you like michelle" an he "smiles" den my friends ask like "would u go out with michelle?" an jay goes "only if she would go out with me" I DUNNO IF I LIKE HIM OR IF I SHOULD MAKE A MOVE OR WHATS GOING TO HAPPEN I REALLY NEED HELP IM REALLY CONFUSED!! plz answer asap i gota go soon an im going to my friends (yes that friend) house tommorrow!!! xoo michelle

i think you should make a move. it seems like he likes you. if he was kidding, he would probably tell you and you two would still be friends.

hope this helps!
-Sarah-

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idk what it is, but i've just been really out of it lately. and i hate it. my mom yellz at me for doing stuff, and then she yellz at me for not doing thingz. see im tha younest of 3, i feel like im alwayz getting blamed for stuff. like. . . i . . . cant. .. breathe. its really hard, and sumtime i feel like i want to just die. I feel like no one cares. but at other times everythingz F***ked up. idk wut i cant do. plzz help.

talk to your mom. tell her what you just said (only dont say the f**ked up part). im the middle of 3 kids and i feel the same way about the always getting blamed for stuff part. and if you just cant handle the pressure anymore, try to go over to friends houses more often. everyone has at least one friend who truely cares.

hope this helps!
-Sarah-

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evr since i was born my grandmother has always been with me. even more than my own mother........not lyk she a bad mom or nethin but......lemme explain.....wen i was born my mom was have some economic problems so she told my grandmother to take me to the Dominican Republic (country where all my relatives were born cept me)neways i came bak 2 us wen i was 4 n my grandmother has lived with us ever since......well until a few weeks ago when she passed away..........ne advice on how to deal wit it?

i first want to say that im sorry for your loss. losing a family member is very tough. i was like you, sorta. my grandpa lived a bike ride away from me and id go over to his house all of the time. id go over there when i wanted to talk to someone, when i wanted be around someone, when i was mad at someone, when i wanted to play with his dog, or just when i wanted someone to hug...he was like my best friend. he was always there for me no matter what. he died back in 2002. it was the toughest thing ever. i cried for at least a month. how i eventually dealt with it was to make sure i had something to remember him by because you want to remember them forever. and still, sometimes when im alone and want someone to talk to, i pretend he is there and i talk to him. omg, im crying right now! ahh! lol, ok sorry, this is hard to talk about, but anyways, im sure you miss her very much and im positive that she died happily knowing you loved her.

i hope this helps!
-Sarah-

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If you cut yourself once...then realize what you've done is stupid..should you seak help?

cutting yourself is a big problem with teens...a lot of my friends do it then tell others not to...its not a good thing to do. i think you should talk to someone about your problems insead of taking them out on yourself. i hope you learn to handle situations differently.

hope this helps!
-Sarah-

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Ok i have this friend and she has an advice page and she is gay but that is a secret.... Her name begins with a s also and her last name starts with a p and well she has a chronic illness and well once again she is gay and well my friend sarah (ooppssss) the one with the chronic illness well she is very sick and she wants to do it with me what do i do??? Note: i am a girl and i am NOT gay

~love Kelly

hey kelly, you are going to an all girls school next year...and im not...by the sounds of that...you are the gay one! haha! jk kelly! hey, did you write that 'flower power' thing on my converse shoes??? jw cuz i thinking about it the other day and i couldnt figure it out.

kelly, you are stupid
-Sarah-

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ok... i like this boy and i think e likes me. sometimes we make like 1 second eye contact or like when we pass by eachother, i can feel a vibe. i gave my friend this note 2 give 2 him and he looked freaked out. so he asked me 2 days later if i wrote it, and i told him no because i guess he didn't like me. ever since said no, he started to bother me again like teasing me and stuff. school ends the 25 and i want 2 know if he likes me or not! plz help!!!!!

you should of told him yes...the worst that could of happened was that he rejects you. i know that sounds harsh, but if you feel something between you two then you shouldnt of lied. talk to him about it.

hope this helps!
-Sarah-

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well to make it kinda short i do drungs. not all the time but i do get high. Well. it seems like thast the only time i can get horny. i mean i know what i'm doing but thats the only time i get "in the mood" and when i'm not i still like making out with my bf. but i'm not horny. and it seems like i dont want ot do anything.. is this normal..

the first thing i want to say is that i have friends who USED to do drugs. once they quit, they became better people and theyre lives are soo much better. and you can never 'kinda shorta' do drugs...you either do or dont. my advice is to quit. it doesnt matter if you are horny or not when making out with your bf...

hope this helps!
-Sarah-

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