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So Confused.
I just found out that my best guy friend of 3 years has a crush on me. At first I was so confused about how I felt about him... I told him that I didn't know if I liked him back. But after I thought about it, I realized that I do like him. I would ask him out, but here's the problem: He went out with my sister *she's only a year younger than me* & he was pretty jerky to her. He'd hit on me right in front of her, and as if that isn't bad enough, he broke up with her by calling her from another friend's house (who was a GIRL btw.) Then a day after their breakup, he came over to my house & starting apologizing & crap, saying that his friend made him do it. He was so mean to my sis, so I'm afraid to get involved with him. But I think he might've changed. Should I give him a chance?
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Well first off talk to your sister and then talk to him and see what he has to say for himself and if you do believe he has changed then give it a shot but if not then i wouldnt do it-trix
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Hmmmm,I'm wondering why this guy is your "best guy friend" after you've seen what he did to your sis!!He sounds really immature to me.Sit back and think,is this someone you really wanna put all that energy of being in a relationship with?!Recall how your sis felt after he was such a jerk to her!!Don't put yourself in a position where you're begging to get hurt.Find a guy that will love,appreciate,and RESPECT you,not a guy who sounds full of it!!
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First I would talk to your sister and see how she would feel about you going out with her ex. And then, I think you should try giving him a chance. He probably didn't realize that he was being mean to her when he flirted with you in front of her. He must have liked you all along and maybe he is just now realizing it after breaking up with your sister.
If he's still just as mean to you as he was to your sister than break up with him. But it could be different with you. You never know until you try.
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i think you should give him a chance, especially if you think he's changed. but if he starts acting like he did when he was with you sister then i think you should end it right there and stick to being friends because you don't need a guy that's acting like a jerk to you! i hope everything turns out alright & lemme know how it goes!
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ok, i would give him a chance and if he acts like a jerk then 4get it!! he shouldnt treat u like tht newayz! hope i helped u!
~devin~
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First you have to think if this will start any trouble between you and your sister. If it is, then its not worth it, because your friendship with your sister is forever, guys come and go. But, if it wont' be a problem, then you also need to make sure this guy has changed becuase he dogged the heck out of your sister and I don't think you would want to go through the same pain. Good Luck! :)
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I think you should first talk to ur sister.Ask her if its ok and stuff.Then if she is ok with it than definitally give him a chance.If he blows it then u can always break up w/ him.Good luck babe
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Hey hunn, if your instincts say not to, and he was a crappy bf to a girl (UR SISTER!) then don't let him look at u from afar! <3 Alyssa
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