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Army guys...
We all know that love is a sweet but sad thing... Well me na this guy have dated 2 times before an it didnt work out because of the people around us always starting shit. Finally i realized to just not believe drama anymore and stick to me an him .. well hes in the army and right now hes just in training but hes been gone alot but we've been together for about 2 months but i love him ... Hes the sweetest sin you kno- He goes to iraq for a year in november and he told my best friend that more then likely were gonna breka up for that year and its hard cause i dont want us to break up ever i just cant see me without him for a whole year. I understand thats a long time to be with a guy but not actually with him so i gues shes right .. but do you think hes just saying that because he wants us to break up ? I dont kno what to do bout this guy anymore .. please i need someones advice
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OK this is hard...i dont see why you have to break up if he goes to iraq unless you want to pursue other relationships. dont stay with him if ur gunna be with other guys while hes gone cuz then it will just make him sad. write LOTS of letters!! they love letters!!! just talk aobut it and follow ur heart!
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I think hez just being realistic. Because to people being apart for a year especially at a young age. especially with all of those other guyz around, tha mite ask you and you mite like. I think you should just ebd it before you get hurt.
-MIZZ_C
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i think maybe u two breaking up is the right thing to do cuase u can really have time for ruself to think if u should waste ur time missing him wen hes gone u kno and he probably doesnt want like drama wen he leaves cuase wen u leave to a far place u dont wanan be thinking about wat ur gf is doing back home u kno hope i helped rate me please and if u two are meant for each other then wen he comes back he'll have the heart to look for u
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try asking him wut it is he feels for you and thatll help you figure out if he wants to break up or if it really is cause he has to go away for a year.. if its just cause he has to go away for a year than that will be kind of like a test for yall during that time if yall really do care bout each other enuf to kind of wait on one another.. and maybe when he comes back yall will still want to be together! so when it happens try and enjoy that time and hopefully yall will still care about each other when he comes back! good luck!
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-*Tay
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Here's what I think. Love is one of the most precious things in the world. If you truly love him, then you should have no trouble talking to him. If he feels the same way then thats great! If he dosent, dont spend time dwelling on the past. You may not want to hear this but there are plenty of fish in the sea! If you need any more advice go to my advice collum-on this site- Tiffany Croft
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* i think you should talk to him about your feelings, tell him how you feel and if he still try's other things to break apart from you then maybe he does want you two to break up.. Your friend is probably right.. he should be consintrating on his work- and if thats really the truth then try to give him the year.. i kno it'll be hard but just go out alot with friends.. * i hope i helped * - rate me if u have time!
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