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Hey I have been through alotta stuff maybe some of the stuff you have. I read Dear Abby everyday! I'm a dork! lol well im here to help!!
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Member Since: June 1, 2004
Answers: 13
Last Update: August 23, 2004
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how can you tell if you have a yeast infection and what do you do to treat it with out going to the doctors.. like what are the symptomns.. ill rate!! (link)
just go to the doctors it will save alot of time and alot of grief and itching. believe me the doctors is the best way dont be embaressed its their job! go!


what r some good products to remove makeup? say how much urs cost n where u got it plz! ill rate u!! also, how do u use ur products to actually get the make up off?? i need help to get my eyeliner off (both top and BOTTOM LASHES!!) i dont want my mom to think i look slutty, cuz she says ppl do when they were eyeliner, and sumtimes when i try to get the eyeliner/mascara off, itll take out sum of my eyelashes! i hate it cuz theyre my best feature n i dont want that happenning!! so plz help! (link)
i used eye makeup remover from sephora a bottle costs only 8 dollars. it wont make them fall out and it wont hurt if u get it in ur eyes. whatever you do though dont use just stridex or oxi those arent meant to be makeup removers and hurt like hell when they get in ur eye!!


I am sure that this auestion has been asked before but I'd like some answers pertaining to my exact situation. I ussually hate online advice forums, but thougth I'd give it a try before I critisize it. Ok, so enough, here's my problem.

My best friend is a girl. She (and I) are 15 years old. I've known her for about two years now. We have been through so much together and help eachother out in so many ways that I see our friendship permanent unless I personally screw it up. When we first met, I immediatly liked her and wanted to date her. When I found out she felt the same way, I planned on asking her out. But some stupid girl found out that she liked me and proclaimed it to the school and also wrote a letter from me (which I didn't write) to her asking her out. Then this menace of a girl embarrased her in front of the entire cafeteria by starting a chant of "ask her out (then my name)". After that, we just became friends and never really brought it up again. It's been two years since then and we have both had at least one boyfriend or girlfriend. I am starting to really like her and it haints me that we never even gave it a shot. But I am not sure if she likes me more than a best friend or if she would agree to go out with me. She is the only person I trust and I can't give her up as a friend, which is why I haven't risked our friendship by asking her out. So, where do I go? What do I do? What do I tell her? What will she say? If she refuses to go out with me, will our friendship be awkward and ruined? (link)
Just casually bring it up...say well have you ever thought of us as being more than just friends, or would you want to be because i like you. if she refuses then your friendship will be a lil awkward but eventually it will get back on track. you have to tell her cuz if u dont u will regret it forever!!
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okay, well me and my husband got married like almost a year ago. the problem is im ready to have kids, but he says he doesn't want to have kids..ever! i really love him, and we have so much in common and we always have fun together, but this is like the first thing we have disagreed on and i really don't no what to do. please help. (link)
Well this sounds like something that you should have talked about be4 you got married. anways you guys need marital counsoling!!
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Hi everyone, I'm a 14/f, and i'm unsure of what to do. For the past year or so I've been really passionate about wanting to become an actress when I grow up. I've loved acting and pretending all my life, and last year i decided i wanted to make it my career. I told all my friends and my parents, and now they're all rooting me on to become and actress. Here's the trouble. Lately, I've been losing passion in it. Not that I wouldn't like to act, but i think I've decided that I don't want to spend years and years hoping for a break in Hollywood. I've decided that I want go into modeling for two reasons 1.) i don't think i'm gorgeous, but i think i'm pretty enough where I could do it and become (hopefully) famous. 2.) Modeling sometimes leads into acting jobs. what do you think? Should I keep up my 'dream' of becoming an actress, or should I embrace the new dream of becoming a model?
thankz! ~unsure (link)
Welll it sounds like you really wanted to become an actress but then you doubted yourself so now ur trying to take what you think is the easier way...well it isnt and you should still try to be an actress. people dont take models as seriously as they just take actresses. has trya banks ever been in a good movie?? just think about it!
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I think im addicted to cutting.... and i like it but i want to stop.... how do i stop? (My parents know and im not talking to a damn physcologist)
~Kele~ (link)
You gotta go see a professional. or u can just stop instead of cutting yourself everyday do it only every other day, then go to once a week, then to once and month..etc its hard but pretty soon ull get used to not cutting. also when your angry dont get it out by cutting write in a journal. i hope these helped you..


I am thinking of going to france, but I don't know french. I've heard french people are really mean about stuff like that. If my french isn't that good, will they be really mean to me? (link)
No if you go to Paris they wont be mean!! lots of ppl kno english i love the french they are wonderful people. i dont kno about outside of paris, but in the French speaking part of Switzerland they are also very nice! dont be worried there are lots of ppl that speak english!


ok.. like 3 years ago i decided to decorate my room with posters and pictures from all the musicians i liked. well this was in 7th grade and i liked britney spears and all that, but i hate that kind of music now.
i want to take all those posters down and put up new ones with good bands (thursday, dashboard, NOFX, ataris, new found glory.. etc.) does anyone kow of any magizines that have these kinds of bands in them, instead of the teen mags that have justin timberlake and chingy..
i really appreciate your help!!

hugs and kisses,

~simplysweetstar~ (link)
well yeah rollingstone--sometimes, NME--really great british mag but its kinda spendy!!,SPIN is a good one. also if you look at guitar mags they have good bands in them focused on the guitarists!! you just gotta kno where to look to find them go to an independant music store or to barnes and noble where theres tons of mags!!


Where would i go swimming?? I dont live in apartments and I dont have a pool (link)
Public pools in your neighborhood!!! there probably are some. or you can join a club that has a pool. there are plenty of pools you can go to meet new ppl!! and lots of pools have teen swim at night time which is really fun!


We all know that love is a sweet but sad thing... Well me na this guy have dated 2 times before an it didnt work out because of the people around us always starting shit. Finally i realized to just not believe drama anymore and stick to me an him .. well hes in the army and right now hes just in training but hes been gone alot but we've been together for about 2 months but i love him ... Hes the sweetest sin you kno- He goes to iraq for a year in november and he told my best friend that more then likely were gonna breka up for that year and its hard cause i dont want us to break up ever i just cant see me without him for a whole year. I understand thats a long time to be with a guy but not actually with him so i gues shes right .. but do you think hes just saying that because he wants us to break up ? I dont kno what to do bout this guy anymore .. please i need someones advice (link)
OK this is hard...i dont see why you have to break up if he goes to iraq unless you want to pursue other relationships. dont stay with him if ur gunna be with other guys while hes gone cuz then it will just make him sad. write LOTS of letters!! they love letters!!! just talk aobut it and follow ur heart!


idk what to do anymore. theres this guy that i met last summer, we hooked up n stuff..then stopped keeping in touch for the longest time bcuz he lost his cell phone...when he finally saw me one day in april, we kept back in touch n everything..we started to hang out agian.. we began doing more things together..but i feel like hes using me. when we're alone together..hes different.. he seems so into me..like he really likes me. hes not one you can trust tho. some of my friends think hes bad news and dont want me hanging out with him n his friends anymore. for some reason i cant do that. hes coming back to my school next year. im going to see him n his friends everyday. i still sorta have feelings for him..i know im going to get hurt. last night i had fun with them..but as the night went on, he started acting diff. idk if i want to deal with him anymore. im starting to like his friends more than him. i told him how i felt..he denies that hes only using me..but i just cant seem to believe him. should i keep hanging out with them..knowing someday i might get hurt..or just end it never knowing what would've happend? please help me im so confused. (link)
ok you said it yourself...you know your gunna get hurt. dont do this to urself break off all ties with this guy. your friends are right hes bad news...sorry but its true. go for nicer guys so you dont even have to question whether they are using you or not!


I really really wanna be an actress, and i wanted to know how do i get started
i've wanted to be an actress for the past 2yrs
i've dun drama class and now that im a freshman in high skool, i'm taking theatre, but how do i find stuff to act in, where do i find out about what new movies need people to act in them
im 14/f/nc if that makes a difference
thx a bunch
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well since ur young first start out in theater...there is probably theater group in your area that performs plays that are pretty big. do that for a while and once you've been a lead and gotten good parts in a number of plays try finding an agent or sending your pic to talent companies. tell your parents about your dreams. just get experience first so u have a good resume. and if u do find a talent company dont pay for acting school, you should never have to pay!! hope i helped!!


im a 13 year old girl and i think i might like this guy who is in my summer school class.i am pretty sure he is 14.hes really cute and he seems really sweet but i cant be sure if that yet.i really REALLY wanna get to kno him. i wanna b friends with him and talk to him. how can i start getting to kno him and talking to him? (link)
You should just go up to him and start talking. ask him questions...boys LOVE to talk about themselves!! or make a joke about summer school...like how boring ur teacher is or something. then after a while ask him if he wants to go to lunch or a movie or something.




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