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Q: hey im a 16 male from cali and i really like this girl. she likes me too and shes 16 as well and i want to ask her out but im not positive if i should because she just got out of a relationship. so im wondering what i should say to her. i dont want to make her ex mad cause hes cool and hes still obsessed with her. i really want to give this a shot with her i just dont know what to say to her any ideas?

dear I'm really sick well i say to go up too her and say can i talk to you and if she says yes then tell her how you feel and let all of your feelins out

sincerly lauren

Q: well... i seem to be having stomachaches very often. And not just lately, it's been almost forever and i'm getting kind of tired of it. it's always after i eat, every time... and it doesn't matter what i eat. typically greasy foods and fattening foods. i feel like i'm going to throw up, and sometimes i do. I don't know what it is! I have a healthy diet and am happy with my wieght. i dont know what is wrong or what's causing it. anyone with any advice, PLEASE help! i rate 5's.

dear stomach problems how old are have you started you period cause whe n i was 11 when i started mine i had belly aches and when mine would stop i would have bellyaches

sicerly kidscanhelp

Q: i really extremely am i love with my boyfriend...but I just dont know how to deal with it!! i cry out of happiness...and just being with him makes butterflies in my stomach..i try to concentrate on other things ...but all i can think about is him!!

dear i'm so in love
before you start talking about that your in love him you should find out how he feel and see if he love u and then you talk like that you never know he could hurt you while your lovin him

sincerly kidscanhelp

Q: Thx alot this is great advice....-phxgurl

u r so welcome when you talk to your friend let me know how it turns out ok

sincerly kidscanhelp

Q: I think it would be considered as molestation but..what are like some signs of maybe molestation?? My dad seems to be touching me just like a little more then he ever has..I mean not in my "places" but he will just rub my shoulders or something?? The other day he also told me I have very pretty green eyes(their like a mix but blue and green but anyways..) and I was like umm thanx?? (thinking uhh wtf?) So what im asking is do you know of any signs or anything that this is the beginning of umm "molesting??" Also is this the right "catergory" for this?? I'm just a little confused sorry.

molesting well the first sign is when he starts to talk to u the way he never did and then it moves on to touching your boobs and if touches that he'll think he can touch u down there so just watch out

sincerly kidscanhelp

Q: i have this friend and she wants to kill her self bc she thinks she doesnt deserve to be in this world and she is like always tellin me and her other friends that she is gonna kill herself and everytime she goes in a room she looks for sharp stuff to kill her self with and i get freaked out.. so if you have any advise plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz tell me i need help! me and her other friends are tryin to make her eat, not kill her self, think positive but nothing is workin plz help

hi i went through the same thing just let her know that with out her that your lifes will be shadred light glass and need her to make it through your life

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Q: my friend jessica is going out with some guy that is 27 and shes only 12(shes been sleeping with him too)!!! my friends and i keep telling her that its considered rape and that he probably wants her just cuz of her body and just wants her for pleasure, cuz what would a guy that old want with her? we tried to explain it to her a lot, but she wont listen...what should we do?

kidscanhelp well maybe you should get her parents involed in that becauses she 12 and he's 27 that 15 years of a age diffrence u need to talk to her and let her know that if she don't stop seeing him that he's going to get in so much trouble it's not funny do her parents even care you need to tell some body real quick teacher,parent,quarden,princapal,police causes that's gross

sincerly kids can help

Q: Hi I'm Phx'sgurl sorry it sounds weird but I need help,there's a guy that I like but I have a boyfriend ,he's nice but I really have feelings for the other guy he's about my age.The other guy on the side has really been there for me and this guy can connect with me alot but I don't know what to do Please give me advice I could really use it and if you can tell me your column name so I could update you later to tell you how it went.My friends told me that the other guys really cute and he's nice but the other guy looks like he really likes me .-Phx'sgurl

kidscanhelp i think you should find out if he likes u first and if he likes u then go out with him

sincerly kidscanhelp

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well i'm 13years old my birthday is in july and i'm very outgoing i'm very helpful and i'v been through so many thing with my best freind and with myself to where i know i could help some body. see one time i had a problem my bf he was cheating on and i didn't know it and one of by best freinds told and when i called him he lied and said he wasn't and then they saw him kissing her and i was so mad at him i lost and started yelling and screaming and i know i shouldn't have do it and know were still together working out our problems with each other it been 3 whole years