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Question Posted Thursday June 24 2004, 12:52 am

If you cut yourself once...then realize what you've done is stupid..should you seak help?

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Additional info, added Thursday June 24 2004, 1:13 am:
I don't feel like I need help...I'm just really really emotional and I cry about EVERYTHING and I just got really upset one night and yea...but it wasn't anything big.....it kinda scared me b/c after I did it was like "what the hell am I thinking?"...

Is it bad if I still think about doin it?
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missmanda answered Thursday August 12 2004, 12:17 am:
no because uve done it once.. u kno its stupid so OBVIOUSLY ur not going to do it again.. so no.

just PLEASE dont do it again, cutting is something u will regret forever.. i know from expierence!

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blake08 answered Saturday August 7 2004, 2:49 am:
cutter..

since it is ure first time maybe you dont need help but if you do it agian it becomes an addiction...so then you need to seek help..but i think that you should quit now while u r ahead because i was a cutter and i know how it gets...
if ya need more advice add me to yahoo as big_Blake08 or e-mail me at big_blake08@yahoo.com

Im willing to help anytime

Blake08$$$

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Dr.Toby answered Friday July 2 2004, 1:29 am:
When you relized what your doing is wrong and know you wont do it any more no. There are some things that can be left unknow.

But when you think about doing it again maybe you should seriously think about it getting help. It's ok to be upset but when you hurt your self like this something must be done. People are there to help you and cutting yourself itsn't gonna help anything but instead make things worse. I advise you get a theripist. You don't have to tell her that your cutting yourself, tell her what makes you upset.

*Toby*

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bAbYCHeeR792 answered Thursday July 1 2004, 11:16 am:
If you think it is stupid, than you shouldn't do it again. you don't need to seak help if you know it's stupid, and you have stoped.

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rookin answered Thursday July 1 2004, 2:01 am:
no, just NEVER do it again. I am a cutter and trust me it is hard to get addicted to it, but once you do it is really hard to stop. Please, stop and never do it again.

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BrownEyez answered Thursday June 24 2004, 12:57 pm:
You should definitely get help. Maybe it's not such a big deal now, but maybe, if you wait until you cut again to get help, it'll be too late.

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Lanabeanz answered Thursday June 24 2004, 12:13 pm:
Well yes you might need to seek help..but maybe not since you olny did it once...but dont do it anymore cause you can die from getting an infection or lose to much blood.....so you might need to seek help..if you are tempted to do it again..HOPE THIS HELPS AND PLEASE DONT DO IT AGAIN TO BE SAFE.
Love Lanabeanz

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LostSoul answered Thursday June 24 2004, 10:25 am:
ok i use 2 cut myself allot but my friends and family didnt say i neded help until they saw it coming and coming u no new ones all the time, just plz dont make it a habit.

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KiSsEs answered Thursday June 24 2004, 5:11 am:
YES!!! u need to seek help because your crying for attention and its possible you'll do it again. its just good that you realized it was stupid before it got even worse. If your crying about EVERYTHING? then you need to take some time and get your life together because your not just hurting yourself but also the people around you! DONT say "IT WSNT ANYTHING BIG" because it WAS and the fact that your STILL thinkin about doin it makes things worse!

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MrToAsTy answered Thursday June 24 2004, 1:42 am:
YES!!! u shouldnt just wait for it too hapen again..... its good that u realized its stupid.... but u should at least find out y so it doesnt happen again

hope i helped

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_pott_head_ answered Thursday June 24 2004, 1:36 am:
cutting yourself is a big problem with teens...a lot of my friends do it then tell others not to...its not a good thing to do. i think you should talk to someone about your problems insead of taking them out on yourself. i hope you learn to handle situations differently.

hope this helps!
-Sarah-

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Siren_Cytherea answered Thursday June 24 2004, 1:30 am:
You can think about it all you want, as long as you don't act on it. If you do, seek help. Talk to someone, anyone, really.
To tell the truth...I thought about it one night, but never did it 'cause I hate pain. Lol.
it's normal to get really depressed/emotional. You're a teenager...I'm guessing you're young, like 14/15, maybe 16.
It's good that you realized what you did was stupid. Means you're not depressed beyond reason.
Honestly, I don't think you're a true cutter. Cutters cut - I believe - to escape their emotional pain, and they don't think what they're doing is stupid.
I'm glad you came to your senses before you did any real damage. =)
Don't cut. Talk. Talking works. Yell to someone, punch your mattress, write bad angsty poetry...but don't cut.
Hope I helped!
-Siren =)

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FrEe2bMe answered Thursday June 24 2004, 1:28 am:
Well, the fact that you have only done it oncei s a good sign. But, at the same time, if you had the notion to do it once you may do it again and the next time it may be deeper and that becomes more addictive and dangerous. The fact that you see it as stupid is good, but you still should seek some help. You could just maybe tell an adult like your parents. They won't misjudge you like you think they may...they are there to help. Talk to them about your problems..it's okay to be emotional and cry but it's not okay to cut..if you need further help, there are doctors who specialize in cutting. Best of luck, and I'm always here to help, guide, or listen. :)

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orphans answered Thursday June 24 2004, 1:02 am:
well i think the reason u cut urself dat 1 time is cause u seen it in lyk movies n tv n stuff or mayb u have friends that cut? its pretty natural for the human body 2 be curious. but im not gonna lie it is a reely stupid thing to be curious about.but if u realize that wut uve done is reely stupid than i think u should be good. ur not crazy so dont think u r. n its also natural for ppl to cry. lol hope i helped

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xoxjessicaxo answered Thursday June 24 2004, 12:56 am:
that is kinda a hard question. i knew someone who used to cut herself, and no one got her the help she needed, and she eventually killed herself. so even if you did realize that it was stupid, u should seek help b/c you could easily do it again. so you need someone to talk about your problems with so this situation doesnt get outta hand. tell either a doctor, or a parent, and they should get you the help you need.:) i hope i helped you

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