Hi! My name is Dakota Lynn. I'm 15 years old and I'm here to give allll of you the help you need. I hang out with people ages 14-17 so I have listened to childish and mature problems ranging from school to boyfriends. My friends say I give the best peptalks and awesome advice so thats why I'm here. I'm really good in school. Straight A's and in the gifted program. Need any school help? I'm here. I also have an aol screenname. likeasunset55 so feel free to IM me or email me at dakotalynn721@hotmail.com. I love you all and wish you the best of luck with your problems. xoxo
Gender: Female Member Since: June 14, 2004 Answers: 11 Last Update: December 4, 2005 Visitors: 1984
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You answered my question about the '100 things I love about you' and I wanted to see what you think about my finished product!
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First of all, you and your boyfriend are one of the cutest couples I've ever seen. You honestly remind me of me and my boyfriend. And me and my boyfriend do like all the same things and I love him for all the same reasons lol. Weird. Lol But altogether, that present is going to be amazing and obviously by reading the reasons why you love him and those things you love that he does i think means that he will love it. He seems sentimental. And it seems ordinary but most guys WONT take any pictures of kisses. And he does. And so does mine. Thats what makes them extra special. Don't that one go. He's a cutie and youre super pretty. Perfect match.
I wish the best of luck to you two and your present :-)
Love,
Dakota
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For Christmas I thought it'd be cute to do a '100 things I like about you' for my boyfriend. First of all, is that a terrible idea? What do you think he'd think about it? He's pretty sentimental about gifts.
&& Do you have any ideas that I could put in there?
(IE: 17. I love when you say those cute little sayings you come up with out of nowhere.
23. I love how you write me notes when we both know you dislike it.
34. I love how you hug me from behind.)
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I think that is probably the most adorable thing I have ever heard. I did something like that before. But I just did top 10 and my boyfriend loved it. I'm kind of jealous I didn't do 100 though. I say go for it. And if he doesnt like it, screw him. It was a sentimental idea and came from the heart. You can't go out and buy that gift anywhere.
Good luck!
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How do I stop thinking about a guy that I am madly in love with, but hate at the same time?! (link)
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well i used to be like that until about 2 or 3 weeks ago...if you have like gone out with this guy before and hes like given you stuff and its like sitting out in your room, put it in a place where you cant see it...that way there isnt anything that like jogs your memory of him when you are in your room. and just start like meeting new guys and hang out with your friends to help get your mind off him. it would really help me give you more advice if you could explain your situation in more detail. so just drop one in my inbox if you want and that way i can give you more help :-)
cya later! good luck!
.:*DaKoTa*:.
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ok this question doesnt really fit under the category but anyways, when you are kissing like with you tongue are you supposed be moving your lips too? (link)
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kind of...you kind of have to lol but dont use too much tongue *dakota
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I have a friend, well more of an aquatence well i dont know what you would call her but newyas.. she has hurt me so much and we fight all the time. she was my best friend and i dont have barely any friends, just a boyfriend i have loved dearly for 7 months! i dont know what to do. I dont want to be her friend but i do. its so confusing but im fed up with people walking all over me and i wish i had friends that werent so immature and didnt go to my school. i just need someone to talk to and shes not that person nemore. she has told my secrets before and i can barely trust her with nething. what do i do? should i still be her friend? (link)
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well i have a friend like that and what i think you should do is, talk about it. and stay her friend but dont tell her your secrets anymore and try to make some more friends...good luck!!
*Dakota
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Well theres this guy and i have liked him for over 4 years...we dated in jr.high and now were in HS...i thought i would never get another chance with him...but lately things have changed, we both like eachother and want a relationship but theres a prob...he still has a GF, he hasnt seen her in like 4 weeks and the last time they talked was like a week ago (shes having fam probs), he told her about us and she wasnt too happy, he wants to break up with her but hasnt had the chance...shes my friend (well i think so idk now?!)...and i still wana be friends and be with him too....so what should i do?...forget about him & stay cool with her?...or stay with him n not be friends with her? (link)
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well if youre good friends with this girl, i dont know if its a good idea. because if this kid is as fickle as im thinking he is, he might change his mind about you as he did with her. and this girl doesnt need anything else to worry about with her family problems and all. good luck. *Dakota
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im moving to a new house and i couldnt be more happier about it. the only thing that i thought was bothering me was the fact that its out in the middle of no where! but last night i broke down talking to a friend and realized more was bugging me. I live with my grandparents because my mom has a boyfriend that i was never really fond of. he use to hurt her a lot and she picked him over me. so i moved out.she still comes over every day to my grandparents house to visite me but now that we are moving i dont see her driving every day an extra 10 minutes to see me. she lives not even 2 minutes from me now and now im moving farther! i hate the fact that im moving away from my parents because they are my parents but yet i can never live with them and im still hurt from what happen. i dont know what to think or do? (link)
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i know you want what is best for you AND your mother but do what is best for you. because you dont live with her anyways...you have to live your own life and not worry about others so much. just do what makes you feel better. good luck! *Dakota
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I met a guy the other night and he's really nice and stuff. I was going through a rough time and he helped me out and made me feel better. But then yesturday I was talking to one of my friends who is friends with him and he said "he does that with all the girls that he talks to and he's just trying to get in your pants" I don't personnally think thats what he is trying to do...but I'm naive...should I listen to my friend instead? (link)
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well i know what you are going through. well sometimes you need to listen to your friends and sometimes you need to take chances. if youre friend really cares for you and you know that he would tell you the truth, maybe you should listen to him. maybe hang out with the guy at a place that some more people will be at. but when you two are alone, see what happens. if he tries to go farther than you want to, tell him to back off. but if he doesnt really try anything and he just wants to hang out, hes a good guy. dont let down your guard too quick though. and remember, actions speak louder than words.
~dakota
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My friend,say her name is Sally, has been talking about my other friend, say Suzie. Sally is really nice and all but when Suzie isn't around she talks about her. And when Suzie is around she is nice and everything to her. How can i get Sally to be nice about Suzie behind her back without making Sally mad at me? (link)
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well i have had this problem before so i know exactly what you are going through. i know it can be very frustrating and annoying to have to deal with listening to your friend talk about your other friend. well what you need to do is tell sally that she isnt being a very good friend to suzie is she does that. let her know that you are friends with suzie and you dont want to start any fights between the three of you but she needs to stop talkin about your friend. dont be mean about it but let her know what she is doing is wrong. be nice when you tell her though. hope this helps! good luck :-)
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female/15 ok this guy that i have been going out with for almost a year really wants to have sex, so do i though. I just am not quite sure if i should be having sex yet...what do you think? i really want to and i love him SOOOOO much! yes or no (link)
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if i were you, i would wait. because what if he tells someone and then people like think youre a slut because you lost your virginity at 15??? i wouldnt want that reputation... if you really love him and he loves you, he should respect your decision to not think its a good time. tell him how you feel and maybe you can make some decisions together...
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Ok, I personally think this is total bull shit but, there's this girl I went out with for 6 months and shit and shes a twin. She broke up with me a little bit ago, maybe about 4 weeks. Anyway, we broke up and shit, and then I had feelings for her sister. I mean like deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep serious feelings. I don't know if I should tell her or not say anything so their relationship won't be worried. What the hell should I do? (link)
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well see if i was your ex, i would get mad no matter who you went out with. But i kind of think its a bad idea, even though i know you hate hearing that. Because your ex is going to think "well he thinks my sister is prettier than me" if they arent identical. and if they are she'll think that her sister has a better personality than herself and she will get depressed. so youre screwed either way so just dont do it. Its not a good idea. in the end, it will hurt all three of you. cuz what happens if you have feelings for your ex, then you'll hurt the twin ...its not a good idea...forget about her and find someone else
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