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Gender: Female
Location: baton rouge la...for now! i move to much :(
Occupation: school and hollister
Age: 16
Member Since: June 30, 2004
Answers: 33
Last Update: October 4, 2004
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im 14 and have been masturbating a bit and
recently my sister walked in and caught me doin it
and now she thinks im a bit weird it's not weird to do it and at my age is it? a bit worried (link)
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no its not weird at all!
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im 14 and my penis is really small just over 3 inches long and lately i been teased and had jokes
about how small i am even from some girls it's really embarrassing its hard to take is there anything i can do and will my penis get bigger?
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well idk! since you are young yeah it will probably grow...just give it time its not like its something that will happen over night ya know? you just have to be patient! dont worry about what everyone says...i know its embarrssing! like i said...just give it time! i dont think there really is any thing you can do to make it any bigger!
xox kayla xox
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im 15 and i have a very small penis its a bit
worrying will it get bigger?
What is the average size? (link)
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yes this is normal...i know a guy whos penis didnt start growin until he had just turned 16! its very normal dont worry! if you have any more questions just ask!! i asked my bf and he said the average size was around 5 inches!
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hey...can u explain like wat happened withthis baby u take care of n stuff? thanx!! im really interested! (link)
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yah sure...ok well she was born june 29 and my brother died on may 29 and his gf was pregnant...so she had the baby and when i saw her at the hospital she was soo happy to have daniella its like she never wanted to let her out of her arms..then all of a sudden when i still lived in Los Angeles she left her on our porch..well my mom took off and now shes living in England..so my other brother and his wife said i could live with them...i had to leave my 2 younger sisters in cali...who knows where they are now...i lived in new york for about a total of 4 weeks then my brother got this job in baton rouge la...now thats where im living with daniella..and i know alot of ppl here bc i lived here 3 years ago and im going to school and working a job to pay for all of daniellas stuff!
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wow, i cannot believe you take care of a baby at 16! i am 16 right now, and i know i could never handle a baby. its awesome that you do what you do, and its awesome that u had the courage to take care of the baby. you were willing to kinda like give some things up for the baby, which is really honorable (link)
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thanks that means alot to me!!
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Ok well in the past year things have gotten really really bad for me! Me and my parents are constantly fighting ans when ever were suppose to have "quality" time we ALWAYS get into an argument!So ive been starting to cut myself! everytime i start to cry i bring myself to cut my arms up! how can i stop doing this to my self? (link)
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when you feel the need to cut...go running!! trust me it works!! when my bro died i would go running for hours!! or maybe you should talk to one of your friends that you trust!
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My husband beats me, I'm scared I might die. I need advice! Call the cops or not? He has $, he could just bail himself out!...
I rate!
Did I say I rate?!?!
I know that makes you wanna answer my question even more b/c I RATE!! (link)
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I'm not answering bc you rate im answering bc you need to leave him! My dad beat my mom and it was soo hard watching that...if you have kids with this man then hes going to most likely beat them to! You need to just take time away from him..talk to your mom see if you can go stay with her for a little while! But don't call the cops JUST yet bc if he has money then he will just get himself out of jail or worse..he will deny it all!
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Should I have sex with my boyfriend even though he's 20 and I'm 16? (link)
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Are yall in love? Is it worth getting in trouble? But I say yes because age is just a number its fuckin retarted that they say 16 and 20 is illegal!! If your n love with him then go for it...but DON'T go back and tell your friends what you did because girls talk!
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hey, i heard this song on the radio that i love. but i don't know who wrote/performed it (it was a woman though).
some of the lyrics go..
"i held your hand through all of these years"
Anybody know?
i rate (link)
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that song is very sad! my best friends brother in law was killed in iraq and they played it at his funeral and thats when i broke down in tears and i still do every time i hear it! so yes Mally is right...its a really sad song!
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Im 15 and my penis is quite small around 4.5 inches what is the average size? does it matter to girls? (link)
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the average size is around 6 inches for guys your age...size doesnt really matter to me personally its just a matter of how you can work it! to all of my friends that are girls...it doesnt matter to them the size!
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i was told that before someone gives head, that u are supposed to spit on your hand and then like give a hand job to get it on the penis??? and that guys like it??
it seemed a little obsurd to me... (link)
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hum ive never heard of that and ive never done that with my boyfriend usually if were messing around we just get right to what we want to do...but ive been with him for 2 years so its not like hes just some random bf of tha week or ne thing!
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is it ok to date online (link)
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No never! You have no idea if the guy/girl behind the computer screen is like a 60 year old person!
xox kayla xox
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my two friends, "ally" and "laurie" are in a fight. i am REALLY good friends with both, and so i get together with each and equal amount. the only problem is that whenever i'm doing something with ally, she disses laurie, and whenever i'm doing something with laurie she disses ally. i obviously don't talk about either of them behind there backs, but i don't know what to do to get them to stop. plz help. (link)
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Well this might back fire and not work for you but it worked for me when I was in the middle of a 4 month long battle between my 2 best friends. I called them both over there and told them I wanted them to stay the night, but the thing is they didn't know that the other one was going to be there. And when they got there they were totally shocked and mad at me at first, but then I said "Look yall have me in a bad place I can't keep going back and fourth with yall, we need to settle this right now." Believe it or not...it worked! Maybe you should try that! Good luck and I hope I helped!
xox kayla xox
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* i've been going to the same school and i have alot of friends.. but im moving and going to a complete diff. school for high school~ so i dont know anybody there! and most of the people that are going to be a freshman at the high school im going to have gone from a middle school to the high school so they like know everybody.. I dont know how should i approach people i know when school starts up... and i deffinatly wana have friends to hang out with for lunch or something but i deffinatly want to get into the right group- im a preppy kinda grl~ not geeky * * sorry if that affends ne one.. so please help me on this~ thanks! (link)
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Well I had your same problem. See I move once a year because my moms job transfers her to different states. I just went up to people and was like Hi i'm Kayla i'm new here and they would take it from there. Also...during like 1st hour I met alot of different people. Don't worry i'm sure you will do fine just dont be afraid to approach people! Good luck!
xox kayla xox
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I have a serious question, Okay my best i think she is lik ebi-polar or something, she is the best friend ive ever had and shes been there for me through a whole bunch. But i think hse is bi-polar or somehting because one minute everythings normal and then the next she just snapps on me over the littlest stuff.. I mean her freindship means alot to me but i dont kno what im supposed ot do ... PLEASE HELP ME !!! (link)
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Talk to her about it! You need to tell her how you feel and tell her that it hurts you a lot when she does it. I mean she does have a disease its being bi-polar..there is medicine for it to help control it! So I mean if things don't get better within the next month then maybe yall should just take a break from yalls friendship for a while! Good luck and I hope I helped!
xox kayla xox
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HEY OK MY NAME IS KATIE I AM 14 AND A GIRL AND I AM FOREVER CRYING I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY LIKE IF I HEAR A SONG THAT REMINDS ME OF MY BOYFRIEND I START BALLING THEN IF SOMEONE MAKES ME MAD I DONT YELL I CRY I DONT UNDERSTAND AND I DONT WANT PEOPLE TO GET ME WRONG I MEAN I AM A VERY HAPPY PERSON BUT I JUST CRY TOO MUCH HELP ME PLEASE .. Xo0X (link)
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There is nothing wrong with crying alot. You might just be a very emontional person and people need to understand that and take you for you not for a cry baby! Because that is not what you are! Good Luck. I hope I helped!
xox kayla xox
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I weigh 130 at 5'3 and I wanna get down to at least 110. What it the fastest way that I can do that?
I'm a 15 female (link)
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Run!! And don't eat a lot of junk food! My friends sister lost 10 pounds in like a little over a week because she stopped eating junk food and she ate alot of fruit and salads! Good luck.
xox kayla xox
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im 16/f and i weight 110 pounds. am i really really skinny??? (link)
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Yeah you are really skinny! Do you play sports of work out sometimes like run or nething like that? Because if so then you have muscle and muscle weighs more than fat! But 110 pounds is very skinny!
xox kayla xox
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me n my boyfriend talk on the phone...a lot! It's not like he doesn't want to talk to me because he is the one who calls me (most of the time) but i mean we are talking 24/7!! He has even passed up going to the movies to talk to me cause he said he would be bored without me and without someone to hold on to. My problem is, I think we talk a little bit to much on the phone! i mean i stay up til around 3:00am talking to him then he has to go to work, and sometimes on his way to work we talk on his cell phone. I think i am not getting enough sleep, but i really love talking to him and he does too! what should i do???? (if it helps im 14/f n hes 15 august 10th) (link)
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I think that yall should cut back the hours. Still talk every night but maybe for an hour or 2 each night! If you really love him then you don't want to spend too much time talking to him because yall most likely will get tired of each other! Good luck!
xox kayla xox
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how young is too young to have sex (link)
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Too young is like 13 year olds...they aren't ready to have sex and deal with all the things that come after it like the feelings and the pain of getting hurt by that guy. But like 14 is when I first did and I sort of regreted it. So I mean like 15 is probably the best age! Hope I helped!
xox kayla xox
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