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IM REALLY STUCK
hey im a 16 male from cali and i really like this girl. she likes me too and shes 16 as well and i want to ask her out but im not positive if i should because she just got out of a relationship. so im wondering what i should say to her. i dont want to make her ex mad cause hes cool and hes still obsessed with her. i really want to give this a shot with her i just dont know what to say to her any ideas?
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dear I'm really sick well i say to go up too her and say can i talk to you and if she says yes then tell her how you feel and let all of your feelins out
sincerly lauren
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ask her out. if her ex gets mad, explain to him that it over between them two and that he needs to move on. if he is still pissed at him, then you need to help him find someone new. good luck!
hope this helps!
-Sarah-
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i would actually consult her ex-boyfriend first before considering asking her out. If he's ok with it then he might give you some help. If he's not ok with it then you're probably rushing into a relationship with the girl a little too fast.
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maybe you should talk with her friends and see if her x-bf likes her anymore and if he would be kool with it. and then ask about how she would feel if she went out with you
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i think you should talk to her and mabe comfort her and wait a while to get to no each other as friends then like 1 or 2 weeks later ask her out to dinner or a movie good luck xx mrs radcliffe
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give it time, and talk to her ex about it. if does like you, she isnt gonna just stop out of no where.
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<span style="background: url([Link](Mouse over link to see full location); It's so awesome that you care that much about her to consider her feelings and her ex-boyfriend's feelings before you get into anything!! If I were you I would wait a while and just start building up your friendship with her. Be there for her when she needs you and let her take some time to get over the break up. I'm sure she will be more than delighted that you are giving her this free time to just get over a relationship. When you find that the time is right just tell her that she means so much to you and you want to take it up a level and date her for a while. This will give you and her a chance to get to know one another on relationship basis. If dating goes well for a couple days or weeks you'll most likely end up as her boyfriend. The only problem is that her ex-boyfriend still cares for her. And I think that she should let him know that it's over and that she has moved on. If you're friends with her ex or you at least talk to him once in awhile, let him know that you don't want to go against his wishes but you really like this girl. What I think they both need right now is time. Time to get over their relationship. You are such a sweet guy for being so considerate, and even if things don't work out between you and her, any girl should be so lucky to have you, because you seem like a keeper! Good luck!! Love ya -Mandee</span>
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