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What do I do...
I've messed up a lot...and I'm only 15. I'm not going to go into detail about all the mistakes I've made, I just need a way to deal with them. It's like their haunting my mind. I don't know how to deal with it, and I'm always putting myself down about them too. I'm only 15 what do I do? I know its in the past and I can't do anything about it....
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If your problems are "huge", it won't be easy to just forget, and if you can't deal with them on your own, tell a trusted adult. Go get counseling. But don't try to put yourself down, because then, things only get worse, and you'll never get much going on for your future. It's better when your happy.
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You have to learn to let it go and convince yourself that these things are all in the past, or maybe you should talk to someone to get it off your chest.
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dont get mad you have changed but take all that anger or w/e and do somthing with it...go into a soprt or do somthing that takes ur mindoff of it when ever u start to think about it...if its running or putting on some non-deppressing music!! just dont do anything to harm urself cuz it dosent help it makes is worse!! xoxo Sara
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dont beat urself up over it..everyone makes mistakes...the good thing about themis you can learn from them! plusit seems like your trying to be a better person..and you have nowhere to go but up! to make urself feel better..maybe you could try helping sum ppl who r going thru wut u went thru...n dont concentrate on ur bad qualities! cuz you have the best quality some1 couldever have...your trying to be a better person!! plus you seem really sweet and you regret what you did...so youre already a good person!
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i know exactly wut u mean. i always mess up or do something wrong and i cant stand that. wut u should do is if u have a boyfriend or even a bestfriend confide in them. tell them things. mayb they will understand and help u out with some of ur mistakes. but i know its harrd to live with some problems; but there is always some one u can talk to about them.
P.S. if i helped rate me....thanx
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The past is the past. Don't let things bother you so much and don't put yourself down so much, thats not good for you. You learn from your mistakes and thats good! To get things off your mind, try going out and having fun. Hang out with your friends alot. And when you do mess up, try talking to a close friend about it, it always feels good to get it off your chest.
xoxo Kourtney
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it may be hard but the past is the past and it seems that youre trying your hardest to forget about what happened then. youve realized what mistakes youve done thats good and now since you knoe what you've done wrong you can start over again its never to late for that. dont make the same mistake over because you already knoe what mye happen. dont look back look ahead.
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dont think about them. just try to have fun and dont worry about stuff.
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I've made several mistakes too. I just try to do things to keep my mind off of them. I convince myself that I was younger then, and different now. They don't haunt me nearly as much as they used to.
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Hmm, well i think I can help you out with this one, because whenever I feel like I do something that's bad it seems too burden me forever. First and foremost, the important thing to focus on, is like you said, it's in the PAST and you can't change that. Your past does not control you're future so DON'T let it. It's often that good hearted people have many regrets and let things they have done (both good or bad) loom in their head. SO, I think you need to start doing some good. First, if yoy are at all religious..you could pray about it and ask whomever you believe in to give you the strenth to have a good future and get on the right path in life and to help you cope. Also, think of the things you have done, to not neccesarly bad things that have messed you up, but life lessons that have made you who you are today! Learn from you're mistakes and fix them and improve yourself. If you want to you could go to a Catholic church and confess your sins to a Preist, or you could write about you're past in a diary and lock it up and this will help you just vent! If you want to do some good for society you could volunteer or find some other way to get involved and be active. The only way things are going to change is if YOU change 'em. It may not help right away, but in time, you'll be thankful for those mistakes because you wouldn't be who you are without them. Just keep in mind..it was the PAST! Also, if none of that helps you could see a shrink because talking to someone ALWAYS helps!! Even an animal or something!! Just need someone to listen! Feel better!! :)
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if you feel bad, talk to someone. maybe a friend, a counselor, a parent, an adult you trust. with help, you can put everything behind you. just think of an eraser in your mind. you can erase all of those bad memories and start fresh with good times and good memories. please, if you need help, i'm here to talk. just send me a message in my inbox.
lots of love --> K
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Well maybe you could get help from a counsalor and talk it out with them or a older sister or a older cousin or your role model (as long as they do dont what you did) and try to steer yourself away from doing those mistakes againt-trix
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listen...wut u can do its...just dont think bout them 2 damn much...they were in da past...wut happend happend...just try to make things better in da present!!! try to do good now...n not make the same mistakes over again! dats wut u could do n dont think bout them!! just move on...;) ur only 15 try not to make the same mistakes :) xoxo effy
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Just keep your head up, forget the past, and just focus on the future/present...
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