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i welcome you to ask a dork aka shelly. ive had serious ups and downs including love, alcohol abuse, friends splitting, having no one to turn to and all that crap. ask me a question already! im bored!!
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Age: 16
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in 1 year i have to choose between field hockey and soccer b/c the 2 sports take place at the same time!! I do not wantt o choose but i have to so what do u think i should choose or what woule be a good way to choose?
Thanks for the Help!!
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u dont have to choose b/w sports!! i know some people who play football, cross country and have a part time job, plus homework! as long as your happy doing what you love, thats what counts, not wishing you were playing a differnt game.


whats a good name for a new fish?

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bob, fishy, nemo, manny, fido, shark bait.......


i love rock/punk...i'm always looking for new stuff to listen to. can anyone name a few bands for me? (link)
velvet revolver, disturbed, if u want goth-punk-rock, rob zombie, audioslave, guns n roses (they're old but good), and jet. dont buy avirl's new cd. it suked. and dont listen to that "BarbieBabe" chic. she doesnt know what punk is.


ok has anyone seen that movie thats called Thirteen??...well its like my favorite movie and i have watched it like 1000 times seriously!..well anyways...i like the way tracy and evey act,look and stuff...is that bad that thats influencing me ...im not tlakin about the stuff they do...but if you seent the movie you'll know what im tlakin about me and i hope you'll help!!

thanks!! (link)
Hey its shelly. you never want to be like that it is so depressing. all you want to do is die. i went thru almost the exact same thing. you dig yourself into a hole, then u realize your in a hole and you try to get out, but u cant. your in over your head. i no all that stuff seems cool, but its just a way to feel important. if you have friends like that, you dont need enemys.

my so called 'best friend' stole from me, and lied to my face while looking into my eyes. she made me lie for her, while thinking that she has my back too, she goes off and gets drunk off her ass, having the best time of her life, while im stuck at home fighting all her shit. no one needs a friend like that. Her parents blamed me when the found out all what had done. they said i was supposed to be 'the good influence'.

anyways, point is, you never want to get yourself into that little black hole b/c it consumes you and everything that you do.


**shelly**


my name is adisley and i need a nickname for my friends to call me....please help (link)
ada beda zada....



alrite..i`m gonna be gettin my braces off soon, and i really don't want yellowish teeth with white spots, so im gonna use whitening stuff. But i dont kno what works the best, does anybody use some that works really good? (link)
im trying "Colgate 'simply white'" and it is awesome. i wont use the strips cuz i always forget, but this totally works cuz u cant forget. its toothpaste!


i just drank a bottle of water and i feel hungry now and im on a diet and i cant eat anything likt but salads and fruits and vegies and i really cant go get um rite now cuz i dun wanan wake up my pareents being lound ya get wut im sayin..i guess i wil rate ya (link)
eat celery wit peanut butter. try peanut butter wit jelly and gram crackers. those are really good. try making trail mixes wit like nuts, rasins, dehydrated bannanas or other fruits, cherrios


What time in the day should you work out? (mourning, afternoon, night?)

And does stretching help lose wight??

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it doesnt matter what time you work out. its just whenever. if you do it in the morning, i tend to have more energy durring the rest of the day. if i work out in the evening, i go to sleep better. idn, its just whenever you have time or whatever time you feel best. idn if stretching helps to lose weight, but make sure you do it before, after and durring your workout.

shelly


What is the best cd made from:

Black Sabbath?
KISS?
ACDC?
Jimi Hendrix? (link)
Hey people i want the best cd name of Black Sabbath.

whats the best cd made from KISS?

Whats the best cd made from ACDC?

whats the best cd made from Jimi Hendrix?


Ok..volleyballl tryouts are almost over and the first day was really hard. Our coach yells alot and if we drop a ball without goin after or something we run or do pushups. But shes still a good coach. Well i take alot of things personally. I feel like its all my fault. also im super nervous wen i get out there and mess up. Wat should i do? HELP
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dont take these things personal cuz its not. she just wants you to do better and to become a better player. doing pushups and running after droping the ball is only to make you stronger and to help you not drop the ball again. try to relax when your out there. jus concentrate on what you have to do. its ok to mess up.
good luck wit try outs

shelly


Do any of you know where I can buy Evanescence's CD "Le Nouveau Gothique"? I've searched the local Target, Wal*Mart, Best Buy, Circuit City, and music store and I've not been able to find it. I don't really want to buy it on eBay because shipping and handling is ridiculously expensive. So... any of you know where this magical CD can be found? (link)
try your local cd exchange store. you can trade in your old cds for cash there and sometimes they have really good cds there.

hope i helped
shelly


what are some good songs you can dance to at a party?

any type of music is fine w/ me thanks! (link)
it depends what kinda music ur into.if ur into hip hop, basicly anything with a good beat. Beonce "crazy in love" outkast nelly"take a ride wit me"

if ur into salsa "suavemente" by elvis crespo, ne thing else on his cd, and basically ne thing else wit a good beat.

idn a bout country cuz im not into that, but try to get good 2 step music.



shelly


i'm almost 13 and I still like watching cartoons, some of my closet friends still watch cartoons, but some of them only watch MTV and stuff. Should I stop watching My cartoons? (link)
definetly not unless you and only you get tired of it. im 16 and still watch cartoons! I love them! sometimes i still watch my fav disney movies. you are never too old to do ANYTHING-- except sleep in your parents bed. but thats a whole nother story. ne ways dont let others make your decisions even if they say its not "cool". you are the only one wit the rite to say no to cartoons. by the way...Cartoons Rock!!

hope i helped
shelly


ok i live in st.louis and like i don't live in the city i live like a half hour away and i was wondering if i live this far from the city why do the girls here only like guys that do drugs and flunk outta school and do just really stupid stuff like that? and is it like this every where else or did i just get screwed into livein here? (link)
its like that everywhere. the good girls always want the bad boys. and the bad boys just dont care.


i am going to the park with my b/f on friday evening, and i want to give him a hand-job, but i want to make him want it reeeaal bad, any ideas of what i can do before that? (link)
tease him! keep him waiting, but not for too long. make sure you know for a fact that he wants it. try to get him to say it.
good luck


shelly


my cousin fucked my brother what should i do?? and i mean theyre was an open condom wrapper in my brothers room and my cousin was the only one with him all day what should i do about this??? (link)
EWWW!! are you sure it was your cousin? he didnt sneak some one in? im not exactly sure what to say about that. you could either try to stay out of it or ask your cousin about it. maybe your bro was trying it on for size, or they were just messing with it. well good luck with that one.
hope i helped

shelly


Hey, I've been using tampons for a little while now and it's kind of weird! Are you supposed to feel a little uncomfortable wearing them if there still new to you? Do you think they feel that way because it's not up far enough or something? I know I put it in right, but I still feel a little discomfort when there in! What's wrong? (link)
well if you feel ne discomfort you are putting in wrong. things will get better when you use them more and more

shelly


well im VERY big on track like i have ran it for 5 or 6 yrs now. i run for AAU (amateur Atheletic Union) its a summer league and u go thru a current amount of meets that lead up to the junior olympics which tons of scouts are watchin u.but every yr i ALWAYS get to the last meet which leads into the junior olympics but when i get on the line everything jus goes wrong.either im uncomfortable which is a bad sign when u r sittin in the blocks. or i jus cant get my mind off the crowd i dont kno how to block them out n it always messes me up cuz thats who i listen to i jus hear the crowd when i should be focusing on the track what do i do to get it off my mind (link)
i know exactly how you feel. im also in track and my freshman year i we went to regionals for the 800m relay and coach put me as the 1st leg. we made it to the finals and i was completely freaking out and i almost cost us the whole race cuz i was so nervous and i almost false started, but now when i run i just take a deep breath, meditate, focus on what im doing, take a short nap, pray and stretch alot. i think what it is is all the excitement of being there and all the pressure of a great season, and coach expecting you to do good, you completely loose sight of whats really important: you being there, running, and having fun.

hope i helped
shelly


does anyone know how to make the salsa dip not as spicy cause we bought extra spicy on accident and its wayy to hott!! do you think its ok to put sugar in it? ok well i hope someone knows how cause my mouth is on fire!!!!! (link)
OMG!! dont put sugar in it! if you want pico de gallo you get some fresh cut celantro, diced tomatoes, onions, and some peppers. if you want it kinda spicy get jalepenos or those red peppers. if you want it extra spicy, get some habaneros. now dice all that up and mix it together.


hi i need some advice or help on smoking it is a topic i have to write about at work can you help? (link)
a cigarette is a death stick. it will kill you. the more you suck on it the more you die every time. you dont just kill yourself, but you kill others around you. second hand smoke kills 50,000 people a year. i also heard that kicking the cigarette is harder to kick coke. if you want more info go to:

THETRUTH.COM




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