Hey everyone my name is becca and i live in texas um i love to dance it is my favorit thing to do i have a boy firned named tim and i love him a ton!well im thirteen and i have a great life goin for me i play the trumpet in my middle school jazz band and in the top band at my school! well i hope i halp you out withy our probloms! bubye and ask me for advice!
E-mail: lilmisspiggy20702aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
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Age: 13
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Member Since: June 23, 2004
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I really have been wanting to tell you but you are never on aim. Tanner asked me out!!!!!!! I am so excited and he is really sweet! You missed so much since you didnt go to band camp. I hope you are having tons of fun right now!!!!! And try to get on aim sometimes so i can talk to you!
Luv ya much
-Missy- (link)
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missy i love you so much you are such a sweet heart lol i cant wait till aschool good luck with tanner ttyl!
\much love
~becca~
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I accidently well i guess it wasnt an accident told a friend a secret i wasnt supposed to but I know that if my other friend (that had the secret) would have done the same thing because of all the pressure. Now she isnt even speaking to me and i dont know what to do... I tried apoligizing but it didnt work and she is in california so i cant call her. I feel so bad about the situation I just dont know what to do! I thought my other friend had a right to know. I guess I was wrong to tell her but I just didnt know what to do! I am really sorry but i dont know how she will understand! Please help!
-i messed up- (link)
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Well you really shouldnt have told the secret becauise there was no pressure but its all go because it got fixed and the secret wasnt even real! She made it up to see if she would tell haha! gotcha!
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Hey are you really a dancer? I am too! What is your favorite type of dancing? How long have you been dancing?
just post on ur colum and ill come check!
Lauren (link)
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Well i have been dancing for two yers and my favorit type is jazz because its really the onley type i know lol i only took it in school and um i also made the dance team at my school ...
much love
~becca~
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Becca,
I am part of this big group of friends and usually I am always in a fight with one of my friends I think she is a little over sinsitive but I dont she thinks so. She acts like she is the prettiest and Best person but she makes other people feel really bad like me. I am not sure what i should do. Can you help my situation?
-always fighting- (link)
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Dear always fighting,
If your frien really acts this way then you should prbably let her in on it because i know if i was acting like a know it all snob i would want to be told sop that i wouldnt hurt anyone's feeling as you said above but if you dont thinknk your ready for this just tell one of you friends how you feel and mabe they will feel the same way and all of yall can talkt o her about it!
much love
~becca~
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i really like this guy..and he knows it..but he doesnt like me back..i catch him staring my direction..but i dont know if hes looking at me or someone else..he told my friend i have big boobs..is that what hes staring at? how can i get him to like me? (link)
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Wellthat may be what he is staring at because most guy'sour age are pervs but if you want him to like you then try talking to him sometime dont dress to impress or anything just act like yourself!
much love
~becca~
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Hi um I really lyke this guy and well He doesnt know I feel this way I have gone out with him b4 but I had never felt lyke this what should I do? Should I tell him how I feel or just forget about him? Right now I'd even say I Love him. Please help me out I really need the help.
Thanks if you can...
*anoymimus* (link)
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If you really like him you should just let him know how you feel mabe he feel's the same way you never know but if you really feel like you love him then you really shiould tell him but i mean dont go oput and and say * i love you!* because that might freak him out lol just tell him say hey i still like and i have never felt this way about a guy b4 i think that you are very special and i wanted to know are you single because i was wondering if you would go out with me again i really like you and mabe you feel the same way to if not its ok but mabe you do?!
much love
~becca~
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Becca,
I'm 13/f and am in 8th grade. I'm addicted to cutting myself and everyday my friends ask to look at my wrist. I say no but then they pull it and start looking at it. They don't understand how I feel. I don't like anyone knowing. I have another friend who does the same thing but she understands me completley. But my other friends start slapping me and asking me y i do it. I don't want to tell them and I really don't know y I do. I know part of it is b/c of a previous relationship. I don't know what to tell my friends if i should tell them to leave me alone and ignore them all the time or what. I've tried to stop b4 but I just can't!!! I tell my friends that its a way of hurting myself b/c i believe that im not good enough for anybody b/c of my previous relationship! I don't know what to do! PlZ help!
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hey i understand you comletly but you need to tell you friends to leave you alone about it because them them slapping you isnt helping its onley hurtting so tell them to back off and the nest thing you need to do is try and think of something else everytime you want to cut and it should help you get through it but you really need to talk to some one spacific like a therapist or something i mean i know what your thinking *i dont wanna go to some freak to talk about my probloms* but it could really help alot! But hey do you have aim mabe if you let me know who you are i could help i promis not to tell anyone it could be our lil secret! ok
much love
~becca~
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Well there is this guy i really like and he thinks i've kissed many guys and i'm really good at doing that kinda stuff. I havent really kissed anyone but i told him i did. He likes me also and he asked me one day if I wanted to do "stuff" with him as in like make-out/blow jobs. I dont know if i really should. I mean i want to but it might not be right because he is 15 and im only 13. What should i do? (link)
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Well if you think you arent ready then you arent trust me on this its very important if you dont think its right then its not just tell him that your to young and if he dosnt agree then yall should break up and move on because if he isnt mature enough to understand that then he isnt ready for it either!
much love
~becca~
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hey becca gurl you are the kewlest!! so heres the question: when are we gonna hang out 2gether? lol im so bored can u tell? (link)
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well um i dont know who you are lol so mabe if you tell me we can? haha
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my dad raped me. should i tell my mom, he said he would hrt me if i did. what do i do? thanx, gracie (link)
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Tell you mother befor it is to late he cant hurt you if he is in jail now can he ! this is a very seriouse matter next time he try's call 911 immidiatly!
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Hey This is really embarresing to say but Im a girl and I mean I think Im bi but Im not sure one time me and my friend thought we should show our bodys off a little to eachother and after I was done She satrted and I started to get horny and sweaty and I just wanted to like fuck something right then so I went into the bathroom and started fingering myself and my friend knows that I finger myself a lot but anyways she walked in on me and she saw that I was fingering myself and she was like why are you doing that right now? And So I stop and pulled my pants up and started to cry and told her the story and said oh and I think shes discusted...:/ Also another time I started to get horny (i do a lot kinda) I told her I was getting horny and she was like oh i see and I was like would you do me a favor and she said it depends and I said get your dildo and stick it up there for me because i really needed it right then but she wouldnt /: So yeah it was embarresing I really just wish one of my friends were either bi or a lezbo because I really need someone to be able to do stuff with! When I see pictures of nude guys i just say cool but when I see a girls thats when I start actually looking good! I REALLY NEED HELP OR TIPS ON ANYTHING! PLEASE HELP ME! );I WILL RATE YOU (link)
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There is nothing wrong with being bi but i mean how old are you because if you are under 16 then you should just be using a dildo not an accuall person lol i hope i helped!
prettynpunk*
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theres this girl that im going out with and she very nice, but another guy likes her and wants her to go out with him. but she likes me and is going out with me. now he threatens to beat me up and kill me all over this. I need ANSWERS for this. please help... (link)
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ok i have had this happen to me and i was the girl in the middle it kind of sucks because the other guyu will keep trying to make her like him untillhe gets his way you need to talk to her and tell her what is going on a good plan would be to pretend like yall are broken up that way he will ask her and she can say yes then just have her act like a selfish biatch around him then he will hate her and the problom is solved!
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What's the average size of a boy's penis?
My bf is 16 and he is over 5 inches long he's a
worried about it. (link)
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NO worries the average size is between 5 and six inches so there is nothing to fret over!
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I have a 3 year old daughter with an UNCONTROLIBLE temper and she slaped my friend in the face what should I do? (link)
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You need to tell her that she will get in ig trouble if she ever does it again and you need to spank her each time she does it!
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My best friend does REALLY bad stuff. she has sex with guys that she barely knows, gets drunk all the time, sneaks out, and even got her innocent friends started in all this gay drama. im not like that tho and i dont want her to be. what do i say to her to let her know shes doing bad things because she wont listen to me. (link)
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well it all depends on how old she is if she is ofver 18 then there is really nothing you can do because its her life but if she is under that then you need to talk to her and let her know that what she is doing is wrong and if she dosnt listin to you try telling a parent r something but tell them to not let her know it was yoiu that told
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I love to dance..a lot..i do ballet ..pointe shoe...and i do tap, but i have another passion..i love to act and do commercials. when i was younger i audtionend for an agent and got one, i then was on sesame street..for a couple of years and i did comercials. but when i was 6 or 7... i had to quit. now tht i am at a higher age i want to enroll in that type thing...but i do to much dancing, and my mom is making me choose ..what do i do?
please answer to my inbox! (link)
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Try and do wich one your better at i mean acting may not be as fun as it was when you were younger and if your really good at dance then you should stick to it because when you get older you couuld make a very good amout of money and have fun with it but if you feel that acting would be more nteresting it would give your name out there and you could possably become famouse depending on how good you are and plus if you audition fo r a movie about adancing you could mabe even get the lead rold so follow your heart hope i helped let me know how it goes!
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okay im 16/f n im a virigin
ive have known ma man for 3 1/2 years and he really wants to do it and so do i.but im so scared b/c its my 1st time and im so scared of gettin pregnant. he told me that we will use a condom and everything but still im not 100% sure.can anyone tell me how can i be 100% sure that i will not get pregnant. (link)
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well you rnot ever going to be 100% sure because no matter what there is a chance of gettin pregnate but if your not ready for it just tell him and if you are ready just be sure to take all the percautions
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Well,there is this guy whom i really like and we get along very well.We're just friends.Recently he sent me a message on my cell which read"No one can hold you like I hold you,no one can kiss you like i kiss you, no one can love you like i love you".I called him up and asked him wether its true and he said he does nt know and when the time will come he will tell me. I wish i could read peoples mind.By the way im a 15 year old girl.Pleas advice........ (link)
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Well if he is your good friend then he will tell you if its true i mean if it scars you in a way then just telll him and let him know that you just want to be friends and if you think you like him more that a frined then let him knoew that because he pobably thinks you dont like him m like that and he is afraid to admit it hope i helped!
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wat does this mean: (link)
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its a heart
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how do i get a guy to lay off my butt? he thinks hes slick and he can touch it whenever he wants. i've told him to stop and its not so serious to tell a teacher or w/e cus when i say stop hes like well i dont want u to file a sexual harrassment suit on me but the next day he does it again. what to do... (link)
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well can you get back to me and tell me if you have a boy friend or not because i have a really great ideah if oyu dont!
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