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Molesting??
I think it would be considered as molestation but..what are like some signs of maybe molestation?? My dad seems to be touching me just like a little more then he ever has..I mean not in my "places" but he will just rub my shoulders or something?? The other day he also told me I have very pretty green eyes(their like a mix but blue and green but anyways..) and I was like umm thanx?? (thinking uhh wtf?) So what im asking is do you know of any signs or anything that this is the beginning of umm "molesting??" Also is this the right "catergory" for this?? I'm just a little confused sorry.
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I think your dad just truely adores you his little boy BUT your not little any more hey. If your uncomfortable with the physical connection tell him so. Maybe come on dad that's a little gay? isn't it. I bet he didn't realize he was offending & confusing you. your a young man soon. Shoulders are fine that's not dirty that's affection and contact with your spirit as Dad to Son affection. He's cool.
Be aware though it is not acceptable to degrade children in any way shape or form. You report to appropriate authorities anything your not comfortable with by anyone.... your body your rights.
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You need to talk to someone about it as soon as possible i'm serious, dont listen to what some of the other people said on here who were being rude...you need to talk to an aunt, or your mom, or someone at your school or something i'm serious, sometimes molestation does start with just a touch of the sholders...there are all sorts of ways that people do which is the beginning of molesting someone believe me I know...contact me and I will tell you more about it in an e-mail or on msn, and I will help you out!...My e-mail is sassy2dacore101@hotmail.com which is also my msn name, so i can explain it to you more...but you do need to talk to an adult as soon as possible...i know this may not help but send me an e-mail or IM me on msn...-Nikki
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thats not molesting. molesting is when he touches you in your private areas. i dunno i think hes jus tryin to get closer wit you. jus watch out and see what happens
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I think you are paranoid or like you are obsessed with having some kind of problem. Are you looking for trouble or something???? Its not like after all these years your dad just woke up one day and thought " I think im going to molest my daughter today." grow up!!!! And if you were smart and really were insulted by him rubbing your shoulders, or whatever, then you would have told him that you were uncomfortable.
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I don't think anything bad is happening - at least, I don't think your father is starting to molest you or planning on molesting you.
That being said, if the way he's acting is making you uncomfortable, tell him. He might be a completely caring father, but if he's making you uncomfortable than he should know. It doesn't have to be molestation to make you feel weird, so make sure you are clear about your boundaries.
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I don't think there is a need to worry at this point. Complimenting you on your pretty green eyes is not a sign of molestation, nor is rubbing your shoulders. If his hands meandered toward your front down to your breasts, THEN it would be molestation. If he started saying more obvious sexual statements, then it would sexual abusive molestation and might bear looking into for more serious problems. But for the present, I think your dad is just being affectionate. Hope I helped.
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omg you should tell your mom right away. whenever dads start rubbing their daughters shoulders and being dad-like..thats the first sign. get help now before its too late!
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I think hand gestures of that kind and a father telling his daughter in some way that she's pretty is normal. No that's not molesting of any kind, that's just a dad being a dad. However, if you he should ever do something other than that like touching you in places you know he shouldn't then keep this number...and use it. National Child Abuse Hotline 800-4-A-CHILD
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your ada is not molestion you ... if he was molesting you he would have strang physical contact . your dad isnt doing anything that unusual he complemented you and rubed your sholders ... maybe he though you wanted you sholders rubbed
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personally i dont think that would be considered molestation. if he starts touching you in certain unmentionable places, you need to tell someone. i dont think you have anything to worry about.
x3 KaTiE LyNn
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molesting well the first sign is when he starts to talk to u the way he never did and then it moves on to touching your boobs and if touches that he'll think he can touch u down there so just watch out
sincerly kidscanhelp
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Molesting would be him touching you in places he's not suppose to be touching you. Making you feel so uncomfortable that your scared to be in the same room with him. Or him getting you to do things that you don't want to do. I'm sure by him telling you that you have pretty green eyes, that's not molesting. If he starts to do stuff, touching you and such, I'd try to get help or turn to someone you trust.
♥ Krissy
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