I love giving people advice because some of the advice I give relate to problems I am having with friends, family, and boy friends, and girl friends. I am also 14 a female and live in Colorado!!
Member Since: June 23, 2004
Answers: 26
Last Update: June 26, 2004
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im horny what should i do? (link)
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You should just wack off or do something like that or call ur g/f over and have sex wit her adema814!!!
lOVE lANABEANZ
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I want to earn money and I'm really smart so I figured I would tutor people since my mom wouldnt let me babysit. Can anyone help me with tips on what I need to get started? (link)
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Well tutoring u tell the people that need it to pick the subject then need.....so then you start at the basics and just go from there...hope that helps.!!!
Love Lanabeanz
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um...well im 5'7" and i weigh 140 at most.am i over wieght? (link)
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naw im 5'5 13 and weigh 170...you not over weight you are just the perfect size..and you weigh more than you want because you are a very tall person...Hope that helps!!
Love Lanabeanz
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my sis has many friends that i like and a fyew that i think like me! -_-;
im not sure what 2 do... (link)
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Well you should have your sister ask these people if they like you and if they do....just ask one of them out for him to be your boy friend!!! hope that helps!!!
Love Lanabeanz
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My best friend has a lot of shoes. all of them are really cute but every time she wears a pair they never match her outfit. how do i let her know w/ out hurting her feelings that her shoes dont match. signed,
out of style (link)
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Well what you should do is just say hey.....you should wear these shoes..they really are cute on you and match your outfit.....Hope that helps!!
Love Lanabeanz
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MY daughter is 3 yrs old and she goes to Day-Care. Last week-end i asked her best friends mum if her daughter cld come ansd spend the week-end at our house and she agreed with condition that the next coming week-end my dauhter goes over to her place. now as the week-End draws nearer i tend to wish i had'nt agreed to the condition. I know it is not fair as her daughter did come to my place. I have never once been apart from my baby and if i was going out i always left her with family+My daughter is very personal. What sld i do!!!!THE WEEK-END IS GETTING NEARER (link)
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Well the best thing to do is let her go...because even if it is really really hard 4 you...you need to thnk about when she becomes older and then you will be seeing her less often...so you better get used to letting her have some fun and let her go......hope this helps...GOOD LUCK!!
Love Lanabeanz
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im da grl w/ da problem w/ da blk guy.umm.its like he doesnt live w/ his parents and he is 17 and im 14 fixen 2 b 15. he gets into all da clubs and like i got put on probation 4 sneakin out w/ him and da cops caught us.but i only did it cuz they wouldnt let me see him.im really in-love w/ him and i wanna be w/ him sososososo bad. all i think bout is him n where he is n what hes doin. im so scared that if i dont get w/ him soon he is not gonna wanna be w/ me please tell me what u think i should do>>>> (link)
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Well I think that you two should talk to each other and just tell him that if you cant see him for a while that you still love him and want to be together 4 ever and then if he says no..then just ask him to be friends or he was just not a very good b/f...Well i hope this help..but if u need more advice on this....write me again!!
Love Lanabeanz
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this is gonna sound really bad...please no body be offinded...but i fell in love w/ this black guy and we dated for 6 months then i moved in w/ my aunt and uncle and they wont let me date him.i think its the most stupid thing ive ever heard in my whole damn life. what should i do. (link)
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Well why wont they let you?? be a little more pasific..and write me back.....and if it is cause he is black thne just tell them predulous is very very very bad!!! write me back though....so i can really really help you......BYE
Love Lanabeanz
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after i shower i lay with my pusssy up towards the bath tub facuet and turn it on.. the pressure feels amazing and i really enjoy it.. but is it wrong and will it hurt me? (link)
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NO...i dont personaly think it will do anything bad to your you know.....and it is natrual that it must feel good so you do it...but dont turn the power tooo high or it might actually do a little damage....Well i hope that helps..if you need anymore information about it then just write me back...Hope this helps
Love Lanabeanz
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how far do ya'll think is the best to go in a relationship of 5 months. (link)
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Well I think you and your mate have been going steady for a while so I personly think that the next step is sex...well it depends how old you both are..but if you are old enough...you both need to agree if you think the time is right then you should..but if your not old enough yet...Write me back and we will figure something out..GOOD LUCK!!
Love Lanabeanz
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i'm a girl and i want this guy to be my boyfriend..what do i do?
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Well if you two arent friends then you better go over to him and talk to each other and become good friends so that when you both get tight enough you can ask him out of maybe he will ask you out........so joke around with him make him laugh and maybe he will become totaly absessed with you!!! Hope this helps
Love Lanabeanz
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If you cut yourself once...then realize what you've done is stupid..should you seak help? (link)
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Well yes you might need to seek help..but maybe not since you olny did it once...but dont do it anymore cause you can die from getting an infection or lose to much blood.....so you might need to seek help..if you are tempted to do it again..HOPE THIS HELPS AND PLEASE DONT DO IT AGAIN TO BE SAFE.
Love Lanabeanz
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I HAVE THIS EX B/F...WE STILL TALK ON THE PHONE ALOT... AND WE FLIRT ALL THE TIME.. A PART OF ME WANTS TO DATE HIM AGAIN.. BUT THE OTHER PART DOESN'T.. SOME ONE PLEASE HELP ME!! (link)
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Well think do you think he flirts enough with you for him to like you....and do you think he is really that special one....well if so then I think that you need to follow the part where you think u should go steady....so go for it take a chance and if he says no..then you both can still be tight friends!!! hope that helps!!
Love Lanabeanz
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evr since i was born my grandmother has always been with me. even more than my own mother........not lyk she a bad mom or nethin but......lemme explain.....wen i was born my mom was have some economic problems so she told my grandmother to take me to the Dominican Republic (country where all my relatives were born cept me)neways i came bak 2 us wen i was 4 n my grandmother has lived with us ever since......well until a few weeks ago when she passed away..........ne advice on how to deal wit it? (link)
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Well it is very hard to lose a family member that close....but you just have to thnk that she is looking down right now at you being very very proud of you......i know it is very hard to lose her but you just have to think of the good old days with her....and dont worry she still loves you!!
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why would i ask him to change when i am the one that wants to change??? (link)
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Well if he changes then he will be more like you and so then you two will maybe haev a better relationship.
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female/15 ok this guy that i have been going out with for almost a year really wants to have sex, so do i though. I just am not quite sure if i should be having sex yet...what do you think? i really want to and i love him SOOOOO much! yes or no (link)
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Well i think that u need to think if u are ready to have sex, then u both get ready with a condon and do it.....but i think it is totaly normal that u feel uncomfortable....so yes i think u both think so, so u both should try!
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how can i hide a hickey? (link)
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First off if u have long hair u can just cover it up with your hair...but if u have short hair go to the store, and buy some cover up that matches with yopur skin...and then just put a lot on the hicky making it look normal
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well to make it kinda short i do drungs. not all the time but i do get high. Well. it seems like thast the only time i can get horny. i mean i know what i'm doing but thats the only time i get "in the mood" and when i'm not i still like making out with my bf. but i'm not horny. and it seems like i dont want ot do anything.. is this normal.. (link)
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Well first off u really need to think that if u get caught doin drugs then u will have a horrible life and have ur whole future thrown away.....so think about it....u need to start fingering urself or just make ur b/f do stuff like that to make u more horny.....and dont worry this is totaly natural.
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well okay first off im a girl and i want to pleasure myself fingering just dosen't work i get nothing out of that and i have no toys and can't go out and buy them because im "to younge' please give me some ideas im so horny rite now and im home alone thank you so much (link)
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Well first off if u have a boy friend call him up so that u two can start to get nauty and have sex or do anything u both wanna do that makes u feel good and way MORE horny.
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i need help because i am so ready to begin a serouse relationship but my mom thinks im to young! im ready to kiss a guy or make out but im scared my mom will find out! hat do i do! (link)
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Well first off all mostly all mothers are like that...she just wants u to be careful....but if u begin a good relation ship then i think u should go on a head and kiss the guy and even if u are this serious.....then u need to go over to his house and just try to have sex......i an pretty sure if no one sees u two doing it then u dont have to worry about anybody or your mom finding out.
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