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I'm a typical 14 year old girl!! I'm no different then any others. I love to sing, act and dance. I love hanging out with my friends and helping people. So if you want any advice ask me a question, and I'll do my best to answer it. Enjoy my column. :o)Jess
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ugh ok..well theres this guy that i have liked forver, and we had or thing at one point or another and now he hates me, like...we dont even talk, and i didnt even do ne thing 2 him..ii guess he just d0sent wanna have anythiiing t0 d0 with me...but iidk...iim jsut siick 0f lo0kin in every's inf0'z and seeing.."bob..ilusm togegether 4evA" idk jsut like seeing all these copples 2 gether...knowing i dont have that, i men i havent jad a bf in fereever n idk it jsut hurts..alot..n ik every1 syas that its worth tha wait but yah it kiils...
The perfect guy will come to you soon. You just have to wait until it happens. Don't be mad, and don't let this issue hurt you. If you need anything else drop something in my inbox.
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Hey. Well I've just completed my first week of school and happy to know that I have 6 new friends. Well making new friends has always been a big issue because I don't seem to make them a lot. I want to many friends, so can you please tell me how to get more friends. I usually wait for the people to come to me but I want that to change. I want to have the bravery to walk up to someone and start a conversation and become friends with that person and do the same with many more people. I just wanna be able to have a lot of friends, so could you please help me into getting many more friends. I would really appreciate it if you answered my question. Thanx!
Just be yourself. You don't want to pretend to be someone your not just to impress people. That's all you have to do. If you need anything else just drop something in my inbox.
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what are some things two girls can do together? like besides making out, i mean things that lead into sex and everything, i just need some step-by-step things for me to do.
Two girls together can finger each other. Lick each other (if you know what I mean 69) And basically can play with each other. Be creative. If you need anything else just drop something in my inbox.
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how do u get a better voice?
If you mean a singing voice I've got you covered. I myself is a singer. Everyone can sing, don't let anyone ever tell you that not everyone can't. All you have to do is take voice lessons if you don't see results then maybe singing is not your thing. If you need anything else drop something in my inbox.
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Hey..I'm only 14, and a girl. Lol. Well, I have a lot going on in mii life, I have had three boyfriends, and I am pretty good in school, but when it comes to makeup, I need help. I know that I look fine and everything, but when I do make up, I hate the results..does anyone have any good tips? I mean mii make-up doesn't look horrible, I just want to look better, but I don't seem to be any more pretty. Thanks! ;-) Katie
I love make-up. I give all my friends make overs and the results are awesome. It depends on what kind of look you are going for. For me my daily make-up is black eye liner (not to much) White(or other colors) eye shadow(very light on the eye shadow)lip gloss, and my cover up and all that. But if you are going for a different stly tell me and I'll try to help so drop something in my inbox.
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okay, i have a question, i like this one guy, and he likes me back, but the problem is that he lives far away like 20 minutes away, and we can hardly see each other, were're not going out or anything, we just like each other a lot, we want to see each other more, well at least i do, i like this guy alot, but i don't know what to do, can u help me??
If you think about it 20 minutes away isn't so far. But it might be worth it for this guy if he is so special. As long as you guys can see each other for certain many times a month I think you guys could make the relationshop work. If you need anything else drop something in my inbox.
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When you finger yourself, do you need to do something to your finger?? like disinfect it or somethin?? Also, Will it hurt if you do it with long fingernails???
No, you don't need to do anything to your finger unless you want to. If you do put some kind of a safe lubricant. I wouldn't know if it hurt with long nails. I have a bad habit of biting nails so I wouldn't know. Sorry! But if you need anyting else drop something in my inbox.
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My friend has been married for 3 years. She and her husband are expecting their first child in December. (It's a boy.) They are trying to pick a name. Her husband really likes the name Jonathan, but he doesn't know that she has an ex-boyfriend named Jonathan. Do you think she should tell him about her ex or just go ahead and name the baby Jonathan anyway?
She should tell her husband about her ex. Everyone has exes it's not like he doesn't.
Do women find a guy with a hairy chest attractive? I'm 24, hairy, but not out of control hairy. I'm not overtly self-conscious, but I get the feeling that body hair is considered unattractive. ???
Don't hold back. I want real answers. Hopefully, from real women. Thanks.
Personally I think hairy or non-hairy is sexy, But you need to have a nice body to be attractive with a hairy chest. But I defenetely think hairy chests are attractive. If you need me again drop something in my inbox.
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Um, I like having sex, I'm not going to lie. But the last time I did, the guy I did it with kind of... made me have anal sex with him. And I tried to say it hurt but he didn't stop. I said it loud but when I told him afterwards, he said he didn't hear me. I cried afterwards b/c it hurt so bad. Is it my fault? I didn't want to do it... I feel gross. What do you think?
xoxo Alyssa*
I have heard the anal sex is very painful. Personally if any guy made me have anal sex I would kick his butt. You should get all of your feelings out. That may help the grossness go away. Works for me. If you need anything else just drop something in my inbox... I'll answer for you hun!
Ok me and my boyfriend just broke up on Friday. then on Monday some guy i like asked me out, but i still like my ex-boyfriend what should i say to the guy that asked me out?
Just tell the "guy" that you just want to be friends. Tell him you really like him too but you just got out of a relationship and would like to stay single for awhile. If he truely likes you he will understand.
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Hi! She's perfect. She's beautiful, shes smart, she's talented, she's funny. Problem: She's my best friend. I can't tell her how I feel because I don't want to ruin our friendship. I don't want our friendship to end because of how I feel about her. Now, if I was a guy, this wouldn't be so complicated. But I'm not. I'm a girl. And I want to tell her, but I don't know what would happen. Any suggestions? Let me know!!
Maybe your friend feels the same way. Try telling her how much of a friend she is to you. Try giving her a hint that you are interested in her. Show your emotions. If she is truely your best friend then she would understand.
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Does everyone get mourning sickness when their pregnant? And how far along in the pregnancy do you get it?
Yes everyone gets morning sickness when they are pregnant. Usually you get it in the beginning of pregnancy. Those are signs that you are pregnant.
i really am unorganized!!! i dohn't kno wat to do... i have never told anyone this but my last boyfriend of 1yeat left me cuz i was sooo mmessy wat should i do!
well di..alot of people have these problems.its not that big of a deal you have to make sure you keep up with yourself.
Should I have sex with my boyfriend even though he's 20 and I'm 16?
If you feel you should do it then go ahead. It is your choice... not anyone elses.
If you wear a condom during sex does that mean you most likely won't get pregnant or do you have to take birth control pills too..?
Wearing a condom during sex is a safe way to not get pregnant but sometimes the condom make brake. If you want to EXTRA careful I would consider using a condom and birth control pills. Either way you will be safe.
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Jess
How do i lose weight on my legs and not my other body parts? I will rate ya'll!
Try doing leg lifts. Lay on one side of your body and life one leg up and down for awhile this burns the fat. But remember to switch sides and legs.
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Jess
HI,
MY MOM JUST RECENTLY LOST HER DAD AND WITHIN 4 YEARS SHE LOST TWO BROTHERS. NOW, SHE WAKES UP AT 11:00 AND THEN GOES BACK TO BED AROUND 1:00. TO ME IT SEEMS LIKE SHE IS ALWAYS SLEEPING. AND I WANT TO DO MORE THINGS WITH HER. CAN YOU HELP ME? PLEASE SUGGEST SOME THINGS I CAN DO TO HELP HER!
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**NEEDS HELP**
This is very normal when a person is depressed. Tell her maybe that you and her sould go out and do something fun for a change. Tell her this is not healthy for her to be doing this. She needs to get out and enjoy her life. I can understand how she is depressed but tell her there is nothing to do and you wish you could help.
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Jess
im 15 and my penis is almost 6 inches long is that about average for my age?
Yes I would have to say that is average. Don't worry. The average siza of a penis is 5 inches. Your luuck ;)
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Jess
I've messed up a lot...and I'm only 15. I'm not going to go into detail about all the mistakes I've made, I just need a way to deal with them. It's like their haunting my mind. I don't know how to deal with it, and I'm always putting myself down about them too. I'm only 15 what do I do? I know its in the past and I can't do anything about it....
You have to learn to let it go and convince yourself that these things are all in the past, or maybe you should talk to someone to get it off your chest.
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Jess