Question Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 4:12 pm
I was in Intenseive Care in the hospital for about 2 weeks because of something serious. One of my closest guy friends visited me at LEAST once a day, not that I minded or anything. But then, one of my last days in the hospital, he asked me out. Just then, the nurse walked in, and said that I porbibly wasn't thinking straight because of the IV. Well, I don't no if he really likes me, or is afraid that if something like that (me being in the hospital) happeneds again, he might lose me. I'm afraid that if i go out with him, that I'll only be doing it because I would feel guilty if I didn't. But, I don't no if he really likes me or not. What should I do? *Thanks*
Additional info, added Wednesday January 12 2005, 4:14 pm: We've been friends only since the begining of this school year, but feels like we've known eachother for about 10 years. I don't want to hurt him.... Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Shortie8959 answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 5:12 pm: You have to tell him how you feel. Write him a note and ask him if he likes you more than a friend, because he DID ask you out in the hospital. But you have to decide whether YOU like HIM or not, because you said you'd only be doing it out of guilt. If you don't like him like that, then don't go out with him, because you'll only hurt him. But if you do like him, just find out if he really likes you. Ask his friends or ask him in a note. Good luck!
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hopeihelped answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 4:52 pm: Darling.. he LIKES you! And you know that he really cares about you because he visited you very often. I hope you don't think that it was stalkerish because it's not. It's really cute and nice. I think that you should go out with him because if he's you're really good friend and he likes you...
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