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Ahh.. x boyfriend
I still have major feelings for my ex boyfriend.. he was my first love/ and first person. But we broke up and now he's going out with his girl who's really close with him ( i hate her ). He told me that he wanted to stop talking to me. (but you kinda have to know him to realise what he accualy means, its so confusing, but he says that stuff and doesnt mean it.. he just says that -pretty sure). So i havent talked to him in like 5 days and OMG i really want to so bad, but im not. So my question is- is this the right thing with not talking to him?.. maybe he will miss me or realise some things.. is it for the best? what do i do.. thanks so much..
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you should try talking to him...but just be his friend...not trying to be harsh..but you aint getting him back...almost everyone has been down that road before...some of them get that one person back...but really...barely any of them do...you should try and move on...cuz if you try to get him back..it might just end up making things worse.
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I know how you feel, because I still do have feelings for my ex boyfriend also. The thing is he likes this other girl and it bothers me to see that he says he loves her and stuff. But what I think is that I just want him to be happy, and if hes happy with her then thats fine. We really dont talk that much anymore and sometimes I give him a hug at school, but nothing out of the ordinary. I thought that ignoring him and practicly taking him out of my life would make me get over him but it only made me want him back even more. So I dont talk to him all the time just like somtimes and when we do its not like a long conversation but its good and makes me feel better about things. Try writing poetry, thats what I do. Hang out with friends a lot and just have fun. It will get things off your mind. I hope I helped and if you need anymore help just email me... Jmshorty07@yahoo.com
<3 Katelyn Michelle
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Okay well i think you should talk to him about how you feel. if you let out your feelings and he sees that you still like him, he might feel the exact same way but be scared to admit it. Or maybe he just has a really mean girlfriend that won't let him talk to you because she knows he still likes you! well i <3 ya! i hope i helped!
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Aw, I'm sorry. Well, whether he means it or not, he might just be saying that, because he has a gf and he's afraid of falling back in love with you while he's got a gf. It's going to take a while, but you'll get over him. You just have to start talking to other guys, trust me, it'll help. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin
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