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female/15 ok this guy that i have been going out with for almost a year really wants to have sex, so do i though. I just am not quite sure if i should be having sex yet...what do you think? i really want to and i love him SOOOOO much! yes or no
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*If your not sure don't push yourself into it. Tell him how you feel about it and I'm sure he'll understand. Just wait for the right moment when you ARE ready.*
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That is your choice, it is a big decision. You are only 15, think of the downsides... you could get pregnant, or he could have some kind of disease, also what would your friends and family think about you? What would you think about yourself? On the upside you said you "love" him and that you want to. Just really think about it.
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Well i think that u need to think if u are ready to have sex, then u both get ready with a condon and do it.....but i think it is totaly normal that u feel uncomfortable....so yes i think u both think so, so u both should try!
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ok if u thik ur ready and u kno 4 sure that u are in love wit him go 4 it but use protction!
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LOVE is a nice thing but do not give up ur VIRGINITY because of it VIRGINITY is sacred and just because one boy wants sex does not mean that talk to ur boyfriend about wat u can do without having sex
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Well. If I were you, I would probably do it. Just use protection AT ALL TIMES. Both of you are in love and you should do something about it.
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I personally would say you do not need to . Not because of your age or anything , but because you are asking if you should , and if you have doubts or have to ask someone else then you are not ready .
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what ever ur heart says...if u think it might hurt ur relationship then dont..& if he is pressuring u then he aint worth it..good luck
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if i were you, i would wait. because what if he tells someone and then people like think youre a slut because you lost your virginity at 15??? i wouldnt want that reputation... if you really love him and he loves you, he should respect your decision to not think its a good time. tell him how you feel and maybe you can make some decisions together...
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The fact that you are doubting it should be a red flag to you. Do not do it unless you are 100% sure you want to. Just because he wants to doesn't mean you have to. And if he loves you too, he will respect your boundaries and wait till you feel that you are ready. I won't say you are too young, or that you should wait till you are older... Just wait till you know it is absolutely right and you won't have any regrets.
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No. Final Answer your to young. i know i sound like a mom but hey! lol -trix
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Um...nobody can really tell you what to do and even though I believe it's not right for a 15 year old to have sex, we STILL cannot tell you what to do. I really don't think you should. Please don't...I don't want you accidently getting pregnant...please...just do me a favor and think od tehg consequences. I know you love this boy...and I believe you...just...please don't.
~Gessyka
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If you want to and use protection, go for it. (And even with a condom you can still get pregnant!) While you're at it, go to teenorg.com and click on Articles to learn how to give him a great blowjob. Good luck!
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No, don't.
When I was about your age I had been going out with a guy for almost a year, and he made it clear that he wouldn't've minded, but I decided not to go that far and eventually we broke up and I'm really thankful that I made the choice I did ^_^
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If you feel you are ready then yes, and you've already said you love he so much, so it's just a matter of wheather your ready.
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