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Should I...
I met a guy the other night and he's really nice and stuff. I was going through a rough time and he helped me out and made me feel better. But then yesturday I was talking to one of my friends who is friends with him and he said "he does that with all the girls that he talks to and he's just trying to get in your pants" I don't personnally think thats what he is trying to do...but I'm naive...should I listen to my friend instead?
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This could be true. But I think that your friend is just jealous. If you like the guy then go for him. DOn't go believeing everything you hear. You have to learn things for yourself. Hope i helped! :)
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well i think you should be cautious....but remember not all guys are like that. Your friend might not being telling the truth but then again he might. Just dont let your guards down but until u know for sure I dont see a reason to stop talking to the guy!
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well i know what you are going through. well sometimes you need to listen to your friends and sometimes you need to take chances. if youre friend really cares for you and you know that he would tell you the truth, maybe you should listen to him. maybe hang out with the guy at a place that some more people will be at. but when you two are alone, see what happens. if he tries to go farther than you want to, tell him to back off. but if he doesnt really try anything and he just wants to hang out, hes a good guy. dont let down your guard too quick though. and remember, actions speak louder than words.
~dakota
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well,,give this guy a chnace if you see what your frined is saying is right then i wouldnt take it any farther. If he trys to "get in your pants",or wants to tell him your not ready and if he dosent respect that then you dont need him.
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Well you did just meet this guy that night so i would listen to your friend because I am sure you friends knows more then you do (no offense sorry) but guys can really fool you they act good and they talk like nothing else is up-trix
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Give the guy a shot and if he tries anything - kick the shit out of him.
Just because other girls have fallen for the same thing doesn't mean you have to also. Heres a way to test his feelings about you:
If you give him the chance and you both get close and he tries to get physical, tell him politely that things are going a bit too fast. Heres the test part: gauge his reaction. If he sighs or gets upset then hes only after you for the physical, but if is ok with it and tells you he's sorry and that he'll take things slow then most likely he isnt just after some action.
Your guy friend might be jealous and lieing on purpose, but he also might be telling the truth, so dont let your guard down just because he treats you nicely and tells you what you want to hear. Make sure you remember what your friend told you and keep that in mind when you're with this guy - don't let things get out of hand. You're the one in control.
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well maybe your friends right... but maybe not! See guys always make up lies if they get jealous of another guy, "Oh he just wants in your pants", "Oh hes just gonna play you"... ya know stuff like that! Go for the other guy if he you like him... But just make sure you if he trys anything on you that You stand your grounds and say No, and dont let him talk you into it! You gotta try things out even if friends dont like it
-Holly-
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maybe your friend is jealous of him idk but you may have to realize that guys will just try to get into ur pants and sum arent as sweet as u think they may be. personally i think you should listen to your friend because he is just tryin to look out for you and keep you safe! hope i helped!
<3/Dakota
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well if you like then you should go out with him, but if you do date him, and he wants to "get in ur pants" really early in relationship, then ye thas all hes after.
as far as listening to ur friend goes, how long have you known ur friend and is this friend trustworthy?
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