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Hi! She's perfect. She's beautiful, shes smart, she's talented, she's funny. Problem: She's my best friend. I can't tell her how I feel because I don't want to ruin our friendship. I don't want our friendship to end because of how I feel about her. Now, if I was a guy, this wouldn't be so complicated. But I'm not. I'm a girl. And I want to tell her, but I don't know what would happen. Any suggestions? Let me know!!
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I'm not sure. Just casually talk with her about you two being together. Say something like "Wouldn't it be weird/funny/whatever if we ever started dating?" Or whatever you wanna put in there. And just see how she reacts. If she doesn't get angry, that's a good sign. And maybe you should tell her.
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Juss talk to her and tell her how u feel and im sure she will undastand!!! GOOD LUCK
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What I would do is talk to her about how she feels about homosexual people. If she says shes fine with them then you should tell her that you are lesbian/bi unless she already knows. if she does already know then it won't come much as a shock to her about your feelings. maybe she feels the same way too. this could end up badly though, she might react very strongly and be disgusted and go tell everybody. i think you should tell her that you are a homosexual and see what she says and then go from there.. hope i helped! email me if u need any more help! =c) oxangelofmyne6xo@netscape.net
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hmm... this is a tough one. if your friend isnt intrested in that type of life style, then maybe you telling her that will freak her out. maybe b4 you say anything to her, you could talk to her about what she thinks about girls being with girls and if she would ever try that... based on her reaction you will know what she thinks about it. hope i helped. and good luck! :)
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does your best friend know that youre into the same sex? if she does, then itd be easier for you to tell her how you feel. shes your best friend and she should understand where youre coming from. she may even feel the same about you, so you gotta speak up. a closed mouth wont get fed.
if she doesnt know that youre into the same sex, then its going to be much harder to tell her. but i guess the first thing you have to do is to tell her youre lesbian/bisexual. she how she reacts to that first. if she gets all freaked out, then its probably best not to tell her you like her. if she doesnt seem to get all freaked out, then you should go about telling her.
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Maybe your friend feels the same way. Try telling her how much of a friend she is to you. Try giving her a hint that you are interested in her. Show your emotions. If she is truely your best friend then she would understand.
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well when you date a person the risk of destroying a great friendship always comes along with it!!! if you guys did go out and ended up breaking up...the best thing to do would be to break up on good terms. work your problems out yet at the same time realize that a more serious relationship between you two just wouldnt work out!!!
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