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in the middle
my two friends, "ally" and "laurie" are in a fight. i am REALLY good friends with both, and so i get together with each and equal amount. the only problem is that whenever i'm doing something with ally, she disses laurie, and whenever i'm doing something with laurie she disses ally. i obviously don't talk about either of them behind there backs, but i don't know what to do to get them to stop. plz help.
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well tell both of ur friends that they are both of ur friends and you dont appreciate it when they talk about each other
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Tell them that sthey need to understand that you are friends with both of them and that they cant be saying stuff like that about you r friend. Tell them that it makes you feel uncomfortable. and that they need to except the fact that you have more then just one friend.
-MIZZ_C
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Well this might back fire and not work for you but it worked for me when I was in the middle of a 4 month long battle between my 2 best friends. I called them both over there and told them I wanted them to stay the night, but the thing is they didn't know that the other one was going to be there. And when they got there they were totally shocked and mad at me at first, but then I said "Look yall have me in a bad place I can't keep going back and fourth with yall, we need to settle this right now." Believe it or not...it worked! Maybe you should try that! Good luck and I hope I helped!
xox kayla xox
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Whateevr you do DON'T pick sides. That could make everything go wrong.
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Well .... try to get them to say sorry to each other. Tell them that fighting is immature...'cause it is.......just try that, okay? well good luck
--katie--
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Don't let them put you in the middle, tell them their discussing their problems with the wrong person and they need to tell each other.
~KiSsEs~
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i was just in that exact position!! i ended up having to tell them both that i dont like it when they talked about eachother...and that they need to work it out with eachother instead of bringing me into it. i also let them know that i didnt talk about them...it worked for me!!
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maybe say, if you have a problem with them then don't tell me about it, talk to the other person and solve it. and be like i don't want 2 get caught up in the middle or something like that.
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try telling them that ur gud friends with both of them and u dont like bein the middle person in their fight.. make them get together and work it out.. im sure everything will turn out alright! good luck!
-*Tay
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u hsould get both of ur friends together and tell them if they dont stop fighting then ur not goanna talk to either of them because ur i nthe middle of it and that u feel like the bad guy .. hope i helped please rate me
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same thing happened to me! my mom gave me some advice: here it goes! well tell both of them that u'd like for them not to talk about each other when ur around them! it worked for me...but
i'm still in the middle and it's still working!
hope i helped!!=)
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