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Fed Up
I have a friend, well more of an aquatence well i dont know what you would call her but newyas.. she has hurt me so much and we fight all the time. she was my best friend and i dont have barely any friends, just a boyfriend i have loved dearly for 7 months! i dont know what to do. I dont want to be her friend but i do. its so confusing but im fed up with people walking all over me and i wish i had friends that werent so immature and didnt go to my school. i just need someone to talk to and shes not that person nemore. she has told my secrets before and i can barely trust her with nething. what do i do? should i still be her friend?
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This sounds like a situation that I've gone throught before. I would advise you to go get a new best friend. Even though it might not be the easy thing, I would still give it a try. When I was in your same situation, I found new best friends pretty easily and I'm really happy that I did what I did.
However, you may want to stay "acquaintences" with your ex-best friend just in case she wants to black mail you or anything. I would try to drift away from her slowly. You can find much better friends than her. There are many fish in the sea
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Only you can make that big decision to dump her or stay. But if i was you which im not i would stop beiong friends. Because what she is doing is very mean and rude. She isnt seeing your point of veiw at all and if you only have your boy friend well hes your best friend. It is better than have 1 best friend then a friend that is mean and doesnt keep secrets or steps all over you. Be more firm dont be mean just dont let that happen place your opinion and if others dont like it then they can deal. Hope iv helped at least a little.
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Short N Punky
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ok what i think u shoul do is talk to ur friend about it
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well i have a friend like that and what i think you should do is, talk about it. and stay her friend but dont tell her your secrets anymore and try to make some more friends...good luck!!
*Dakota
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I'd probably stay friends with her, but I sure as hell wouldn't tell her anymore secrets.
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