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hey! my name is devin. ive been dancing since i was 3 years old. i LOVE it!!!! i do ballet, tap, jazz, and lyrical. i also like to swim, watch tv :-), dance (of course), and lots of othr stuff. well i think thats all you need to know and if you have a problem, i'm here for u!

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i cut myself a lot just to make the pain go away and i told one person and they told me to tell my parent but i dont want to i wanna stop but i cant its just hard i need help can someone tell me wat to do please (link)
well i think that u need 2 get some help ... i used 2 do that and it waz hard 2 stop but once i got help witch waz going 2 a councler then i felt alot better with myself and so did alot of other people .... its hard 2 stop i know but if u just give it a chance then it really could help!!!!!!
~alyssa~


How do i tell my parents i have an eating disorder? i promised my best friend i would do something about it after her reading my journal and finding out. im miserable and depressed and cant stop. how do i tell them?

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ok u hav to tell them very calmly and tell them that you know you hav an eating disorder and you want to do sumthing about it. also tell them that your miserable and you need help immediately. plz do sumthing about this!
~devin~


Ok, I think i have an eating problem but i`m not sure. I have a tremendouse fear of gaining weight and i honestly can`t help it. I`m starting modeling soon and so I feel like I HAVE to look thin. I`m not eating period and my friend`s are starting to notice so when they make me eat I throw it up. My boyfriend says he`ll quit doing drug`s if i start eating again wich mean`s the world to me but everytime i start eating again I start crying in fear of gaining weight and throw it up then feel terrible. I don`t think i have an "eating disorder" but it`s kind of hard to tell when all of your friend`s are "concerened" that your loosing weight and your starting to look "sick". They say i`m starting to look to skinny, I have bag`s under my eye`s, and i`m getting pale. I can`t eat properly it`s just to hard. I`ve been extreamly depressed latley. Do I have an eating disorer? Someone help me please !!

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ok, well i think you do have an eating disorder b/c if you never eat and when you do eat you throw your food up, then you might have anorexia and bulemia. I would definitely go to a doctor and try and get some help b/c thats a serious disorder. you should still eat even though you becoming a model b/c eating is something that everyone does to stay alive and you dont have to be anorexic to look skinny. please start eating
~devin~


I just found out that my best guy friend of 3 years has a crush on me. At first I was so confused about how I felt about him... I told him that I didn't know if I liked him back. But after I thought about it, I realized that I do like him. I would ask him out, but here's the problem: He went out with my sister *she's only a year younger than me* & he was pretty jerky to her. He'd hit on me right in front of her, and as if that isn't bad enough, he broke up with her by calling her from another friend's house (who was a GIRL btw.) Then a day after their breakup, he came over to my house & starting apologizing & crap, saying that his friend made him do it. He was so mean to my sis, so I'm afraid to get involved with him. But I think he might've changed. Should I give him a chance? (link)
ok, i would give him a chance and if he acts like a jerk then 4get it!! he shouldnt treat u like tht newayz! hope i helped u!
~devin~




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