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PLEASE HELP ME ILL RATE U TOO!


Question Posted Wednesday July 14 2004, 10:15 am

Hey This is really embarresing to say but Im a girl and I mean I think Im bi but Im not sure one time me and my friend thought we should show our bodys off a little to eachother and after I was done She satrted and I started to get horny and sweaty and I just wanted to like fuck something right then so I went into the bathroom and started fingering myself and my friend knows that I finger myself a lot but anyways she walked in on me and she saw that I was fingering myself and she was like why are you doing that right now? And So I stop and pulled my pants up and started to cry and told her the story and said oh and I think shes discusted...:/ Also another time I started to get horny (i do a lot kinda) I told her I was getting horny and she was like oh i see and I was like would you do me a favor and she said it depends and I said get your dildo and stick it up there for me because i really needed it right then but she wouldnt /: So yeah it was embarresing I really just wish one of my friends were either bi or a lezbo because I really need someone to be able to do stuff with! When I see pictures of nude guys i just say cool but when I see a girls thats when I start actually looking good! I REALLY NEED HELP OR TIPS ON ANYTHING! PLEASE HELP ME! );I WILL RATE YOU

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pinkangelx3 answered Monday August 2 2004, 12:06 am:
Become a Slut.. Seems to me thats what youre trying to get at..

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pocohantaz answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 1:08 pm:
find u a friend with benifits...

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Mel answered Monday July 19 2004, 11:19 am:
it's normal for some girls to do stuff like that. lots of girls like the way other girls look, and it doesn't necessarily mean you're bisexual or a lesbian. it's probably just your hormones.

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Porkin00 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:56 am:
Talk with ur friend in a CALM way.. see what they think about it.. and they will understand you more!! It shoudent gross them out.. maybe they feel the same way but are confused or embarrassed..

KYLE

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pinkladyntbird answered Sunday July 18 2004, 12:05 am:
i tink you're stressing to much..if your friend dosnt' understand...then that's her problem...but i tink she's just a lil uncomfortable....try to open up to her..and if she pushes u off..then let go...and u have alot of time to determine your sexuality...and u can try to find ppl in your school who r in the same situation...i have friendz who r bi..and i except them for who they r...try to find friendz who no everything about u..but love u anyways..hop ei hellped

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PepeLePew answered Saturday July 17 2004, 7:11 am:
I'm not really sure what your question there is, hun. You are bi, but if you don't really get excited, or feel anything when you see a nude guy, then your a lesbian. There is no problems, except finding a partner. If you relaly think you like girls, share up. People might not be comfortable at first, but yeah - that's who you are.

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prettynpunk123 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 4:19 pm:
There is nothing wrong with being bi but i mean how old are you because if you are under 16 then you should just be using a dildo not an accuall person lol i hope i helped!
prettynpunk*

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Jane answered Thursday July 15 2004, 4:10 pm:
*I think your telling your friend a little to much information and questions that she does not want to hear. I think your more on the homosexual side when you don't get aroused by guys. But if you hear about a girl being bi or gay just jump on that chance of being with her.*

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united_python_cheerleader answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 8:03 pm:
I would say that since your bi ( you claim ) there is like bi chatrooms in stuff at yahoo if that helps any and i mean just try that and i got a friend who is bi ( she is cool )

her email is
lil_rock_n_roll_diva / tell her ashley gave u her email


lOVE ASHLEY , PLEASE RATE ME

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dancinchick answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 5:50 pm:
ummm well if guys dont turn u on at all then ur not bi ur lez. But even if ur either 1 it doesnt matter. u r who u r nd u cant change dat. U also cant change one of ur friends so u hav some 1 2 do all dis wit. If u need 2 talk u can im me at forevaadanca08. Hope i Helped.

Dancin chick
If u hav time can u plz rate me

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k2bratty14 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 5:42 pm:
i think u might be lesbian im not trying to judge or anything to tell you the truth i think im bi guys and girls turn me on and its k i understand im that way to dont be embarasses you should be happy just dont worry about it when the time comes you will find a girl or guy

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XxbabiixdanielLexX answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 5:40 pm:
wow ok well, im not bi or lez or ne thing but by what u said, i dont kno if ur friend iz disgusted or just a little nervous or shocked.

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natalie04 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 2:29 pm:
Hey! C i like guys(i'm straight) so i dunno how you feel, but i have a friend like that and she says sometimes she fells like that and i don't get discusted, i just say, people are who they are and if they like girls or boys it shouldn't matter, so if your "friend" is truely a friend that she should start acting like a better friend.

~*~Natalie~*~

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paintballbirch14 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 1:18 pm:
leave me mail tell me wat u need help about ok ill answer u

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xxhotsexycutiexx answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 12:53 pm:
hi, well there...hmmm if u need someone then get someone to do stuff for u...either a gurlfriend or a b/f...w/e u feel like...there are lots of gurls who are lezbo n bi..n i dunno wut...n i bet there lots of guys who would wanna b wit u n shit...so if u want it that bad then get a b/f or a g/f n do ur thing...by the way i've hurd that there are some ppl that get horney all da time n that they wanna have sex all the time...n thats somekind of disease but i dunno wuts it called..so i dunno if u get horney like all da time...like every singel hour or u know lots of time may b u should check wit a doctor or something i dunno...something like dat...anyways hope i helped xoxo effy

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chelseaw285 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 12:10 pm:
Well, like others have answered...you cant make someone into a bi or a lesbian. Find other bi or lesbian people out there and become friends with them. Unless you just want to keep fingering yourself...?


Hope i helped you

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xolilcheerleadr answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 11:20 am:
alright, so your bi, it doesnt mean you have to be embarassed about it. i know at this age people are cruel and mean and would tease you about stuff like this but i guess no one has to know! [thats your choice] you probably want your friends to be bi too so you can have someone there to understand. i know this sounds crazy, but maybe you can talk to your couselor or get online and chat with some other homosexuals that would understand. this is not a big deal! i hope this seriously helps! and good luck! remember...dont force your friends into doing something they dont want..especially something they dont feel comfortable doing.
hope this helps, please rate me =)
love,
jen<33

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accolade answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 11:12 am:
yeah, you are homosexual, but there's nothing wrong with that. if your friend can't understand that, she's just one of the quadrillion people who don't.
there aren't really any tips i can give you. you are actually handling it just fine. you're finding out about your sexuality, and now you know.
your friend might ditch you because of it, but there are plenty of people who don't care whether or not you're homosexual... find them, and hold onto them. you'll be more comfortable with them than anyone else in the world.
it's your choice if you want to be open about it, or not tell anyone. you're more likely to find more lesbians if you're open about it, but again, that's totally your choice.
And i don't know if you've told your parents. but they should be some of the first people to know. they can help you through this, and make you more comfortable with it.
hope i helped, and if you need anymore just drop a question in my inbox.
~accolade~
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superstar10 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 10:47 am:
ok i dont know wut exactly to tell u butt im gonna try to give u something. u cant exactly make ur friends beceom bi or lez. its there decision. but dont force anything out of ur friends...cuz i dont think they will like that. i hope i helped but i dont think i did. thats just a hard situation.

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