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Should I have sex with my boyfriend even though he's 20 and I'm 16?
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the legal rammifications of such an action could be very bad for the both of you, unless he really likes the thought of prison. Even if you consent, he can be put away - not for statutory rape as you are 16 and likely beyond the age of consent, but because you are a minor and he's not (over 18), thus, he could be nailed for "Corruption of a Minor".
And, well, you're only 16... you've got a lot of time ahead of you in life - is this something you should really be doing now?
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personally if i were you...i would wait until i was at least 2 years older then you are now...this is just for legal rights...and only do it if you love him and he loves you...so if you wait and he waits with you...you will know that he wants to be with you and not some other girl...
i hope this helps...lemme know if it does!!
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Having sex is a very big deal!! But if you really think that you are ready and if ya'll love eachother then i say YES! Go for it but be careful and make sure you are making the right choice!
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www.ageofconsent.com Website Which lists All of the Age Of Consent's in every state and Nation World wide.
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well its illeagal and considered rape cuz hes ova 18 and ur unda 18 but im 15 and muh bfs 19 and we had sex..like as long as ur parents don`t find out or the poilce or anything then its ok...but just dont let no1 find out hcuz he can get put in jail!!! =/ hope i helped (((rAtE mE)))
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I've always said age doesnt matter but when this kinda of thing comes along its different. if u two honestly love each other enough to risk it then go for it, just be careful.
~xoxo~ ..::Stacy::..
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Um, it's illegal, and if your parents find out they can press charges + he can get in some pretty big trouble. But if you don't care and you're sure you're ready, I guess .. go for it. It's your decision.
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3 years doesn't mean anything! :P Joking...if you think you two will still stay together for a few more months/years, because your still in highschool and he isn't. To me, age doesn't really matter, but when people go to different schools or whatever, it's weird. :-/
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I think if you are really in love with him like you say then yes if you both feel to be ready then why not, but only if you feel like the time is right, which it prolly is. so just do what your heart tells you.
~Lakey~
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not really...what if somebody finds out? then he will be in trouble! wait til u r illegal or fine some1 more close to ur age
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as long as ur ready to have sex and feel comfortable then its ok
Randomdude PZE
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well.. if he is pressuring you u should really think about it.. it is all up to you.. and your religion if any.. jsut whatever you do be safe!
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well its illegal so be careful but if your positive than..
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well my bf is 21 and im 14
Love Ashley
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If you feel you should do it then go ahead. It is your choice... not anyone elses.
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Well, even though he could get in lots of trouble for that because of the age diff., Aslong as you know its not going to get him in trouble by your partents I would say to go for it. Be careful though
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Hm, excellent question!! Um, I'm gonna have to go with the majority of other people, NO. The only way I'd have sex with him is if you're positive that he's the one you're going to spend the rest of your life with. Not to mention, he's way older than you, if someone found out and told your parents, they could press charges for Statutory Rape(spell check)!!
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No. Don't be in such a rush.
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No,if your parents find out and are pissed they can press full charges. Plus,if you have sex with him and something goes wrong,next Mother's day you'll be celebrating. I don't care if HE IS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE,don't do it.
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Sounds like u 2 have a strong relationship, and from a guys point of few if u 2 have been together for 3 years. they guy is committed and obviously not all about sex...so i would say yes, if ur ready to have sex and u want to have sex, nothing like age should hold u back, u love him he loves u, go out and have fun with it
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I'll answer my own question...GO FOR IT!! Hes the love of yur life...u've been with him for 3 years and yur parents dont mind...plus noone has to know....well except u phucking ppl who read this. =)
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nooooo!!!!! girly thats illegal!!!!
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no it would be considered rape if anyone found out.
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First of all you should check the laws in your state to make sure it's legal, i'm sure if you're thinking of having sex with the guy you care enough about him so that you don't want to take a chance of him ending up in jail.
Second i can not answer this question for you since i have no idea what your feelings are for him or who you are, in the end it is your choice. But i recommend thinking about if you are ready, sex is a big step in life and in a realationship. If you don't feel ready, pressured, or even the least bit unsure i recommend not having sex since you may have regrets later and it won't be worth it then. You should be sure about your feelings for the guy and where your realationship is going.
Other than that as always in life your on your own and have to make your own choice. I hope i helped you. Good luck deciding.
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you are a bit younq but if your rede to do it than qo for it just make shuree itsz kept on the down low we qouldnt want ne prision sentencinq. and make shuree that you noe what some of the consquences of havinq sex can lead to - / > pregnancy, hiv, aidsz . . make shuree ur bf hasz been tested before leapinq into thinqsz and make shuree to be safe . . rate me please
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well if ur only 16 i mean i wouldnt but if u think u r ready to do this than go for it but if u still asking urself should i than dont because u dont want to make a mistake in ur life....u never know what can happen when u have sex.....anything can happen...hope i helped...rate me!!
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i think that you r still young but if your really redy hen go for it! but is he the right guy for you? i mean sumthin like this is special to a gurl it only happends once. you wanna make shua you do it with some one you really care about. but if you do then make shua you use protection! bcuz if you get stuck with a bby then things could turn ugly! like he would prolly ditch you and then you would b stuck with a child.
so becareful with this decision
hope i helped
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it is up to you
do you love him
are you ready
are u physically and emotionly able to birth a child
if answered NO to any of those questions, then u shouldn't
also a great reason not to do it for another 2 years, is it's illegal, and if ne1 finds out, the man if hauled off to a lil plae we like to call prison!
so no, i don't think u should
but the final decision is up to you
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hey girl!
the answer is no!!! thatd b considered rape!its aginst the law! its called sagitory rape if u got pregnant or if anyone found out he could go to jail bcus ur a minor and hes not! good luck with ur problem tho! write to me sumtime!
<3fran
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only if you feel you are ready
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That depends. Are you ready? Both mentally and emotionally you have to be ready to have sex, otherwise it can tear you apart. Don't be scared to tell him no if you're not ready, because if he truely cares about you then he'll understand. best of luck.
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Are yall in love? Is it worth getting in trouble? But I say yes because age is just a number its fuckin retarted that they say 16 and 20 is illegal!! If your n love with him then go for it...but DON'T go back and tell your friends what you did because girls talk!
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