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i have this friend and she wants to kill her self bc she thinks she doesnt deserve to be in this world and she is like always tellin me and her other friends that she is gonna kill herself and everytime she goes in a room she looks for sharp stuff to kill her self with and i get freaked out.. so if you have any advise plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz tell me i need help! me and her other friends are tryin to make her eat, not kill her self, think positive but nothing is workin plz help
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hi i went through the same thing just let her know that with out her that your lifes will be shadred light glass and need her to make it through your life
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if you are that freaked you need to tell some1 and adult or her parents. talk to her about it, and if that doesnt work she may need to get help!
~hope i helped~ britt xoxo
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Well, no offense but your friend might have some kind of mental illness. It's not really normal to want to kill yourself to that extent. I would tell her parents about it. Sure she'll get pissed at you but what else can you do? If normal convincing isn't working then just do that. She'll be alright if you do that.
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Tell her that if she decides to leave the world behind, she's also leaving you and your friends behind. Tell her that you really care about her, and if she died, you would be sooooo sad and wouldn't know what to do. Somehow, you have to prove to her that she is loved. Try getting a party together with her family and friends, and she'll realize that people really do care about her. Also, point out everything she's accomplished over the years! She feels like she doesn't deserve to be in this world. I'm not sure why she feels that way, but if you do, you have to prove her wrong somehow! Make her a nice card with a note, it shows that you care. Good luck to you and your friend.
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin
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It is absolutely essential that you report this to an adult, teacher or counsellor IMMEDIATELY. This must be handled now. Do not worry or hesitate. If you love her, do not pat her hand or tell her not to worry or try to get her to eat or try to get her a boyfriend or anything like. If anything, DO NOT LEAVE HER ALONE. One of you stay with her while one of you go talk to an adult. Stay with her while someone takes care of this. I am not kidding. We lost two students, one faculty and one staff member to suicide last year, all within one semester (three of them within a month) because they were left alone for less than an hour. DO IT! Keep in Touch. shelbyjunebug072@yahoo.com
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just a few nights a go a kid at my school hung himself from his bunkbed.......I got so freaked to but just comfort your friend get her a boyfriend or something to make her feel special or get her a gift(not a sharp one)
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deffenetly go tell an adult asap.. and help her and ask her why she wants to do this!! and i dont understand thats eatting thing but oh well umm soo yeh jus go tell an adult that will get ur friend help xOx jiLl
well what IIIIII would do is deff tell my mom.. i have a great relationship with her!!!!!!! or i would tell an adult that im close with i dont know who that would be but i would deffenetly tell my mom!! i.m me jilliix3
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take her to the shrink tell someone...useally people that say they want to kill themselve dont tell people like keep it to themselves..she could be doing it for attention..but she might not be so talk to someone about it
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i think that you should tell either a parent, a teacher, or someone that will listen. i no how it feels to have a friend kill themself. its not a great feeling. just tell someone that will take action. the best thing that you can do is be there for her, and try to talk her outta it. *Katie
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wow that is really scary and serious stuff. Its really good of your guys to try and help her out and act positive around her and try and get tiso her stop. but i think that this girl needs the help of a professional..she needs to be talked to by a counlser or a therapist..If she is not going to admit that she needs to see one, maybe you can annoymously tell the guidance counlser about her and then the gouuidance counlser will help her out without her knowing that you were the one that talked about her, in the long run it will help your friend grealty and she will appreiate it, hope things work out well soon ;)
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