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I have problems focusing.
During class, if I am not talking to the person next to me I fall asleep. I ALWAYS talk, no matter what. All my teachers write in my comments that I talk to much, I just can't help it I get so distracted and bored easily.
Also, I can't focus on one thing at once, if I do I end up frustrated and stop working, or start like flipping out because I don't get it.
I was wondering....do I have ADHD? (link)
you may have add my brother does but yours seems more severe but it usually is in girls my mom had it as a girl also you need to talk to your parents about it theres medicines you can take that will help


My ex's gf broke up with him again for like the 5th time. Each time it gets worse. She broke up with him like 3 weeks ago and he gave all her pictures and stuff back. (he wouldnt give me any of my things back. he told me i gave them to him so theyre his) Well 2 nights ago i asked him to come to a friends house and he said that he was chillen at one of his friends houses. An hour later he calls me up and tells me he was bored and wanted to come by me. So he came and we sat and talked for 2 hours. (we havent been together now for over a year)!(The same thing happened in november when she broke up and we hung out for a couple hours~his request) Both times hes told me he still loves me.(hes been with this "slut"(not even exaggerating) for over a year now) i feel its the sex that keeps him crawling back to her. she keeps calling him, and seeing another guy. I see her at school all the time kissing and holding hands and acting like theyre going out. Even though my ex and her arent going out, she still calls him and goes over to his house.
anyways, we talked about just starting out as friends and getting to know one another again. we talked about maybe hanging out tonight. well last night i asked him if we were still on, and he said "i told you not to get youre hopes up, something will probably come up". Ya his dick. his ex's car was at his house tonight and guess what they were probably doing?? Why cant he just be honest and stop with all the lame excuses? im sure he knew last night that she was gonna come over. Doesnt he think im not gonna find out? I live 3 mins away from him!! Hes told people that hes tired of getting hurt by her. She keeps dumping him and he keeps getting rejected when he asks her back out, and it makes him wanna kill himself, and he says thats unhealthy. Then why the hell does he jump everytme she calls? is it the sex? he says they are so alike that they butt heads all the time!! They are always fighting. So if she makes him feel horrible, why does he take her calls and let her in when she comes over? How can he say that he still loves me? I dont sleep around, maybe thats why! He told me he got checked for STDS, and had her checked too. Thats so pathetic!! Why would a guy even want a girl that gives it up so easily and to any1? (she told me to my face that she would let any guy f**k her) My ex always talked negative about "sluts" and he did her the 2nd night they hung out! Hes told me he did everything out of hurt.(we ended because he asked me out and told me that he "had" to take another girl to homecoming) I said "NO" to him becuz i wasnt gonna let my boyfriend take another girl to her homecoming.(he said i was being selfish) because i rejected him>he went off and started a relationship with someone else, but didnt like her.(he was using her to make me jealous) well that only made me more hurt and angry. They didnt do anything, but she really thought he liked her. I think he thought i was gonna come crawling and begging him to take me back, but i didnt!
How can some1 say they still love you when they do all this shit? See i have alot of self esteem, and alot of confidence where i dont need to sleep with a guy for whatever reason. She on the other hand cant be too bright if she puts out to any guy out there. My ex told me that it hurts her to have sex and she bleeds every single time. How can she even enjoy sex then?
Any input is greatly appreciated!! (link)
well girl you need to kick him out of your life totally all can bring with him is misery hes a guy and right now his hormones are raging out of control he doesnt know which way is up but he doesnt care about you believe me i knew a guy like him and he told me the same things while screwing another girl but all he wanted to do is get in my pants and thats all he wants to do he is gonna realize what hes missing but you will be doing something else and going out with someone else your better than him all he can do is drag you down


i've been with this girl for a few months now even though we are usually in different towns. i don't konw if she accepts me as her boyfriend yet, even though when i asked her about it she does not give a yes or now but merely keeps communicating with me amorously. How do i find out form her if she takes me to be her boyfriend, if she akes me seriously if she has someone else,etc. Thank you. (link)
if she will not give you a straight answer then shes doesnt feel for you as you do for her if you hold off talking to her you will find out one way or the other she will either beg you to talk to her or not care at all


Hii! WeLl i just got my period like yesterday afternoon..and i was just wondering is it normal to feel like really fat? i mean like i know its called feeling bloaded but its not that i feel bloaded its that i feel fatter than usual and like im always hungry! but i like try and hold back because i feel so fat..and like i shouldnt eat! sorry if this is a stupid question.. (link)
this isnt a stupid question hun its normal dont hold back cause this is the one time that you have an excuse to eat like a pig and not feel guilty lol i know thats exactly how i feel when im on my period good luck!


Okay so I've had a cat for quite a while now and lately he has just been bugging me like crazy! He wont eat! No matter what kind of food we place in front of him he just leaves it and then complains some more...I just can't get my head around it and then my parents bug me for not taking good enough care of him. Any ideas on a kind of food he'll really like, and ways to make sure he eats it? (and shuts up?!) (link)
try some soft food the hard food may be hurting his gums if that doesnt work then take him to the vet cause something is seriously wrong hope this helps good luck!


Ok, me and my step mom dont "exactly" get along, she gets all pissed off at me because i forget to make my bed, or leave somthing on the floor (in my room) and she leaves all these stupid little notes saying "do this do that, we all live in the same house you know!!" and im trying my best to not yell back at her... i mean she ALWAYS yells at me, and i usually end up crying after ive gone into my room away from her... but i need help, because i know one of these days i wont be able to hold back and ill end up screaming at her... and thats definetally not like me unless i get over the top pissed off!! ill rate 5s to any1 who can help!

13/f

signed,
hoplessly traped (link)
your step mom is trying to be a good mom in the best way she knows how even if it is annoying so maybe you should try talking to her about it tell her about how you feel and if she has any heart at all she will try and work with you and if she doesnt she deserves what she gets hope this helps hun good luck!


my name is mark im 19 and im a male ... im dating a girl we dated for 2 years on and off we broke up over this past summer and over the summer she did stuff thats bothering me now in our relationship she had sex w. a total of 3 guys multiable times and messed around w/ 3 other guys she told me everything b4 we got back together and it botheres me alot i dont know whwat to do i talked to her about it and shes there for me and all but i dont know what to do i need some advice the only reason im w/ her is because i really love her anyother girl i would tell leave me alone but i need something that will help over that break up i only messed around w/ 2 girls but we didnt have sex or ne thing like that i dont know what to do help me out please (link)
ok if you love her like you say you do you will stay with her the only reason she did it is cause she was on the rebound if she had meant it she would have stayed with one of those guys and wouldnt have come back to you what your feeling now is perfectly normal you both went after other people have you ever asked her about how she feels about you being with 2 other girls even if you didnt sleep with them your just a little jealous it will pass though just stick with it if she cheats on you though thats a different story and you have to think she cares because at least she was honest with you


well there's this stupid gurl who wants to fight me. she wants to fight me because i looked at her in a dirty way. that's a bunch of bullshit because i always say i to her whenever i see her and she's the one who's always giving me dirty looks! i'm not scared to fight her it's just that i don't want to get in trouble. so what should i do? should i try talking to her? please tell me what should i do?
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dont fight her be the bigger person try talking to her if that doesnt work then talk to an adult i know that sounds like the cowards way out but in the end you wont get in trouble


okay so like my best friend brandon is very emotionaly depressed because of another one of my best freinds,im always ther for him and everything and like i care so much about him and like he thinks about killing himself and everything adn he cuts sometimes when he doesnt feel like he wants to live..nad i tell him not to cause i use to cut and it sucks it is hard to stop and everything but he has it tough..I talk to him about everything and im always there for him but like whenever the tables are turned and there is something rong with me he doesnt do anything..he is one of those people who wont like fight or stick up for someone he suposivly cares about..and i dont kno what to do..my other best friend who is like a sister to me tells me not to be his best friend anymore cause he isnt treating me right but i kno if i dothat then ill break him more and ill push him to the edge cause he told me if i ever gave up on us he'de probally kill himself and i dont want him to die..please someone help me!! (link)
dont give up on him he needs you now more than ever hes a guy and he doesnt understand that you need him to but he will eventually and i know you want to be there to reap the rewards when he finally does come around just stick with it


How can i remember to take my medicine every night?!
I have to take it every 12 hours and i take it around 7 am before school so i guess i'd have to take it around 7 pm nightly. What can I do to help me remember to take it at night? I have a fine time remembering to take it with my other med. in the morning. Help me!
Thanks!

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post it notes!!! leave post it notes where you frequent most often in your house on your bathroom mirror or your dresser dont take them off so they will remind you everyday!


im not sure but i think i know someone who suffers from bulimia. i really want to know. i have confronted this person about it but they just deny it. i told them facts about doing this and how bad it is for thier health but i still think they do it. is there a way to tell if they do it without confronting them and if so is there a way i can help
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all i can say hun is be there for them the person is not ready to accept the problem and solve it just yet if that is what they have all you can do is discourage it and be there for them when there ready you cant force anyone to do anything they dont want to


i was just wondering something.. so maybe you can help. well tonight... my bf fingered me.. and we've done it before.. but i guess we did it "rougher" this time... and i went into my bathroom once he left.. and i was bleeding... and it hurt.. and i was just wondering if this is normal? i dunno what it is... but yeah.. plz help!! (link)
its ok its only cause your body isnt used to that kinda stress and is reacting in its own way he just stretched you a little farther than usual


Okay, I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend that I've only been with for like around a month. But when I'm around him I don't really feel comfortable with him anymore and a few days ago he tried to get me to smoke with him by saying if you loved me you would... and i was really mad cuz im not big on drugs. I don't really want to be with him anymore, But he likes me alot. If you were me what would u do? (link)
i say dump him if he is that low to use that line on you then he doesnt give a damn sorry but he doesnt care about your feelings so i say you can do better
more power to you


ok i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years on and off....i am 16 years old..we really love eachother...are parents know and everything...today i went to a physic and she said we have no future wat so ever together...and it was so weird cause he told me not to go cause i will start basing my life on her...and hes right cause now its making me think am i wasting my time...but me n him always plan r future together even though we r young...do u belive in physics wat should i do? how can i overcome this (link)
hey babe
i dont believe in physics or anything like that all you have to believe is that yall love eachother and care about one another


i don`t kno if it`sz healthy that i`m 12 nd my bra cup size isz a 36B..isz that bad ?? (link)
mine is 40D at 15 dont worry about it and i always thought it was the bigger the better


i weigh 92 ponds and im 5 foot 3... am i over weight? or under weight? (link)
your underweight my friend is 5ft and weighs 113lbs so your a little underweight


hey, well i was mad at my mom for something she did so i e maild someone something that said bad things about her. shes given me silent treatment so im not to worried. What should i do? (link)
i think you should apologize your mom loves you and you hurt her feelings by doing that i have done some pretty mean stuff to my mom but to keep a good relationship you have to be able to trust each other


how do u fix jealousy? i dont want to be jealous. but i dont think i am that much. (link)
you cant really fix jealousy it just comes and goes its a human emaotion dont worry about it


Hey This is really embarresing to say but Im a girl and I mean I think Im bi but Im not sure one time me and my friend thought we should show our bodys off a little to eachother and after I was done She satrted and I started to get horny and sweaty and I just wanted to like fuck something right then so I went into the bathroom and started fingering myself and my friend knows that I finger myself a lot but anyways she walked in on me and she saw that I was fingering myself and she was like why are you doing that right now? And So I stop and pulled my pants up and started to cry and told her the story and said oh and I think shes discusted...:/ Also another time I started to get horny (i do a lot kinda) I told her I was getting horny and she was like oh i see and I was like would you do me a favor and she said it depends and I said get your dildo and stick it up there for me because i really needed it right then but she wouldnt /: So yeah it was embarresing I really just wish one of my friends were either bi or a lezbo because I really need someone to be able to do stuff with! When I see pictures of nude guys i just say cool but when I see a girls thats when I start actually looking good! I REALLY NEED HELP OR TIPS ON ANYTHING! PLEASE HELP ME! );I WILL RATE YOU (link)
i think u might be lesbian im not trying to judge or anything to tell you the truth i think im bi guys and girls turn me on and its k i understand im that way to dont be embarasses you should be happy just dont worry about it when the time comes you will find a girl or guy


me and my mom fight alot but i try to b nice to her as much as i can cuz you never knoe wut will happen you knoe so i really do try my hardest when we get in fights to just let it go but it seems that she alwats gets her way! and i knoe shes the mom and shes older and knoes best but i really get upset when i have a very good reason to defend my self for but she never listens to me! but then again i never give up until i get my way! i knoe i sound like a total brat now and i guess thats wut yu get but i don't want to b a brat n e more! i really want to be a good person for the rest of my life so please help me
asap (link)
i know how you are feeling me and my mom fight a lot to but she loves me and i love her moms understand how your feeling even though you dont think so they do




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