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me and my mom fight alot but i try to b nice to her as much as i can cuz you never knoe wut will happen you knoe so i really do try my hardest when we get in fights to just let it go but it seems that she alwats gets her way! and i knoe shes the mom and shes older and knoes best but i really get upset when i have a very good reason to defend my self for but she never listens to me! but then again i never give up until i get my way! i knoe i sound like a total brat now and i guess thats wut yu get but i don't want to b a brat n e more! i really want to be a good person for the rest of my life so please help me
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i know how you are feeling me and my mom fight a lot to but she loves me and i love her moms understand how your feeling even though you dont think so they do
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In your teenage years, daughters and sons like to separate themselves from their moms and dads. They liek to show their parents that they don't need them anymore. I fight with my mom too (mostly for the most stupidest reasons). And then we get over them. It is totally a family thing. Families fight all the time. When you have a good reason to defend yourself and you know that she isn't listening, make her listen. Sit her down and make her listen. Keep on talking until you get your way and she gets hers. Your mom will always be there for you. I know it is silly but I did not realize it until I needed help and she was their for me. And it is very important to keep in touch with her. Hope it all works out!!
**[Ania]**
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Well you and your mom should try to like talk out your problems and you also said she dont listen well then you can try to make her listen and your not a brat because you wanna work something out ( that makes you the better person )
Love Ashley , PLZ RATE ME
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its ok to fight with ur parents..heck i do it too! cuz me and my mom dont get along too much! lol and if u wana stop being a brat then just try to get along with ppl and realize that you dont always have to get your way! let other ppl get their ways then ppl will respect you a whole lot more..especially your mom *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
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Aww! Well, you seem to be really level headed and know what youy are talking about. What you are going this is 100% natural; it's something all girls go through with their mommies!! hehe!! Kinda like a part of life! To an extent, you are both right! I mean everyone alwyas wants their way..and it's okay to fight..I mean everyone does it..and it's really mature of you to be able to say that you know she is older and prolly knows best. A lot of the times kids have a hard time admitting that! I think just to make yourself feel better about all this you should try CIVILY and MATURLY talking to your mom alone. Like open up to her and tell her how you are feeling about all this! Chances are, she's totally going to understand and comfort you. As for the brat thing, you're not a brat..you're just a girl that knows what she wants! I think we are all guilty of that! But you should really try talking to your mom one-on-one and tell her how you feel like she never listens (don't yell at her though) and tell her you want to be a good person and you want to have a good relationship with each other. But like I said, it's natural to fight! Just hang in there, talk to your mom, have fun..and most of all have faith and love for something. I'm sure you will grow up to be exactly who you want t be! Good luck! :)
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w/e yawl disagree about something..just b like "mom im not gunna argue w/ u!"and walk away!try and keep away from yawl two arguing!thats what i always do!if i feel theres a argument about to start between me and my mom i just go ahead and go in my room or something!because i kno if i argue w/ her then im gunna b in huge trouble by the end of the argument!lyl babe!
xO.Letty Lee!
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Just try to agree with her with the stuff she says, try to compromise and try not to argue...
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hi, well i dunno y u guys get in to fights or w/e n i relly dont know how ur realtionship is wit ur mom or w/e but wuteva she is tryin to do its for ur best...cuz the only person that loves u more then anyone its UR MOM!! she is the one that loves more n wants the best for u...so i know that in a way u might b rite or w/e just talk to her...open up to her n tell her wussup tell her how u feel n everything...things will b better...n she will treat u different! try to respect her as much as u can cuz after all she is ur mother...no metter wut she does or w/e she still ur mother...n remember that wut ever happens she will b the first one having ur back when everyone is turning their back to u...xoxo effy
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