hola! :) well i'm Taylor and i'm 14 ( in the 9th grade )im a pretty understanding person and i get along with just about everyone and i love to make people laugh! nothing is better than smiling and laughing! :) my friends say im really crazy and funny so i guess that means im gud at makin ppl laugh haha! im alwayz willing to help anyone bout anything and im the one my friends alwayz come to with problems so i figured id get an advice column! im also a pretty honest person so i tell it like it is most of the time! i hope i can help all of yall! love yall all and have a splendid day! :)
Gender: Female
AIM: Babyxtx09
Member Since: June 30, 2004
Answers: 60
Last Update: July 20, 2004
Visitors: 2678
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k soo ..i kissed my best friend and i want to do it again but he gut a girll who is older than him ..but i dont like her that much..but still..its funn..and i think i like him..do i keep doing it? (link)
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naw you shudnt do that.. i mean if u like him try tellin him but if hes got a gurl then u juz shudnt do that.. yea you dont like the gurl but what kinda reflection is it on ur character if you wud kiss someone who already has a gurlfriend? so juz try talkin to him and see if he likes you and if he does then try n ask him to break up with his g/f for u.. and if he doesnt then o well there are plenty of other guys that are also fun to kiss lol hope i helped! :)
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-*Tay
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WHat do guys want in a girl? (link)
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yea i wish it was that easy to answer that one.. but who knows.. every guy is diff but yet in a since theyre all the same lol :)
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her story
female,20 2 children eldest 2 youngest 7 weeks,differant dads when i drink alchol i get violent not al the time just when im stressed my partner over the past 4 weeks my partener has broken my finger n given me a black eye on both occasions he has said sorry and it will never happen again. he has taken my eldest son on as his own. i dont want to be a single mum with 2 children by differant fathers but i dont want to be a nervous wreck either i feel low in myself he alwys puts me down telling me im ugly and fat i just dont know which way to turn the violence only happens when we are both drunk please give me advice.
his story
this is what my girlfriend wrote.
just to clear a few things up. she used to hit me a lot. after about 5 different incidents a told her that if she didnt seek help i was leaving her. she went to see a shrink once! when she said i broke her finger what actually happened was she hit me so i held her hand so she hit me with the other so i grabbed that hand to so then she butted me in the nose so i butted her back and pushed her off the bed and thats how she broke her finger.
with the black eye we had an argument so i went and got in the spare bed she followed me in a started shouting and went for me and proper scratched my face (which has scared) so i pushed on the bed so she came for me again so i punched her. now i thoroughly regret what i did and the only reason it happened is coz we had both had vodka. i have quit drinking full stop. she on the other hand hasnt. i do really regret what happened but no one out there is perfect. i love her to pieces and i WONT do it again no matter wat u woman say. u woman have said leave him and get a restraining order. would u say that if u were twenty didnt work but looked after the kids while ur boyfriend went out and earned u both £25,000 a year and gave u everything u wanted. gave up his social life and got rid of all his friends to stay in every nite and look after you and the kids. i dont think u would. i know money aint every thing but it does help provide her with a good life style
a few other points. on the night i gave her a black eye she was extremely pissed and had already battered two girls that night for no reason she was completely out of control. she is an extremely violent person as well. i aint perfect by a long way but i aint 100% to blame and i dont think she should leave me like all you woman say cause i need her and she needs me. i love her no matter how much shit she gives me, okay i broke the boundary that you shouldnt hit a woman but she needed to know that it isnt nice being hit by your partner. how many woman would try taking an overdose because there boyfreind went out with a few mates from work (the first time ever!!) and stayed out till 9pm. not many. how was i meant to know she had post natal depression. how many guys actually know wat a woman is going through when she says she has it, none!!! now i have realised how badly she needs help and i have started giving it her.
do u think she should leave me
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to be truthful.. it sounds like yalls relationship is really rough and unless both of yall sober up and try to put some effort into it then its gunna go down the drain.. i hate to sound so depressin but thats wut im gettin from it.. the woman needs to get help bout ur abusive nature and drinking habits and maybe u cud join her for moral support.. but if that doesnt help then maybe yall just shudnt be together.. i wish yall the best of luck and i hope i helped..
-*Tay
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I see some people have really cool backrounds on there column how did you get and where did u get it? (link)
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um idk i just look around and find diff designs then when u find a background u like u right click then click on properties and copy the url site.. then u juz paste it in ur settings where it says URL for background.. and thats bout it!
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I have never had a true boyfriend before, and well im kinda lonely, so a couple days ago i asked my dog out and he said yes, so now me n my dog are going out, he asked me if i wanted to give him head but i told him i wasnt ready wen i really was i cant believe i lied to him...ok well imma go give him head...do you think tis wrong to go out with your dog? (link)
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o yea i go out with my dog all the time.. its totally fine!
hahaha jk i think not
..weird ass :)..
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Hi I am a 26 yearold lady and my husband has been beating me eversince we got married he even beats are adopded child and she is only 2 I am always trying to keep me and Shauna (my daughter) away from the house when people call for me he says im not there and hangs up and then throws the phone at me this may sound wierd about me asking a 15 year old for advice but any advice will help thank you (link)
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you need to get help.. right away.. dont even put up with that.. ur endangering your life and your daughters by staying with him.. if he has been beating you then theyre are probably bruises on your body and your childs.. try going to the police and showing them the bruises and telling them wut ur husbands been doing.. they will probably help you.. then go to one of those shelters for abused women and move out of the house and stay with a friend.. believe me youll be very happy hes out of ur life if u do all of this and hes put in jail for wut hes done to u and ur daughter.. hope i helped..
-*Tay
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** instead of using the guys real name i'll use Joe-
well first of all .. Joe asked me for the name of my friend Lilly bcuz he got her #- and i wouldnt tell him and hes all dont tell her i 4got it and i put a smiley face and hes all Grl dont be an ass and do this- and hes all stay out of my life.. then a min or two l8r he said well at least outa my love life- then this stuff happend-
Me): i dont get why u have to get with a bunch of grl.. why dont u be happy with one?
Joe): I dont have one, **** and I are broken up
Me): ok but i mean im sure she still cares and possibly hurts her if ur with other grls
Joe):***** doesnt care just chill out what does it matter?
Me): im just sayin and tryin to point that out 2 u because you shouldnt be a player all ur life
Joe): wtf just because I played you doesnt mean I play everyone else ok
Joe): Im single
JOe): I can go for any girl that I want
Me): ok
Joe): Im still in love with ***** and Im not going to hook up with that chick
Me): im just tryin to point sumthin important out 2 u dont get all bitchy at me
Joe): well you're jumping into my love life
Me): k sry.
Joe): no one ever said I was going to hook up with that girl
Joe): I dont even know her name
Joe): just chill
Me): k
Joe): why do you care if I get her #?
Me): i dont care- but i just dont seeing u play grls- idk why but it just bothers me sumtymes- because it seems like you dont care or something
Joe: how the hell is getting a girls # playing her?!
Joe): Im single
Me): nvm u dont get it
Me): btw her names Lilly
- then i stopped talkin 2 him.. I really love him and im soo stupid for it.. but idk what to do? i need sum advice please help!!
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okay that guy seems like an ass.. dont even waste your time on him! seriously! lol like just no.. lol i know u feel stupid cuz u do like him cuz thats wut happens to every gurl when they love someone and they shudnt.. and its gunna be hard to get over him! but u can do it! juz do nething besides think bout him.. something thatll take ur mind off of him when u start to think of him.. like drawin swimmin or dancing or nething! soon enuf ull realize juz how much u dont need him and u can find someone better! i hope i helped! good luck!
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-*Tay
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Hey, ive been told im "hott"or"sexy" and i just dont feel that way. . .i mean other paeople may think so but im 14 and i have long blonde hair, dark green eyes i fill a large B cup have okay hips and my butt is a lil big. . .i personally think im too skinny im about 5' 6" and i only weigh 115 lbs. i dont kno if thats a bad thing. . .but i was wondering if i could have some advice about how i could make myself look better make-up, or maybe even gain weight? i dun know but if you wanna, can you halp me plz. . . .?
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well ur weight and height sounds about like me.. im bout 110 and ive tried to gain weight too but ppl tell me that now i look gud at this weight so ive kept it so maybe u dont need to gain weight n u actually look gud there! and bout the butt.. i kinda have a lil bit of a big butt that i wish wud dissapear but o well ive learned to accept that its there! lol on ur makeup i suggest u concentrate on ur eyes cuz green eyes are rare and theyre also really pretty! but dont over do it! juz try some eyeliner on top and bottom with mascara ( maybelline sky high curves is gud! ) and try like colors like a lite gold or something settle ( suddle? idk how to spell :-/ school didnt help me much! haha ) hope i helped ya! good luck!
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-*Tay
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my friend is a lesbo and she hits on me all the time and i dont know what to do PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
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tell her that ur just not like that.. u like her as a friend and just a friend and it makes u uncomfortable when she tries to hit on u! tell her u still want to be her friend but u dont like it when she makes a move on ya! im sure shell stop! cause maybe right now she juz has the wrong idea between yall but once u get it out there that u dont like it then shell understand! good luck!
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-*Tay
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ok im bisexual and im 15/f im w/ this 18 yr old that realllly likes me n i realllly like her but my parents found out about us and threatned to put her in jail if we continue to talk but we still date n jus keep it away from my parents, we've been together for almost a year now but i dont wantmy parents to find out and we barely talk or see each other bcuz of it ... but i dont want to stop seeing her bcuz we really r in love and ive never felt this way about any1 should i still continue to date her? (link)
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yes i think you should.. true love doesnt come along often.. so if yall really are in love you shud keep that going between yall.. be careful though bout ur parents cuz ive been in a relationship that was illegal b4 and i had to lie to my parents and it was hard.. me n him finally broke up but for other reasons.. so yea i think yall shud continue to date juz keep it on the down low and dont flaunt it everywhere or else ur parents mite find out! good luck! :)
-*Tay
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I am really white, but i have freckles on my face so every time i go in the sun my frackles seem to get darker but not my skin! i want to go to a tanning salon but iono how much it is, and i heard you could get cancer. should i just put sunscreen on my face then the freckles wont get darker but then i wont get a tan on my face too, what do i do??? (link)
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i am the *exact* same way (( look at my pictures )) lol and im still trying to figure that one out! but for some reason i dont burn or tan.. i have to be out in the sun for a looooong time b4 i start to tan with no sunblock on.. so idk how easily you burn or tan.. if u burn easily then DEF put on sunblock or ur gunna regret it! and bout freckles gettin darker.. idk ive juz learned to accept it and hope that it doesnt get bad! lol and i dont go to tanning beds that often.. i mean i have b4.. one or twice wont kill ya juz dont make it a daily habit cuz thats when it gets dangerous enuf to get cancer! good luck!
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-*Tay
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Is there anyway to prevent razor burn or bumps whatever theyre called, when you shave..down there..and also do the razor bump thingys make the top itch sometimes or is there just something wrong with me (link)
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um i dont know of a way to prevent em exactly.. try putting lotion on it or something but yea its normal for it to itch
-*Tay
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We all know that love is a sweet but sad thing... Well me na this guy have dated 2 times before an it didnt work out because of the people around us always starting shit. Finally i realized to just not believe drama anymore and stick to me an him .. well hes in the army and right now hes just in training but hes been gone alot but we've been together for about 2 months but i love him ... Hes the sweetest sin you kno- He goes to iraq for a year in november and he told my best friend that more then likely were gonna breka up for that year and its hard cause i dont want us to break up ever i just cant see me without him for a whole year. I understand thats a long time to be with a guy but not actually with him so i gues shes right .. but do you think hes just saying that because he wants us to break up ? I dont kno what to do bout this guy anymore .. please i need someones advice (link)
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try asking him wut it is he feels for you and thatll help you figure out if he wants to break up or if it really is cause he has to go away for a year.. if its just cause he has to go away for a year than that will be kind of like a test for yall during that time if yall really do care bout each other enuf to kind of wait on one another.. and maybe when he comes back yall will still want to be together! so when it happens try and enjoy that time and hopefully yall will still care about each other when he comes back! good luck!
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-*Tay
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i have a feeling my boyfriend is cheating on me, everytime i call some girl will answer and she says hes not there and just hangs up the phone without me even getting to say ok or bye, i know its not his mom cuz i know her voice and he doesnt have any sisters, and i know that no family is visiting. what should i tell him?? (link)
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well before you start jumping to the conclusion that hes cheating why dont you try asking him first if anybody is staying with them? i mean besides family.. just anybody.. and if he says no then u can ask him if there is somin wrong with yalls relationship or if hes seeing another gurl.. hopefully hes not and i hope everything is okay between yall! good luck!
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how do you stay friends with so many people? Its seems to me that when i start to branch out to other friends I end up leaving my old ones behind on accident. I cant juggle them all. And when I say my old friends I dont mean my dearest friends or anything like that, just my other friends. I dont know how to do it! Oh I was also wondering what grade you are going into... just curiousity!
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idk how to stay with friends with a lot of ppl.. ive never really thought about it i guess i have my really close best friends but then there are those ppl who are friends and i stay friends with them by talking to them every now and hanging out with them occasionally and helping them with problems.. just letting them know that your alwayz there makes them want to stay you friend.. and im not perfect so i too have lost some of my old friends by finding new ones and i regret it but i prob cudda just stayed friends with them if i had called them every now n then and asked them to hang out.. its juz all about spending time with other ppl! o and im going to be a freshman next year :) lol hope i helped ya!
-*Tay
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so u moved...went 2 cinco 4 a year, decided u didnt like cinco(dont blame ya, lol, i go 2 katy), n then jus told ur mom "hey i dont like cinco lets move n go 2 taylor(btw my aunt is the drill team leader at taylor)" n she sed ok or wut...haha i'm nosy sry, lol (link)
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yea if your trying to talk to alicia then plez stop doing it in the public questioning.. do it on her advice column.. http://advicenators.com/column.php?u=BarbieGurl111111
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i jus wannted 2 tell u this, it has been bugging me 4 awhile...about a year ago i met this guy online through a guy that i kno who lives in florida n i live in texas, newayz we like flirted a lot n we really liked each other a lot, n he asked me 4 a pic of me n i didnt have 1 so i was like hey shes pretty so i copied n pasted ur pic n emailed it 2 him saying it was me, i still like told him i was me its jus i sent him ur pic, not like i was tryin 2 be u n tell him i was alicia or nething, but newayz he found out that those pics were not me n i felt like so dumb n i regretted it so much, but i'm glad he found out b/c if i had really gotten close w/ him n he found out after we had known each other 4 a long time it would have really hurt him, it still hurt him but i'm jus glad he found out, it was not fair 2 him at all, but i jus wanted 2 apologize 4 doin that....it was not right (link)
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yea i think shes been tryin to talk to alicia becerra - barbiegurl111111
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is it ok to date online (link)
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um you can but its not the best idea in the world.. if you do meet someone online its can be dangerous to go out and meet em in person.. especially if your a gurl.. but ive heard those online dating services work really well so i dont know.. but i personally wouldnt do it.. its too complicated too
-*Tay
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hi, i'm a lil nosy, but i'm gunna ask newayz jus cuz i'm curious, lol, o well, newayz i was jw y dont u ever talk about ur dad?? do u jus not have a close relationship w/ him or sumthin... (link)
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okay who are you talking to...? specify who it is your asking..?
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i was wondering if anyone tried the acne stuff proactiv or natures cure, and if so did it work for you, and how long did it take for you to see an improvement.. & also, what type of case of acne should you have b4 using it, and what type did you have?? (link)
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okay i havent personally used it but i have a guy friend of mine who used proactiv and he had some *REALLY* bad acne but then over the summer he started using it and when he came back to school it was liek a miracle.. his face was so cleared up and he was really hot lol.. idk how long it took for it to clear up but if u use it everyday then it shud clear up ur face in atleast two months cuz thats about as long the summer was!
-*Tay
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